So first off I will say I know, as well as some other know that there are fakes on this site. Mostly or if only people posing as females and more so female lees. I've recently been catfished by one so individual on here, and just wanted to vent it out so others know. Before I start I will say who it was so if you don't want to read the whole story you don't have to. Also I ask that you don't be all "dug" etc... as I was in a bad place emotionally and state of mind which blinded me to the things I would've normally seen.
With that said... JennyTickles and her "sister" AlishaTickles are not real don't fall for their shit. My experience is with Jenny, and have since been informed that the accounts appear linked.
So... this is what happened...
I've been friends with Jenny pretty much since she became a member. Chatting here as well as on yahoo for quite awhile. Roughly 5 months ago I finally got out of my horrible 6 year long emotionally abusive and manipulative relationship. Around that time Jenny and I started texting a few weeks after.
Around this time we started discussing meeting up for Labor Day weekend as we were relatively close, her being in Saint Paul and me in Madison. She became excited and started making all these plans, and had "requested" time off of work for it as she's apparently a RN.
We continued texting, throughout that time, for the most part it was just about every day we'd end up texting. Around the end of July we were texting and talking about liking one another and by the end of it became a "together" (at least so I thought).
Throughout August we continued to text, and role play on yahoo from time to time, and she continued to plan the whole weekend out. Things seemed great, she'd warned me that she might not be able to get off early enough to pick me up from the bus depot as I took half of Thursday, and all of Friday to have an extended weekend.
Finally the trip, we continued to text during my bus ride over, roughly six hours, while she had breaks and what not at work. She mentioned before I arrived it wasn't looking good for her getting off early and I'd probably need to get a room for the night. I arrived, she was still working I ended up getting a room for the night.
The next morning (Friday) I got up early as I was excited, and didn't sleep well as I kept checking my phone all night. I didn't get a message from her until around 11:00am, and she was stuck at work again. I was getting disappointed and upset at this point as I was realizing what was probably happening. She texted me to "go to her apartment lobby and wait there for her to get off, she lives on (omitted) street, and that her apartment was the largest building on the street." That's when I was starting to really get down. I'd replied to give me that address as I can GPS it, and no reply.
So I ended up walking around Saint Paul in the awful humidity that day, sweating bullets and carrying my two bags. She then texted again, "it's on the corner of (omitted) and (omitted) streets". I found out shortly after that, that those streets were parallel and never cross at all. Shortly after this I got another text to go to (omitted) Hospital as it's the one she works at and I can wait for her there. Of course this just reinvigorated me for a few reasons, one I was already there, and two perhaps my anxiety was wrong and this wasn't a fake/catfish situation.
I excitedly hustled to the Hospital as I found on my GPS that it was only 15 minute walk from where I was. I arrived there texting I was there and waiting in one of the lounges. I was friendly talking with the guards and those around the lounge area, hoping she'd get off soon as I hadn't eaten that day yet either.
She continued to text me updates about what was going on, and how she was super busy and trying to get out. She at one point asked if I was really there (trying to shift blame perhaps or hoping I didn't actually go, not sure), as she had apparently walked around twice and didn't see me. I was confused there as if it were me, I would've called or texted if it were me, and that's when the anxiety started to rise again. She replied saying that I was in a different spot she thought I was.
I basically waited there for 13 hours while she strung me along via "update" texts. I waited basically because what else was I going to do? I was hungry, I had my contacts in for around 24 hours, and exhausted as it was around 5:00am. Around that time a guard I'd been talking to felt bad for me and said he'd go ask around in back. After about 10 minutes he came back and said "No one by that name works here". I know my expression dropped as I could see the guard's reaction to my facial expression. I grabbed my two bags, apologized for being there for so long, and asked where any hotels were. He pointed out a direction, but as it was a business district they weren't very close.
I left the Hospital and wandered around for about an hour trying to find a hotel that wasn't booked as it was state fair time there and most were all booked up. I finally found one around 6:00am, and was told that if I only paid for one night I'd have to check out at noon, so I paid for two, went to the room, showered and passed out.
So in the end, I woke up Saturday and it all hit me. All the different emotions, destroyed, broken, humiliated, etc... It was a very dark day for me, and I'm glad I was locked up in a hotel. I ended up coming on here for some reason, and going to the chat. There were a few people there that I can't begin to thank enough for how wonderful they were to me on that day, and continue to be. I have let the powers that be know of what happened, and got confirmation that in fact things are "fishy" which at least gave me some closure.
My apologies for the tremendously long blog but as I get asked about the story still I'd rather be able to refer people to this instead of hitting up the chat room with it anymore.
Those of you that helped you know who you are, you can comment if you'd like as well. Again apologies for the long blog post.
With that said... JennyTickles and her "sister" AlishaTickles are not real don't fall for their shit. My experience is with Jenny, and have since been informed that the accounts appear linked.
So... this is what happened...
I've been friends with Jenny pretty much since she became a member. Chatting here as well as on yahoo for quite awhile. Roughly 5 months ago I finally got out of my horrible 6 year long emotionally abusive and manipulative relationship. Around that time Jenny and I started texting a few weeks after.
Around this time we started discussing meeting up for Labor Day weekend as we were relatively close, her being in Saint Paul and me in Madison. She became excited and started making all these plans, and had "requested" time off of work for it as she's apparently a RN.
We continued texting, throughout that time, for the most part it was just about every day we'd end up texting. Around the end of July we were texting and talking about liking one another and by the end of it became a "together" (at least so I thought).
Throughout August we continued to text, and role play on yahoo from time to time, and she continued to plan the whole weekend out. Things seemed great, she'd warned me that she might not be able to get off early enough to pick me up from the bus depot as I took half of Thursday, and all of Friday to have an extended weekend.
Finally the trip, we continued to text during my bus ride over, roughly six hours, while she had breaks and what not at work. She mentioned before I arrived it wasn't looking good for her getting off early and I'd probably need to get a room for the night. I arrived, she was still working I ended up getting a room for the night.
The next morning (Friday) I got up early as I was excited, and didn't sleep well as I kept checking my phone all night. I didn't get a message from her until around 11:00am, and she was stuck at work again. I was getting disappointed and upset at this point as I was realizing what was probably happening. She texted me to "go to her apartment lobby and wait there for her to get off, she lives on (omitted) street, and that her apartment was the largest building on the street." That's when I was starting to really get down. I'd replied to give me that address as I can GPS it, and no reply.
So I ended up walking around Saint Paul in the awful humidity that day, sweating bullets and carrying my two bags. She then texted again, "it's on the corner of (omitted) and (omitted) streets". I found out shortly after that, that those streets were parallel and never cross at all. Shortly after this I got another text to go to (omitted) Hospital as it's the one she works at and I can wait for her there. Of course this just reinvigorated me for a few reasons, one I was already there, and two perhaps my anxiety was wrong and this wasn't a fake/catfish situation.
I excitedly hustled to the Hospital as I found on my GPS that it was only 15 minute walk from where I was. I arrived there texting I was there and waiting in one of the lounges. I was friendly talking with the guards and those around the lounge area, hoping she'd get off soon as I hadn't eaten that day yet either.
She continued to text me updates about what was going on, and how she was super busy and trying to get out. She at one point asked if I was really there (trying to shift blame perhaps or hoping I didn't actually go, not sure), as she had apparently walked around twice and didn't see me. I was confused there as if it were me, I would've called or texted if it were me, and that's when the anxiety started to rise again. She replied saying that I was in a different spot she thought I was.
I basically waited there for 13 hours while she strung me along via "update" texts. I waited basically because what else was I going to do? I was hungry, I had my contacts in for around 24 hours, and exhausted as it was around 5:00am. Around that time a guard I'd been talking to felt bad for me and said he'd go ask around in back. After about 10 minutes he came back and said "No one by that name works here". I know my expression dropped as I could see the guard's reaction to my facial expression. I grabbed my two bags, apologized for being there for so long, and asked where any hotels were. He pointed out a direction, but as it was a business district they weren't very close.
I left the Hospital and wandered around for about an hour trying to find a hotel that wasn't booked as it was state fair time there and most were all booked up. I finally found one around 6:00am, and was told that if I only paid for one night I'd have to check out at noon, so I paid for two, went to the room, showered and passed out.
So in the end, I woke up Saturday and it all hit me. All the different emotions, destroyed, broken, humiliated, etc... It was a very dark day for me, and I'm glad I was locked up in a hotel. I ended up coming on here for some reason, and going to the chat. There were a few people there that I can't begin to thank enough for how wonderful they were to me on that day, and continue to be. I have let the powers that be know of what happened, and got confirmation that in fact things are "fishy" which at least gave me some closure.
My apologies for the tremendously long blog but as I get asked about the story still I'd rather be able to refer people to this instead of hitting up the chat room with it anymore.
Those of you that helped you know who you are, you can comment if you'd like as well. Again apologies for the long blog post.
