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When Do You Get to the Point Where...?

So....

Respectfully! When (if ever) do you find yourself getting to the point where you just cannot wait any longer, and you just have to have it?

I'm just curious about you all out there. Because as for me? I'm there. And the weird thing about it is, I do have safe, options available when it comes to play. I just ... How do I explain this (because this is completely opposite from my nature)? I just want to play without the usual connections/ emotions that I usually have.

It's hard to explain that I'm still grieving, and I need the release without opening my heart and letting down my walls... Without exposing myself... Without fully connecting.

I'm just not ready to be open, but I still need to tickle and be tickled. And this is such an odd space for me, because I love connecting and sharing, and all the things that make a session so beautiful. But I am not there. Right now I just want to hear someone laugh. I just want to laugh. It sounds so transactional. 😓 Sometimes that's all someone has to give.

Anyone know what I'm talking about? Has anyone gone through this? What would you do? How do you navigate this space? 💕
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WickedTouch
I have, yes. Now, this is only speaking for me, but after having that more transactional exchange, I realized I definitely did need that weird physical-emotional release that only tickling seems to provide, but also I did want more of the other components as well. It was all just so overshadowed by the palpable primal need that had grown over time that I disassociated with them and became singularly focused. I think it's much like someone suffering from chronic pain. Deep down, they know they need meaningful human connection to help them process the internal struggles, but sometimes the raw physical and emotional complex of pain gets to be a little too much and it demands most of their conscious attention. Depending on the condition, they'll be more focused on just needing a little more therapy/medication/massage/whatever to get that under control.

I don't think there's any problem or shame in dealing with addressing one thing at a time in these situations. If your body and mind are screaming too loudly about tickling right now, and your soul is still too tender to deal with the other stuff, sooth the part of you that is easiest and most immediately in need (while being safe, of course). For me, well, that's what I did. I met up with a girl more transactionally. We were both hurting and just needed the "stuff" lol. Though fast forward a bit, and now we're married! When the long fog of tickling temptation lifted a bit, I remember realizing that the sessions, transactional as they were, helped a bit with the other suffering I had built up. Everything was just sort of threaded together in a way I couldn't see when I had that tunnel vision.

Hope this helps in any way. In any case, I wish you the best!
 
T
I feel like it’s a matter of what we desire vs what we’re going through and attempting to address both aspects without feeling the pressure of balancing them. What I mean is you are of course in a difficult position still grieving and I sympathize with that, feeling that way you wouldn’t want to be burdened by opening up to someone. Yet you still want to play and satisfy the cravings, which is understandable. It’s not quite like having a one-night stand but the best way I could compare it to is like going on a blind date without having to feel committed on an emotionally invested level. I do hope that you’re able to take it as you please 💕
 
Sunriseticklee
WickedTouch said:
I have, yes. Now, this is only speaking for me, but after having that more transactional exchange, I realized I definitely did need that weird physical-emotional release that only tickling seems to provide, but also I did want more of the other components as well. It was all just so overshadowed by the palpable primal need that had grown over time that I disassociated with them and became singularly focused. I think it's much like someone suffering from chronic pain. Deep down, they know they need meaningful human connection to help them process the internal struggles, but sometimes the raw physical and emotional complex of pain gets to be a little too much and it demands most of their conscious attention. Depending on the condition, they'll be more focused on just needing a little more therapy/medication/massage/whatever to get that under control.

I don't think there's any problem or shame in dealing with addressing one thing at a time in these situations. If your body and mind are screaming too loudly about tickling right now, and your soul is still too tender to deal with the other stuff, sooth the part of you that is easiest and most immediately in need (while being safe, of course). For me, well, that's what I did. I met up with a girl more transactionally. We were both hurting and just needed the "stuff" lol. Though fast forward a bit, and now we're married! When the long fog of tickling temptation lifted a bit, I remember realizing that the sessions, transactional as they were, helped a bit with the other suffering I had built up. Everything was just sort of threaded together in a way I couldn't see when I had that tunnel vision.

Hope this helps in any way. In any case, I wish you the best!
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