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Even More Frustration.. A Microcosm Of How Things Are..

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In response to bill's suggestion of a "minmum wage job"..

I haven't been able to look for anything.. because I have no ID that says I live in NY. I have no bank account.. due to being levied, from all the credit cards that I'm responsible for.. that my mom charged up.

Even when I get a "job", where am I going to put the paycheck from said "job"?

My father again lied to me this week, that he was going to see a bankruptcy attorney with me.,. so I can file.. get rid of the credit card bills, and be able to have a bank account.

Then, today, in his.. infinite wisdom.. he called. and told me he thinks I have enough ID to get a passport.. which might.. be enough for the DMV to give me an ID. Of course, he didn't address the issue he promised, about the bankruptcy attorney. As he always does, he did it all his way.

I'm giving him until next week.. and if not.. I'm going to see a bankruptcy attorney myself.. file., and then if I can have an account.. will look for the "job" that bill suggested.

Today was an example of just how things have been. I went to the track, lost a bit, and then won what I thought was a rather large trifecta, only to have it overturned by an objection.

The only REAL way I'm going to get out of this.. is not a "minimum wage job", but rather.. the business that I want to do.. so I can earn real money, and untie from my father permanently.

We'll be spending his favorite day together on Sunday, Father's Day. Sigh! I hope by next year, I'm completely untied from him.

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Ugh, I have friends that are in those horrible roller coaster type relationships where I swear both of them have to be bi-polar! Just a few weeks ago, my friend and her bf got into a huge fight and she came here at 2am and stayed for the next two days, to clear her mind. Kept saying how much she was "done, I'm so done with that asshole!" Yeah. Fast forward a few days and those two were talking about her going off of the Pill to have a baby. A wha???? Oh brother! Anyhoo, glad to hear about you and Ryan! You both seem like great people and it's awesome when two great people meet up!
 
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You can't say you didn't try babe. You've been doing it over and over with her for a year over the same guy. She doesn't want advice (I wasted mine on her), she just wants a love recycling center. She can always come to you to refill her tank of feeling loved, because she doesn't get it from him. From everything she told me, it's obvious he's in love with the idea of her and having her, but not her herself. It won't be until she realizes that and accepts that truth for herself that she will be able to leave him. You'll have to decide for yourself whether YOU want to keep dealing with it. She takes from you to give to him. Her priorities are out of whack anytime she "thinks" she's in love, unfortunately she's forgotten what that is in place of this skewed version of what she is substituting it with. Props to you for having always been there for at the sake of your own feelings.
 
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Angel - Ah! So you going through the EXACT same thing I am! :facepalm: Definitely frustrating! And PLEASE don't let them have a baby.. oh jeesh... Well good luck with that and I hope she doesn't stress you out too much like Clare is doin to me! haaa And thanks about me and Ryan.. that's so sweet of you! 😀

Jay - I still can't believe she is acting like this! Even after you gave advice.. I mean how can you not take that advice to heart? Ahhh .. I just hope she learns .. and really I can't thank you enough for not only understanding and being there for me .. but being kind enough to take time out of your day to help her! That really meant a lot to me ... I hope you know that! <3
 
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I am so happy for you and Ryan. It is nice to be with someone special. I hope to be there again one day myself. As for your friend, I feel sadness in my heart for her. The saddest part is, that happiness is not hard to attain. I have a friend that keeps going back to a man that verbally abuses her. I have begged her to stop. She feels he is the only man that will have her. I told her, he is no man. A real man does not belittle anyone, most certainly not one they profess to love. I tell everone to be happy and be with those that help them acheive it. Hope you are having a great day!
 
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