so, I met this guy recently on FetLife, and we really hit it off. y'know, we sent voice messages to each other and we teased one another - it was swell.
I was really hoping this one would be different! and it seemed like it for a while.
but the more we talked, the more he was showing the same patterns as the other guys before. he didn't really care much for what I wanted, or my needs, he just saw me as an item for his sexual gratification.
we all do this, obviously. we're a bunch of lonely folks, with a kink that holds a lot of shame. we're especially touch starved during the pandemic. we latch onto the people who give us the satisfaction we desire so badly.
but it just fucking blows when even though you try to please someone, and they just keep using you. maybe this just sounds really bitchy and like I'm just complaining, but being a girl in the community can just straight up suck sometimes.
I was really hoping this one would be different! and it seemed like it for a while.
but the more we talked, the more he was showing the same patterns as the other guys before. he didn't really care much for what I wanted, or my needs, he just saw me as an item for his sexual gratification.
we all do this, obviously. we're a bunch of lonely folks, with a kink that holds a lot of shame. we're especially touch starved during the pandemic. we latch onto the people who give us the satisfaction we desire so badly.
but it just fucking blows when even though you try to please someone, and they just keep using you. maybe this just sounds really bitchy and like I'm just complaining, but being a girl in the community can just straight up suck sometimes.
