Always offer a safe word, an exit, and don't publish other people's faces or personal info (!!).
Unless you have totally informed consent. And that can change, so you always need to mark an exit for an emergency. This shouldn't need to be said but people are too often totally selfish bastards.
You're not psychic, someone can be in real distress and you'll have no idea. Especially if you're introducing something they have not experienced.
So, pardon my French, even if you're some douche who doesn't give a shit about anyone else's real, unbearable torture or trauma,
but at least don't want to be responsible for someone having a stroke or heart attack,
regardless of their age, give them a SAFE WORD or gesture and respond immediately if they tap out.
And if you're halfway decent, you may simply actually be concerned that you not take horrible advantage and/or assault, truly torture someone who becomes overwhelmed, unhappy & unwilling after 30 seconds, a few minutes, WHENEVER.
(And if you ARE halfway decent, you're in a very small minority. :/ )
Unless you have totally informed consent. And that can change, so you always need to mark an exit for an emergency. This shouldn't need to be said but people are too often totally selfish bastards.
You're not psychic, someone can be in real distress and you'll have no idea. Especially if you're introducing something they have not experienced.
So, pardon my French, even if you're some douche who doesn't give a shit about anyone else's real, unbearable torture or trauma,
but at least don't want to be responsible for someone having a stroke or heart attack,
regardless of their age, give them a SAFE WORD or gesture and respond immediately if they tap out.
And if you're halfway decent, you may simply actually be concerned that you not take horrible advantage and/or assault, truly torture someone who becomes overwhelmed, unhappy & unwilling after 30 seconds, a few minutes, WHENEVER.
(And if you ARE halfway decent, you're in a very small minority. :/ )
