I'm going to post the latest with my family, and then close comments.. as I don't want backlash. I just wanted to let everyone know how fucked up this is.
My aunt the artist called me this morning, ranting on about her life, her husband, and her concern about my cousin's health, because he is overweight. Fine. In fact, I wrote my cousin a message on Facebook, telling him I'm concerned about him.
Then, when I started to tell her my upset with my situation with my father.. she exploded. Not only did she explode.. she hung up on me, and took it upon herself to call my father.,. without my knowledge.. telling him how "Upset and concerned she is about me". This, from someone, who watched his and my estrangement for 20 years, and did nothing to help. Of course, my father took no responsibility for his actions, and blamed the whole thing on me., as is his habit. I thought my aunt really crossed the line. My aunt is also constantly dissing my mom, blaming my mom for making my life the way it is. I'm enraged at her for attacking my dead mother, the only person in this world who loved me. All the other people, my father, my aunts, even my friends. All they give a fuck about is themselves.
My plan now is to go see an attorney about my financial issues, and hopefully to get the birth cert issue ironed out, so I can get my ID. Next comes a job.
Bottom line, my family drives me crazy. Not only because they don't care.. but also because they are abusive.
This is a situation that isn't going to get any better. I'm particularly saddened about Maria, because it would have been nice to have had someone on my side.. to help me, with what all these people are doing to me.
I'm going to do my part. Job, business, more social life. I know with them, things will always be as they are,.
My aunt the artist called me this morning, ranting on about her life, her husband, and her concern about my cousin's health, because he is overweight. Fine. In fact, I wrote my cousin a message on Facebook, telling him I'm concerned about him.
Then, when I started to tell her my upset with my situation with my father.. she exploded. Not only did she explode.. she hung up on me, and took it upon herself to call my father.,. without my knowledge.. telling him how "Upset and concerned she is about me". This, from someone, who watched his and my estrangement for 20 years, and did nothing to help. Of course, my father took no responsibility for his actions, and blamed the whole thing on me., as is his habit. I thought my aunt really crossed the line. My aunt is also constantly dissing my mom, blaming my mom for making my life the way it is. I'm enraged at her for attacking my dead mother, the only person in this world who loved me. All the other people, my father, my aunts, even my friends. All they give a fuck about is themselves.
My plan now is to go see an attorney about my financial issues, and hopefully to get the birth cert issue ironed out, so I can get my ID. Next comes a job.
Bottom line, my family drives me crazy. Not only because they don't care.. but also because they are abusive.
This is a situation that isn't going to get any better. I'm particularly saddened about Maria, because it would have been nice to have had someone on my side.. to help me, with what all these people are doing to me.
I'm going to do my part. Job, business, more social life. I know with them, things will always be as they are,.
