I've posted this week about the goings on with T.
After our eruptions at each other this week, T had made it sound like he wanted to take a break.
Then, it sounded like we had agreed to not take a break.
I called him, but he did not call back.
Yesterday, J , who I have not spoken to in a very long time, called. He is not really my friend, he is really T's friend.
I said a few words to him, and then got off quickly.
With my concern about my Dad and myself, I have no need for, and do not have the time , patience or energy, for such unneeded, negative interaction.
Today was not good.
I called my Dad this morning. He was in such pain that he said he had to get off, called back, and then said he had to get off again.
I called him a little while ago, He answered, and sounded like he had been sleeping. All he said is "Mitch I'm going to have good days, and bad days" then said he wanted to get off and go back to sleep. Fine, so I told him I love him, and that he should call me when he can.
As if this was not all bad enough.
I received an email from T, who is the last person I needed to hear from now.
T told me that J had told T that I had called T, but T claims he has no record of the call.
He then told me a few things about himself.
I said
"T I have an 81 year old father who is my constant concern and worry. I cannot and will not debate back and forth about you and what we say to each other. I dont have the patience, energy or time to do that., My main concerns have to be my Dad;'s health, and dealing with my migraines.
I have to keep wondering why T just wont/cant let go.
If he has this "GF" and he thinks he is such hot shit, why go back and forth with me?
Right now my only concerns/worries are my Dad;s heakth and dealing with my migraines.
I hope that my Dad is right about the good days and bad days and that things will get better.
My Dsd told me that he is more worried about me than he is about himself.
Hopefully, the migraine specialist 'm seeing Tuesday can come to the root of my problems, and deal with or at least help this.
We will see what happens.
This is just a terrible time for both my Dad and me with our health, and hopefully it will get better
After our eruptions at each other this week, T had made it sound like he wanted to take a break.
Then, it sounded like we had agreed to not take a break.
I called him, but he did not call back.
Yesterday, J , who I have not spoken to in a very long time, called. He is not really my friend, he is really T's friend.
I said a few words to him, and then got off quickly.
With my concern about my Dad and myself, I have no need for, and do not have the time , patience or energy, for such unneeded, negative interaction.
Today was not good.
I called my Dad this morning. He was in such pain that he said he had to get off, called back, and then said he had to get off again.
I called him a little while ago, He answered, and sounded like he had been sleeping. All he said is "Mitch I'm going to have good days, and bad days" then said he wanted to get off and go back to sleep. Fine, so I told him I love him, and that he should call me when he can.
As if this was not all bad enough.
I received an email from T, who is the last person I needed to hear from now.
T told me that J had told T that I had called T, but T claims he has no record of the call.
He then told me a few things about himself.
I said
"T I have an 81 year old father who is my constant concern and worry. I cannot and will not debate back and forth about you and what we say to each other. I dont have the patience, energy or time to do that., My main concerns have to be my Dad;'s health, and dealing with my migraines.
I have to keep wondering why T just wont/cant let go.
If he has this "GF" and he thinks he is such hot shit, why go back and forth with me?
Right now my only concerns/worries are my Dad;s heakth and dealing with my migraines.
I hope that my Dad is right about the good days and bad days and that things will get better.
My Dsd told me that he is more worried about me than he is about himself.
Hopefully, the migraine specialist 'm seeing Tuesday can come to the root of my problems, and deal with or at least help this.
We will see what happens.
This is just a terrible time for both my Dad and me with our health, and hopefully it will get better
