CHICAGO, as I know I cant call you by your real name, or you;ll throw a fit,.
What "Mess" did I ask the mods to clean up?
Did I post a thread.. today, that says..
"X member of my family, or X friend in real life" did this to me today?"
NO! The last thread about my personal life, was FOUR MONTHS AGO, with the thread i'm being pounded on now, a thread that was started more than THREE MONTHS AGO,, in frustration, at someone who took whatever grudge they have against me here, to a completely different venue, where I deal with people in real life.
I'm an
"Attention *****" (Bemused)
"I cry when I leave my front door open and then am burgerlized" (Chicago).
Crystal tells me that she';s "testing me not to reply", while essentially leaving the door open, for anyone else to reply, attack, etc etc, and the thread to get brought back to the front page 10 more times.
There is never a rational view of saying
"Okay, this is an old thread, about a difficult subject, we';re going to let it die".
This reminds me of someone I know in real life who I will not name.
Every dispute I have with this person, is all !00% Mitch's fault,.
More than one person has told me to leave the forum.
My feeling..
The pounding I'm taking, in threads that are months old, and what is being allowed, is being done with the intent of just that.
Some might say.
"If the mods wanted you gone, they would ban you".
I think, in my case, if I left on my own, it could then be said.
"Mitch left on his own, no one else had any responsibility".
Many, many things have occurred in my personal life, in the three plus months since I posted that thread about the person on Facebook, and in the four plus months since I left Aflac, that I have not said a word about, and will never say a word about.
I guess, my position comes from someone I, knew who is now deceased, not saying who.. who showed me a certain platform. It was..
"How can you take that, you have to defend yourself?"?
In this case, no matter what I do, defend myself, or ignore everyone, I cant win anyway.
And, of course, I'm the bad one, its all my fault. I'm not supposed to react to anything, no matter how repeated or vicious the attacks are.
Fine. let everyone say whatever they want. I'll follow Crystal's mantra of not saying anything.
It doesnt mean the attacks or people moving threads to the first page to attack me will stop.
It just means Mitch will say nothing, as the attacks continue, with justification of why the threads are left open, in spite of the supposed "Golden Rule". It is so "Mitch will learn a lesson" in spite of the fact that he hasnt posted anything personal on the main forum, which should show that he';s learned a lesson, in spite of how many times a three month old thread was moved to the front of the forum, and carried to another venue, to attack Mitch
What "Mess" did I ask the mods to clean up?
Did I post a thread.. today, that says..
"X member of my family, or X friend in real life" did this to me today?"
NO! The last thread about my personal life, was FOUR MONTHS AGO, with the thread i'm being pounded on now, a thread that was started more than THREE MONTHS AGO,, in frustration, at someone who took whatever grudge they have against me here, to a completely different venue, where I deal with people in real life.
I'm an
"Attention *****" (Bemused)
"I cry when I leave my front door open and then am burgerlized" (Chicago).
Crystal tells me that she';s "testing me not to reply", while essentially leaving the door open, for anyone else to reply, attack, etc etc, and the thread to get brought back to the front page 10 more times.
There is never a rational view of saying
"Okay, this is an old thread, about a difficult subject, we';re going to let it die".
This reminds me of someone I know in real life who I will not name.
Every dispute I have with this person, is all !00% Mitch's fault,.
More than one person has told me to leave the forum.
My feeling..
The pounding I'm taking, in threads that are months old, and what is being allowed, is being done with the intent of just that.
Some might say.
"If the mods wanted you gone, they would ban you".
I think, in my case, if I left on my own, it could then be said.
"Mitch left on his own, no one else had any responsibility".
Many, many things have occurred in my personal life, in the three plus months since I posted that thread about the person on Facebook, and in the four plus months since I left Aflac, that I have not said a word about, and will never say a word about.
I guess, my position comes from someone I, knew who is now deceased, not saying who.. who showed me a certain platform. It was..
"How can you take that, you have to defend yourself?"?
In this case, no matter what I do, defend myself, or ignore everyone, I cant win anyway.
And, of course, I'm the bad one, its all my fault. I'm not supposed to react to anything, no matter how repeated or vicious the attacks are.
Fine. let everyone say whatever they want. I'll follow Crystal's mantra of not saying anything.
It doesnt mean the attacks or people moving threads to the first page to attack me will stop.
It just means Mitch will say nothing, as the attacks continue, with justification of why the threads are left open, in spite of the supposed "Golden Rule". It is so "Mitch will learn a lesson" in spite of the fact that he hasnt posted anything personal on the main forum, which should show that he';s learned a lesson, in spite of how many times a three month old thread was moved to the front of the forum, and carried to another venue, to attack Mitch
