About Me - My name is Mike, born in 1971, raised in New Jersey, transplanted to Baltimore, been married since 2001, living a roller coaster of a life.
But Who Am I? - One of my lifelong themes has been trying to figure myself out and to find my identity. My intent is to be authentic, true to myself, so that I can connect with people who are aligned with the true me.
What's Wrong? - I don't know why I feel shame, embarrassment, or fear of negative judgement about having fetishes. That has been another lifelong theme. It creates problems in the bedroom, which in turn perpetuates the shame, fear, and embarrassment.
The Foot Fetish - I have a fetish for women's feet. I enjoy caressing, massaging, worshiping, and tickling them. I'm not into the power play of Dom/sub that is commonly associated with being at a woman's feet. If anything, I prefer being in control. Just let me do my thing and we can both enjoy the experience.
The Tickling Fetish - I also have a fetish for tickling women. There's an energy that radiates from producing a positive reaction from tickling someone, and that energy makes me happy, and makes my heart beat hard and fast. I am mainly a 'ler. I don't object to being tickled in the proper scenario, but it doesn't create that energy for me the way I feel when I tickle someone. I have to be doing the tickling, that's how it works.
Recovering People Pleaser - I'm a recovering people pleaser. I used to be uncomfortable if someone didn't like me or if I did something to make them unhappy. I've addressed the root of that issue, and now it doesn't bother me anymore.
However... - when it comes to my fetishes, my partner has to be into what I have to offer. If I'm worshiping someone's feet, or tickling them in some way, they have to enjoy it in order for me to enjoy it. If they're not into what I'm doing to/with them, it means very little to me. That's the people pleaser aspect, I'm not happy if you're not too.
In Closing - I'm looking to connect with like-minded individuals, people I can be myself around and who feel the same way I do. My dream is to find my tribe.
But Who Am I? - One of my lifelong themes has been trying to figure myself out and to find my identity. My intent is to be authentic, true to myself, so that I can connect with people who are aligned with the true me.
What's Wrong? - I don't know why I feel shame, embarrassment, or fear of negative judgement about having fetishes. That has been another lifelong theme. It creates problems in the bedroom, which in turn perpetuates the shame, fear, and embarrassment.
The Foot Fetish - I have a fetish for women's feet. I enjoy caressing, massaging, worshiping, and tickling them. I'm not into the power play of Dom/sub that is commonly associated with being at a woman's feet. If anything, I prefer being in control. Just let me do my thing and we can both enjoy the experience.
The Tickling Fetish - I also have a fetish for tickling women. There's an energy that radiates from producing a positive reaction from tickling someone, and that energy makes me happy, and makes my heart beat hard and fast. I am mainly a 'ler. I don't object to being tickled in the proper scenario, but it doesn't create that energy for me the way I feel when I tickle someone. I have to be doing the tickling, that's how it works.
Recovering People Pleaser - I'm a recovering people pleaser. I used to be uncomfortable if someone didn't like me or if I did something to make them unhappy. I've addressed the root of that issue, and now it doesn't bother me anymore.
However... - when it comes to my fetishes, my partner has to be into what I have to offer. If I'm worshiping someone's feet, or tickling them in some way, they have to enjoy it in order for me to enjoy it. If they're not into what I'm doing to/with them, it means very little to me. That's the people pleaser aspect, I'm not happy if you're not too.
In Closing - I'm looking to connect with like-minded individuals, people I can be myself around and who feel the same way I do. My dream is to find my tribe.
