"Vent" about my aunt the artist, best posted here. This woman's complete self obsession is unreal.
We don't have the same cell phone provider, thus, she's always reprimanding me, if I call to tell her something important about business, during the day, and I use up even one or two of her precious "minutes". "You could have called me tonight". She says.
She just called me.. for a VERY important reason. (Bleh)_ She had been "thinking" about her estranged husband, and he called her. It's like,.. BFD. If anything is the ultimate in hypocrisy. I shouldn't call her to tell her important business events, but she can call to tell me this.
On Wednesday.. she called to inquire if I wished my cousin, her son, a Happy Birthday. I did. She wants me to reach out to someone, my cousin, who never remembered my birthday with a rememberance/lunch, dinner/gift, , even once.. after I gave him.. dozens of gifts in his life, for more than 20 years. . I learned this when I was very young,. when my father took money from my bank account.. to give mothers and father's day gifts to my grandparents. I was.. nine. His mantra.. They remembered me, for my occasions,.,. and I should do so in kind. A very good lesson. Ever since, I always remembered my parents, and grandparents,.. for their occasions. Apparently, my aunt never taught her son the same thing. Beyond saying "Happy Birthday" on Facebook, he has never remembered me, even once.
When I expressed my concern about my situation with the 100 man law firm, my aunt never says anything supportive.. like she understands how I feel.. etc. She sloughs over it.
She definitely has to rank as the most selfish of all of my relatives. I don't know where she came from. My grandparents, my mom, even my aunt the astrologer. flawed as she is,. will express concern.. not slough over relatives concerns, etc. This woman simply doesn't get it. Her attitude is tiresome. I want to deal with her sparingly, during this period while I'm waiting to hear about whether I got the 100 man law firm as a client. It may not matter to her, if I get them, but it sure does matter to me.
We don't have the same cell phone provider, thus, she's always reprimanding me, if I call to tell her something important about business, during the day, and I use up even one or two of her precious "minutes". "You could have called me tonight". She says.
She just called me.. for a VERY important reason. (Bleh)_ She had been "thinking" about her estranged husband, and he called her. It's like,.. BFD. If anything is the ultimate in hypocrisy. I shouldn't call her to tell her important business events, but she can call to tell me this.
On Wednesday.. she called to inquire if I wished my cousin, her son, a Happy Birthday. I did. She wants me to reach out to someone, my cousin, who never remembered my birthday with a rememberance/lunch, dinner/gift, , even once.. after I gave him.. dozens of gifts in his life, for more than 20 years. . I learned this when I was very young,. when my father took money from my bank account.. to give mothers and father's day gifts to my grandparents. I was.. nine. His mantra.. They remembered me, for my occasions,.,. and I should do so in kind. A very good lesson. Ever since, I always remembered my parents, and grandparents,.. for their occasions. Apparently, my aunt never taught her son the same thing. Beyond saying "Happy Birthday" on Facebook, he has never remembered me, even once.
When I expressed my concern about my situation with the 100 man law firm, my aunt never says anything supportive.. like she understands how I feel.. etc. She sloughs over it.
She definitely has to rank as the most selfish of all of my relatives. I don't know where she came from. My grandparents, my mom, even my aunt the astrologer. flawed as she is,. will express concern.. not slough over relatives concerns, etc. This woman simply doesn't get it. Her attitude is tiresome. I want to deal with her sparingly, during this period while I'm waiting to hear about whether I got the 100 man law firm as a client. It may not matter to her, if I get them, but it sure does matter to me.
