If you're reading this then you possibly went through my profile and are interested in me. Good 🙂 I like to think i'm interesting 🙂
But society sucks when it comes to sex :S Seriously, if i get one more guy asking me if i'll sleep with them without a condom then i'm becoming a nun! Have any of you looked online about safe sex? There are millions of sites! And it's not something to be chillaxed about... for starters theres unwanted pregnancy. That's at least a natural healthy body function though. It's like all the guys i've met only worry about pregnancy and forget that protection is also to prevent STIs! There is no morning after pill for aids, there is only a condom and choosing trustworthy partners.
In my opinion: It doesn't come down to a matter of trust. Its a matter of self respect. Using a condom is like saying you respect your own body, you respect your partners body, and all the partners that may or may not come after.
Lets get serious here. Does cock size matter? NO! Let me explain a few things.... first of all, the 'G spot' is two inches inside the vagina. Got two inches of penis? most likely. (1)
But that doesn't matter anyway because 80% of ALL WOMEN have never experienced a vaginal orgasm.(2) Why? because the main things that bring a girl to climax aren't even thought about by most guys. Don't think you're special because all your ex partners have said they've had orgasms while having sex with you. Many girls dont even know they have never had an orgasm and say they have because they dont know any better.
Let me give you some wake up calls here:
The G spot is simply an area inside the vagina where the nerve endings are likely to have clustered. There are a few different places down there where nerves may have clustered. Heard of the A spot? The PS spot? More spots where nerve endings have clustered and some women actually prefer these places over the G spot. - shock/horror- (3)
Wanna poke these spots with your cock? Great, that's natural and sexy and hot and feels really good. But it's not generally going to give a woman an orgasm. Remember 80% of women have never experienced that orgasm because it's assumed vaginal penetration with a dick will result in that blissful O. I wonder how many of the 20% who have experienced that orgasm have only experienced it once or twice in their entire lives... think about this with me, that's most of women not experiencing regular vaginal orgasms because guys think their cock is their pride and joy.
Now for those of you who are reading this and are totally disillusioned by everything being said- look at your fingers. Your fingers are your best tools for producing physical pleasure inside the vagina. The clit responds to both tongue and fingers, but is rarely fully stimulated. Let me disillusion you further! Keep reading....
I'd wager that 97% of men who partake in foreplay with women slide their fingers down between her pussy lips and create a general circular motion around what they know to be the clitoris, or they move down towards the 'G-spot' and massage against that sensitive spot.
As a general rule, you shouldn't touch the clitoral glands or G spot right away. (4) The most sensitive part of the clit is the gland 🙂 yes this feels good if you make circular motions, but it can also be very uncomfortable to do this right away. And this might suprise you, but one side of the clitoral gland is actually more sensitive than the other (5) on every female. The difference for some might be less than others, but figure out which side is best and focus on this when the time comes! Or cums 😛
The clit is far more than the pea sized gland we know it to be. The clit extends internally to the left and right of the urethra, (6) urethral sponge, and vagina and further extends back toward the pubic bone. If you caress across the lips of her pussy then massage around the Labia minora and Vaginal opening. Dont touch the clitoral gland or the G spot until you notice the clitoral hood and labia start to swell from arousal!
Learn where the PS spot and the A spot are on a woman.(7) Alternating between these spots is a great way to start building up arousal. I mean, playing with only the G spot only is like a girl licking the head of your cock but never touching the shaft. If you're going to give her pleasure, dont focus on the one area for the entire time.
If the G spot is her favourite place, that's where you go to finish her off! But her most responsive place might be the A spot, or the clit! Figure out what she likes by watching her responses or god forbid asking questions as you go along 😛
Now lets talk about using your tongue. (8) Did you learn from watching porn? Because i'll tell you something, people in the porn industry have been interviewed and will tell you that what you see on screen and what is actually pleasurable are two different things sometimes. In order to get a good camera shot, the guy has to turn his head a bit and flick his tongue over the clit lightly and quickly. I'm not going to go into it too much in this post... but honest to god if this is what you are doing- -a lot of girls can hardly feel anything you're doing haha.
Don't be afraid to really spread those pussy lips and expose the clit as much as possible! And you can massage those lips you are holding open. It doesn't hurt! They wont fall off! Be gentle but firm 🙂 Same with the vaginal opening... use your fingers to open her up down there, and massage away... or use one hand to firmly stretch the vaginal opening a bit wider and finger her with the other... heaps of girls love that feeling 🙂 (9)
Tips to prevent anti-orgasm stress thoughts 🙂
And finally for this post: never try to give her an orgasm 😛 no seriously, tell her your goal is to give her pleasure. Don't mention wanting to give her orgasms... because it could place pressure on her to cum. If you tell her you want to make her cum, she'll want to cum for you, and then she'll be thinking the entire way through the experience and this could deminish her pleasure.
Asking her if she is close to orgasm is bad bad bad as well. Because hearing this can lead to thoughts of: oh no, is he getting tired? does he want me to cum so he can stop? Does he expect me to be close now? I'm not close yet... what do i say- no? Do i lie and say yes? Then what do i do? pretend to cum soon? So it's better to tell her how much you love touching her, or how much you are aroused by her moans... or even moaning yourself at the sight of her 🙂 A lot of girls respond very strongly to hearing their partner moan 🙂
Anyways, that's all i have to say today. I hope you read all of this and sent it to your friends 😛 Perhaps i have high standards in wanting every woman to be able to enjoy orgasms with their partner... but if that's the case and no one reads this post... then i'll just buy a vibrator and become a nun. 🙂 I've seen sister act so i think i can pull that off 😛
References 🙂
http://au.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/64c_love_tip.html
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3800677...s-percent-women-admit-faking-it/#.UExrHY3ibmY
http://masterful-lover.com/sexualpower/blog/deep-spot/more-on-the-deep-spot/
http://www.climatique.plazadiscounts.com/page21.html
http://www.instanthotrodpills.com/what-every-man-needs-to-know-about-the-clitoris.html
http://www.yourtango.com/20086463/clit-is-much-bigger-than-you-think
http://www.emandlo.com/2010/08/everything-you-didnt-know-you-wanted-to-know-about-the-ps-spot/
http://au.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/36_love_tip.html
http://www.scribd.com/doc/50085097/57/Labia-Majora-and-Labia-Minora
http://www.elitefitness.com/reports/uman/Oral.pdf
But society sucks when it comes to sex :S Seriously, if i get one more guy asking me if i'll sleep with them without a condom then i'm becoming a nun! Have any of you looked online about safe sex? There are millions of sites! And it's not something to be chillaxed about... for starters theres unwanted pregnancy. That's at least a natural healthy body function though. It's like all the guys i've met only worry about pregnancy and forget that protection is also to prevent STIs! There is no morning after pill for aids, there is only a condom and choosing trustworthy partners.
In my opinion: It doesn't come down to a matter of trust. Its a matter of self respect. Using a condom is like saying you respect your own body, you respect your partners body, and all the partners that may or may not come after.
Lets get serious here. Does cock size matter? NO! Let me explain a few things.... first of all, the 'G spot' is two inches inside the vagina. Got two inches of penis? most likely. (1)
But that doesn't matter anyway because 80% of ALL WOMEN have never experienced a vaginal orgasm.(2) Why? because the main things that bring a girl to climax aren't even thought about by most guys. Don't think you're special because all your ex partners have said they've had orgasms while having sex with you. Many girls dont even know they have never had an orgasm and say they have because they dont know any better.
Let me give you some wake up calls here:
The G spot is simply an area inside the vagina where the nerve endings are likely to have clustered. There are a few different places down there where nerves may have clustered. Heard of the A spot? The PS spot? More spots where nerve endings have clustered and some women actually prefer these places over the G spot. - shock/horror- (3)
Wanna poke these spots with your cock? Great, that's natural and sexy and hot and feels really good. But it's not generally going to give a woman an orgasm. Remember 80% of women have never experienced that orgasm because it's assumed vaginal penetration with a dick will result in that blissful O. I wonder how many of the 20% who have experienced that orgasm have only experienced it once or twice in their entire lives... think about this with me, that's most of women not experiencing regular vaginal orgasms because guys think their cock is their pride and joy.
Now for those of you who are reading this and are totally disillusioned by everything being said- look at your fingers. Your fingers are your best tools for producing physical pleasure inside the vagina. The clit responds to both tongue and fingers, but is rarely fully stimulated. Let me disillusion you further! Keep reading....
I'd wager that 97% of men who partake in foreplay with women slide their fingers down between her pussy lips and create a general circular motion around what they know to be the clitoris, or they move down towards the 'G-spot' and massage against that sensitive spot.
As a general rule, you shouldn't touch the clitoral glands or G spot right away. (4) The most sensitive part of the clit is the gland 🙂 yes this feels good if you make circular motions, but it can also be very uncomfortable to do this right away. And this might suprise you, but one side of the clitoral gland is actually more sensitive than the other (5) on every female. The difference for some might be less than others, but figure out which side is best and focus on this when the time comes! Or cums 😛
The clit is far more than the pea sized gland we know it to be. The clit extends internally to the left and right of the urethra, (6) urethral sponge, and vagina and further extends back toward the pubic bone. If you caress across the lips of her pussy then massage around the Labia minora and Vaginal opening. Dont touch the clitoral gland or the G spot until you notice the clitoral hood and labia start to swell from arousal!
Learn where the PS spot and the A spot are on a woman.(7) Alternating between these spots is a great way to start building up arousal. I mean, playing with only the G spot only is like a girl licking the head of your cock but never touching the shaft. If you're going to give her pleasure, dont focus on the one area for the entire time.
If the G spot is her favourite place, that's where you go to finish her off! But her most responsive place might be the A spot, or the clit! Figure out what she likes by watching her responses or god forbid asking questions as you go along 😛
Now lets talk about using your tongue. (8) Did you learn from watching porn? Because i'll tell you something, people in the porn industry have been interviewed and will tell you that what you see on screen and what is actually pleasurable are two different things sometimes. In order to get a good camera shot, the guy has to turn his head a bit and flick his tongue over the clit lightly and quickly. I'm not going to go into it too much in this post... but honest to god if this is what you are doing- -a lot of girls can hardly feel anything you're doing haha.
Don't be afraid to really spread those pussy lips and expose the clit as much as possible! And you can massage those lips you are holding open. It doesn't hurt! They wont fall off! Be gentle but firm 🙂 Same with the vaginal opening... use your fingers to open her up down there, and massage away... or use one hand to firmly stretch the vaginal opening a bit wider and finger her with the other... heaps of girls love that feeling 🙂 (9)
Tips to prevent anti-orgasm stress thoughts 🙂
And finally for this post: never try to give her an orgasm 😛 no seriously, tell her your goal is to give her pleasure. Don't mention wanting to give her orgasms... because it could place pressure on her to cum. If you tell her you want to make her cum, she'll want to cum for you, and then she'll be thinking the entire way through the experience and this could deminish her pleasure.
Asking her if she is close to orgasm is bad bad bad as well. Because hearing this can lead to thoughts of: oh no, is he getting tired? does he want me to cum so he can stop? Does he expect me to be close now? I'm not close yet... what do i say- no? Do i lie and say yes? Then what do i do? pretend to cum soon? So it's better to tell her how much you love touching her, or how much you are aroused by her moans... or even moaning yourself at the sight of her 🙂 A lot of girls respond very strongly to hearing their partner moan 🙂
Anyways, that's all i have to say today. I hope you read all of this and sent it to your friends 😛 Perhaps i have high standards in wanting every woman to be able to enjoy orgasms with their partner... but if that's the case and no one reads this post... then i'll just buy a vibrator and become a nun. 🙂 I've seen sister act so i think i can pull that off 😛
References 🙂
http://au.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/64c_love_tip.html
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3800677...s-percent-women-admit-faking-it/#.UExrHY3ibmY
http://masterful-lover.com/sexualpower/blog/deep-spot/more-on-the-deep-spot/
http://www.climatique.plazadiscounts.com/page21.html
http://www.instanthotrodpills.com/what-every-man-needs-to-know-about-the-clitoris.html
http://www.yourtango.com/20086463/clit-is-much-bigger-than-you-think
http://www.emandlo.com/2010/08/everything-you-didnt-know-you-wanted-to-know-about-the-ps-spot/
http://au.askmen.com/dating/love_tip/36_love_tip.html
http://www.scribd.com/doc/50085097/57/Labia-Majora-and-Labia-Minora
http://www.elitefitness.com/reports/uman/Oral.pdf
