First off- my computer has been FIXED!!!!!!!!!!!! So, the last installment of Silver State can FINALLY continue!!!! 😀
2nd- So... twice this week I have been in the chat rooms. I haven't been in months because of my computer being down. First time I had to leave because I found out about China passing away within 5 minutes of being there. I wasn't a huge fan but it bothered me. I liked her and befriended her. So... that sucked.
Then the other night I went in and probably shouldn't have. My Bf and I were having our regular Saturday night party. Prince was on our minds. And we were trying to celebrate him the best we could.
But... I went in. Someone had started "tickling" me on Tumblr and I was drunk enough to play along for about 10 minutes. Normally I don't anymore. But that made me miss here so, even though I only had my phone to chat on... I went in.
Please understand: to those who participate in the chat room. I do not accept pm's. If you want to write me- please do so in the TMF mail system. If I accepted every single person's IM... I would be flooded and it would be impossible to give every conversation my complete attention. This is not ego. This is me stating fact. I wish I could... but it becomes too confusing for me to keep up. I'm not that fast of a typer. I don't want anyone to feel I am ignoring them. I don't want anyone to think I am a rude person. If you have something to tell me or ask of me, please do so in the main chat or in TMF mail. I am an open book when it comes to tickling. It's all I'm asking of you. Within the time it takes to restate WHY I don't participate in IM'S- people could have asked me the question or said what they needed to say, I could have answered, and all of us could have moved on. All participants satisfied.
A lot of people might say just ignore IM'S! THAT is NOT the reputation I want around here. That is not me. I ignore nothing tickling related (usually). I also do not ignore kindness, compliments, general discussion, or hardly anything. What I WILL ignore is people being rude to me. I was on my phone the other night and didn't even realize I had received a few IM'S until it was already too late in some cases and judgement was already passed. And... as far as I am led to believe... it IS in fact a courtesy to ask before directly PMing someone. I know we have newcomers always. And I understand some people don't visit often enough to know the unwritten rules. But PLEASE... respect my boundaries and I will always respect yours. When I am ready, I will do another live rp in the stories section. That has to be good enough... my ticking plate is FULL... I cannot add IMing sessions to my plate as well. I put out videos, stories, poems, pictures, and soon audio. So... I know this blog entry will do little to change things... but I thought I'd try. This is my way of telling people, I adore everyone here, but as a participant of this board, I need to have just a few boundaries or else I will be all over the place resulting in a lot of hurt feelings. Including mine. And I don't want that.
So... I do NOT IM/PM/SKYPE/or give out my email address. You can write me here in mail or at my Tumblr under CapturedDoll, and DaddysTrophyDoll.
3rd-I also have little interest in co-writing stories. Live story rp I love! But, co-writing is a no... I like to write my own stories. And trust me... I have enough stories and fantasies I NEED to write. Everyones fantasies are different... and mine... I work alone on this. It's too bad too... part of me wishes I coud. But... that's where live story rp works best for me. And this is probably why PM rp no longer works for me. I just have my own ideas of where I want things to go. Also... being asked to contribute to other people's stories with pictures... while I would not be opposed to this... you MUST write the story FIRST. I don't have enough time to do seperate photo shoots, every other day. I just don't. If a story has been written... and I like it/love it... maybe. But as I always try to take the best pictures I can... I need time to figure out what to do and to set up accordingly as it relates to the story. I HAVE had aspirations to do an internet comic type stories using my own pictures. But... I have to find a good program(s) to do this. And I will be someday. But one idea at a time.
Tickles!
Doll
2nd- So... twice this week I have been in the chat rooms. I haven't been in months because of my computer being down. First time I had to leave because I found out about China passing away within 5 minutes of being there. I wasn't a huge fan but it bothered me. I liked her and befriended her. So... that sucked.
Then the other night I went in and probably shouldn't have. My Bf and I were having our regular Saturday night party. Prince was on our minds. And we were trying to celebrate him the best we could.
But... I went in. Someone had started "tickling" me on Tumblr and I was drunk enough to play along for about 10 minutes. Normally I don't anymore. But that made me miss here so, even though I only had my phone to chat on... I went in.
Please understand: to those who participate in the chat room. I do not accept pm's. If you want to write me- please do so in the TMF mail system. If I accepted every single person's IM... I would be flooded and it would be impossible to give every conversation my complete attention. This is not ego. This is me stating fact. I wish I could... but it becomes too confusing for me to keep up. I'm not that fast of a typer. I don't want anyone to feel I am ignoring them. I don't want anyone to think I am a rude person. If you have something to tell me or ask of me, please do so in the main chat or in TMF mail. I am an open book when it comes to tickling. It's all I'm asking of you. Within the time it takes to restate WHY I don't participate in IM'S- people could have asked me the question or said what they needed to say, I could have answered, and all of us could have moved on. All participants satisfied.
A lot of people might say just ignore IM'S! THAT is NOT the reputation I want around here. That is not me. I ignore nothing tickling related (usually). I also do not ignore kindness, compliments, general discussion, or hardly anything. What I WILL ignore is people being rude to me. I was on my phone the other night and didn't even realize I had received a few IM'S until it was already too late in some cases and judgement was already passed. And... as far as I am led to believe... it IS in fact a courtesy to ask before directly PMing someone. I know we have newcomers always. And I understand some people don't visit often enough to know the unwritten rules. But PLEASE... respect my boundaries and I will always respect yours. When I am ready, I will do another live rp in the stories section. That has to be good enough... my ticking plate is FULL... I cannot add IMing sessions to my plate as well. I put out videos, stories, poems, pictures, and soon audio. So... I know this blog entry will do little to change things... but I thought I'd try. This is my way of telling people, I adore everyone here, but as a participant of this board, I need to have just a few boundaries or else I will be all over the place resulting in a lot of hurt feelings. Including mine. And I don't want that.
So... I do NOT IM/PM/SKYPE/or give out my email address. You can write me here in mail or at my Tumblr under CapturedDoll, and DaddysTrophyDoll.
3rd-I also have little interest in co-writing stories. Live story rp I love! But, co-writing is a no... I like to write my own stories. And trust me... I have enough stories and fantasies I NEED to write. Everyones fantasies are different... and mine... I work alone on this. It's too bad too... part of me wishes I coud. But... that's where live story rp works best for me. And this is probably why PM rp no longer works for me. I just have my own ideas of where I want things to go. Also... being asked to contribute to other people's stories with pictures... while I would not be opposed to this... you MUST write the story FIRST. I don't have enough time to do seperate photo shoots, every other day. I just don't. If a story has been written... and I like it/love it... maybe. But as I always try to take the best pictures I can... I need time to figure out what to do and to set up accordingly as it relates to the story. I HAVE had aspirations to do an internet comic type stories using my own pictures. But... I have to find a good program(s) to do this. And I will be someday. But one idea at a time.
Tickles!
Doll