I sent Keith, my supervisor, my official resignation from Aflac this morning around 9am. I'm officially out of the company., This is one of the saddest days of my life.
I know it's only a "job/position", and that there are others out there, but, I feel devastated that I could not make this work, after how hard I worked to pass the insurance exam, and my diligence in trying to get clients.
Keith was very civil in accepting my resignation, wished me well, and told me to contact him if I need anything.
My relatives can go straight to hell.
My father has not responded to my email telling him I resigned. I'm hoping not to have to talk to him until further notice. I have some money, my rent for Dec, etc, and will look for a temp job on Monday. I really need a few days to digest this.
My father is heavily into blackmail, and would do things like "I wont pay your rent unless you spend Thanksgiving with me". My hope is not to have to see the SOB for the rest of 2014, at least, unless he uses blackmail to summon me to see him. .
For those who think "He;s so nice that he pays your rent". Er.. think again. This man likes to have power and control. He would have hated if I had been successful in insurance, and could have paid my own way. He would have lost control then. The law firm partner who screwed us over is a friend of my father's, who my father does a lot of business with. I think my father may well have told the lawyer to drag Aflac along, making us think they were going to sign, and then didn't. My father does things like that.
This may sound.. cruel or sick.. but.. I'm so angry with his reaction to this, that, if I got a call that he died.. I would not care. He has never said "Gee, I'm sorry, Mitch, that Aflac didn't work out, with how hard you worked to pass that test, and at your position". He was nasty, rotten, said "People do what they have to do". IE minimum wage job, and such. He also has never said "Look, take a low wage temp job.. temporarially, and we'll talk about what to do next, in X career, with a business,., or a job. I know you're 45 years old, and want to support a wife or family one day." This fucking scumbag has never discussed my future with me, not when I was in my 20s, 30s, or for the past three years. I got the Aflac offer myself. .
Hopefully, I'll get a job, and just avoid my family until further notice.
I'm particularly enraged at my father.. because.. if' he's letting out for what he has against me from the past, I have been so gracious and civil to him and his family the past 2 and a half years, and purposely NOT mentioned the past to any of them.
I hope they all leave me alone, for a long time. I need to digest it being over for me at Aflac, and finding a way.
While I know that losing a position is not as bad as losing your mother to cancer, I can honestly say that I feel the worst now since my mom died, and the aftermath of her death. I was so happy during the past year since Aflac contacted me to work for them. I hope this development, of losing Aflac, and maybe being driven back into an anything dead end nothing job, doesn't drive me into a depression. My father doesn't give a fuck about that. He said to me yesterday. "Don't accuse me of wanting you in a dead end job". I don't delude myself to think he cares where I am, dead end job, CEO, or whether I'm living, or dead.
I know it's only a "job/position", and that there are others out there, but, I feel devastated that I could not make this work, after how hard I worked to pass the insurance exam, and my diligence in trying to get clients.
Keith was very civil in accepting my resignation, wished me well, and told me to contact him if I need anything.
My relatives can go straight to hell.
My father has not responded to my email telling him I resigned. I'm hoping not to have to talk to him until further notice. I have some money, my rent for Dec, etc, and will look for a temp job on Monday. I really need a few days to digest this.
My father is heavily into blackmail, and would do things like "I wont pay your rent unless you spend Thanksgiving with me". My hope is not to have to see the SOB for the rest of 2014, at least, unless he uses blackmail to summon me to see him. .
For those who think "He;s so nice that he pays your rent". Er.. think again. This man likes to have power and control. He would have hated if I had been successful in insurance, and could have paid my own way. He would have lost control then. The law firm partner who screwed us over is a friend of my father's, who my father does a lot of business with. I think my father may well have told the lawyer to drag Aflac along, making us think they were going to sign, and then didn't. My father does things like that.
This may sound.. cruel or sick.. but.. I'm so angry with his reaction to this, that, if I got a call that he died.. I would not care. He has never said "Gee, I'm sorry, Mitch, that Aflac didn't work out, with how hard you worked to pass that test, and at your position". He was nasty, rotten, said "People do what they have to do". IE minimum wage job, and such. He also has never said "Look, take a low wage temp job.. temporarially, and we'll talk about what to do next, in X career, with a business,., or a job. I know you're 45 years old, and want to support a wife or family one day." This fucking scumbag has never discussed my future with me, not when I was in my 20s, 30s, or for the past three years. I got the Aflac offer myself. .
Hopefully, I'll get a job, and just avoid my family until further notice.
I'm particularly enraged at my father.. because.. if' he's letting out for what he has against me from the past, I have been so gracious and civil to him and his family the past 2 and a half years, and purposely NOT mentioned the past to any of them.
I hope they all leave me alone, for a long time. I need to digest it being over for me at Aflac, and finding a way.
While I know that losing a position is not as bad as losing your mother to cancer, I can honestly say that I feel the worst now since my mom died, and the aftermath of her death. I was so happy during the past year since Aflac contacted me to work for them. I hope this development, of losing Aflac, and maybe being driven back into an anything dead end nothing job, doesn't drive me into a depression. My father doesn't give a fuck about that. He said to me yesterday. "Don't accuse me of wanting you in a dead end job". I don't delude myself to think he cares where I am, dead end job, CEO, or whether I'm living, or dead.
