Alt.com and D/s

So I found Alt.com and it opened new doors. That was about 5 years ago. I'd say many of the people I encountered were open minded. Some were pushy. And some were out and out rude. But I did meet someone on there and it started me on my journey into D/s.

We started with e-mails and phone chats. And by the time he started asking me to do some assignments, I found that I was more intrigued and definitely wanted to learn more and explore this side of myself. The biggest thing for me was finding someone who was safe and sane. And someone who didn't have his ego getting in the way. So I was pleased that I had been lucky enough to encounter an open minded person who was willing to teach a newbie the ropes so to speak 😉

So we met for lunch. And we began meeting for sessions. He had a wide array of bondage tricks and positions that I had never seen before. And I began to learn about pushing my limits with pain/spanking as we went along. It was different from the tickling and bondage I was used to, but it forged such a deep connection of trust between us, I was intrigued by these new feelings. When he asked me to be his girl and gave me necklace to match his own - ironically, it had a yin yang symbol which to him symbolized our completion of each other and a feather which symbolized the wind and knowledge - I knew I had been blessed enough to find a Dom who cared.