My father truly is a miserable human being. I think he relishes digging his heels in, to bury himself with me further, and cause me to feel worse about him all the time.
Last night, after not being in touch with him for most of the week, I sent him a very factual, but not nasty, email, describing my incredibly hurt feelings over the end of my career at Aflac, and his insensitive reaction to it.
Tonight, he sent me a short email, saying "He needs more time to reflect before he's ready to talk to me". HE needs more time? What an outrage! I'm the one who suffered the end of my career at Aflac, largely because of what his client and friend did, and HE needs more time to reflect?.
I responded, not nasty, just factual, that such was fine. I told him that I feel saddened that all he seems to be considering.. are his feelings about the matter, and that it almost seems not right for him to tell me that "He needs more time", after what I went through,
He talked about "Trying to reconnect on Monday". At this point, I fucking don't care. Let him do whatever the hell he wants. Most parents, when their children suffer such a career setback, after how hard the child worked for over one year, would be there to understand their child's feelings. This SOB doesn't care.
For those who think.. like Maven Chicago who fucking knows so much. "You're so spoiled that he pays your rent". Tell you what, know it all, if you think how he treats me is good, may you encounter someone who gives you all the abuse he gives me, and be trapped with no way out the way I am.
I'd love to tell him to go fuck himself. His behavior of nastiness and rottenness, when I'm still digesting the situation that happened to me at Aflac, is inhuman.
Fuck him. I feel lucky not to have to hear from him or talk to him for another almost a week.
What a miserable piece of shit he is.
Last night, after not being in touch with him for most of the week, I sent him a very factual, but not nasty, email, describing my incredibly hurt feelings over the end of my career at Aflac, and his insensitive reaction to it.
Tonight, he sent me a short email, saying "He needs more time to reflect before he's ready to talk to me". HE needs more time? What an outrage! I'm the one who suffered the end of my career at Aflac, largely because of what his client and friend did, and HE needs more time to reflect?.
I responded, not nasty, just factual, that such was fine. I told him that I feel saddened that all he seems to be considering.. are his feelings about the matter, and that it almost seems not right for him to tell me that "He needs more time", after what I went through,
He talked about "Trying to reconnect on Monday". At this point, I fucking don't care. Let him do whatever the hell he wants. Most parents, when their children suffer such a career setback, after how hard the child worked for over one year, would be there to understand their child's feelings. This SOB doesn't care.
For those who think.. like Maven Chicago who fucking knows so much. "You're so spoiled that he pays your rent". Tell you what, know it all, if you think how he treats me is good, may you encounter someone who gives you all the abuse he gives me, and be trapped with no way out the way I am.
I'd love to tell him to go fuck himself. His behavior of nastiness and rottenness, when I'm still digesting the situation that happened to me at Aflac, is inhuman.
Fuck him. I feel lucky not to have to hear from him or talk to him for another almost a week.
What a miserable piece of shit he is.
