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I have a relative who has leeched off my entire family, and it is seriously pissing me off. This year, it has began to affect me.
My mom's youngest sister, Eileen, who didnt have the decency to attend her sister;s funeral, has been on disabilty for over 40 years. She has severe emotional problems. That being said, she never went for treatment to help herself.
She lived with my grandmother until my grandmother passed away. My grandmother had kidney failure, and pulled the plug because she wanted to die, due to the fact that my aunt was so abusive to her.
Since then, she lived with men, and leeched off them. She used to live across the street from where I live now, with a man who wasnt even her bf or husband, and took thousands from him until he threw her out.
While I know I lived with my mom until my mom died, I always did something to help myself, and was impeded by my tax problems. I sold jewelry, and did marketing businesses, to raise money, and whenever my dad gave me a gift of cash for an occasion, part of it went to my mom.
Recently, I' ve been working a lot, selling antiques and jewelry just as I had in PA. Fortunately, I've made money. I;m going to get a job soon, and I;m working on plans for another bsuiness. Except for my dad's generous promise to help me with my rent, I have not taken one penny from him, as any money I have, is what I've made.
I gave my aunt a shot of $$$ after my mom died, then gave her another small amount. Now, when my other aunt found out that I had made money recently, she told me to send the mentally ill aunt more money, until the guise that shes starving. Well, she smokes 2-3 packs a day, plus has expensive health insurance, and is paying rent on a place she doesnt even live. Simply put, she's an outrage.
I caved abd agreed ti send her $100 more, but that will be it. I'm sure in a month the bitch will be back for more. She wont get it from me. My first cousin loved my mom and me, but hates her.
My aunt the artist told me to help under the guise of giving to charity. Thats different. To me, this is giving to an abusive leech, who has no shame, and has lived off everyone else for forty years. Pathetic.,
Mitch
I have a relative who has leeched off my entire family, and it is seriously pissing me off. This year, it has began to affect me.
My mom's youngest sister, Eileen, who didnt have the decency to attend her sister;s funeral, has been on disabilty for over 40 years. She has severe emotional problems. That being said, she never went for treatment to help herself.
She lived with my grandmother until my grandmother passed away. My grandmother had kidney failure, and pulled the plug because she wanted to die, due to the fact that my aunt was so abusive to her.
Since then, she lived with men, and leeched off them. She used to live across the street from where I live now, with a man who wasnt even her bf or husband, and took thousands from him until he threw her out.
While I know I lived with my mom until my mom died, I always did something to help myself, and was impeded by my tax problems. I sold jewelry, and did marketing businesses, to raise money, and whenever my dad gave me a gift of cash for an occasion, part of it went to my mom.
Recently, I' ve been working a lot, selling antiques and jewelry just as I had in PA. Fortunately, I've made money. I;m going to get a job soon, and I;m working on plans for another bsuiness. Except for my dad's generous promise to help me with my rent, I have not taken one penny from him, as any money I have, is what I've made.
I gave my aunt a shot of $$$ after my mom died, then gave her another small amount. Now, when my other aunt found out that I had made money recently, she told me to send the mentally ill aunt more money, until the guise that shes starving. Well, she smokes 2-3 packs a day, plus has expensive health insurance, and is paying rent on a place she doesnt even live. Simply put, she's an outrage.
I caved abd agreed ti send her $100 more, but that will be it. I'm sure in a month the bitch will be back for more. She wont get it from me. My first cousin loved my mom and me, but hates her.
My aunt the artist told me to help under the guise of giving to charity. Thats different. To me, this is giving to an abusive leech, who has no shame, and has lived off everyone else for forty years. Pathetic.,
Mitch
