Oh it's gonna happen

Ugh, my head is just throbbing. My little girl dog is driving me nuts, wanting outside every five minutes. Today has just been rather pain-in-the-ass-ish. My (soon-to-be) ex-husband has been harrassing me all day with emails, IMs, and text messages. It's impossible to argue with a clinically diagnosed narcissist, but it's so hard to just shut up and let him dish it out. What part of "NO" is really that hard to comprehend? I've just had enough! My mom thinks he's the only reason I left South Carolina (at the moment - not that long ago, she was convinced I was leaving to go be in a lesbian relationship with Lee). She has been saying lately how I just need to come back home. I've always had a rather unhealthy closeness with my mom. I love her more than anybody else in the world, and I'd never let her go without. But I have to live my own life, and that's exactly what I'm doing up here. She says she understands that, but doesn't understand why I had to move so far away. It's impossible for me to explain my D/s relationship to my mom. It would never sink in, nor would it go over well. I want my ex to leave me alone. I've already mailed the check to my attorney. Next step is signing the papers. The divorce will be final in August. There's no turning back. When will he get it?