After the incident with my aunt the astrologer the other day, I got pissed off, and called my aunt the artist, and told her that I was sick of the astrologer's antics with fucking people over, and wanting to take money, and that I feel the astrologer needs psychiatic treatment, a halfway house, or an inpatient psychiatric hospital. Instead of issuing a retort against me for my statement, the artist proceeded to attack my mom, saying "Your mother hated Eileen (The astrologer) The one who needed a mental hospital is your mother". GRRRR! This, from people who my mom and I gave thousands to, and saved from the streets. My mom wasnt even in the conversation.
I'm not surprised that my father attacks my mother, and even though he claims he is going to stop, I know he never will. As to why her sisters attack her, I have no clue. The thing is.. my mom used to consider everyone else first and herself last. All of these people, including my fsther, and both my aunts, consider only themselves, and everyone else they deem important first. (In my father's case, his wife and her daughter), and me last. My two aunts dont give a fuck that my mom passed away. All they think about is themselves.
I accept the tragic fact that the one person in my family who really loved me, my mom, is gone, and that the rest of these people, simply dont give a fuck... If I fell off the face of the earth tomorrow, none of them would care.
Bottom line. it is ditto for me. I'll say what my grandmother used to say about family she didnt talk to.. Let them all be well, I dont wish them harm.. I have the same regard for them, as they do for me.
I dont expect that the attacks on my mom will ever abate, no matter what, unless I estrange from these people. If they all live another 20 years, and I'm in their lives for another 20 years, they will cdntinue to attack her until the day they all die. Pathetic, considering my mom isnt even here anymore. They all are, and they can fuck me over, and hurt me, until they day they all die.
Mitch
I'm not surprised that my father attacks my mother, and even though he claims he is going to stop, I know he never will. As to why her sisters attack her, I have no clue. The thing is.. my mom used to consider everyone else first and herself last. All of these people, including my fsther, and both my aunts, consider only themselves, and everyone else they deem important first. (In my father's case, his wife and her daughter), and me last. My two aunts dont give a fuck that my mom passed away. All they think about is themselves.
I accept the tragic fact that the one person in my family who really loved me, my mom, is gone, and that the rest of these people, simply dont give a fuck... If I fell off the face of the earth tomorrow, none of them would care.
Bottom line. it is ditto for me. I'll say what my grandmother used to say about family she didnt talk to.. Let them all be well, I dont wish them harm.. I have the same regard for them, as they do for me.
I dont expect that the attacks on my mom will ever abate, no matter what, unless I estrange from these people. If they all live another 20 years, and I'm in their lives for another 20 years, they will cdntinue to attack her until the day they all die. Pathetic, considering my mom isnt even here anymore. They all are, and they can fuck me over, and hurt me, until they day they all die.
Mitch