I had been estranged from Aunt R, my mother's other sister, since summer 2021, because of Aunt R's big mouth, and the lies that Aunt R told about me.
With the situation regarding Aunt E (My aunt who I really loved as my second mother, and the Aunt who passed away last weekend, I have been forced to get back in touch with, and deal with Aunt R)
Aunt R is impossible. I saw her last week for the first time in several years. She is indignant, repeats herself, insists she is right all the time, shoots her mouth off at me saying anything she wants, without caring that she is actually talking to a real person, and not her remote-controlled robot punching bag.
Aunt R, Aunt R's friend, and myself have very limited money. Yet,. in spite of such, the three of us are paying for Aunt E's funeral, because Aunt R never wants anything to touch her son, who lives in CA, and has a good job and makes a very good living. He is not even paying anything toward this situation.
Luckily, because Aunt E , and Aunt R, Aunt E's legal next of kin, have/had no other incomes because their SS checks, the funeral home found out that there is qualification for financial aid, which the funeral home is generously assisting us with, and making the fees for the funeral very reasonable to help the family out.
Any little statement I make to Aunt R, she talks back to me, shoots her mouth off, and flies off the handle at me.
While I want to be supportive to Aunt R that Aunt E, Aunt R's sister, just died, I cannot and will not accept what is basically verbal abuse and such from her.
If this behavior does not stop once the funeral is over, I am going to separate myself from Aunt R again.
Aunt E was very upset during the last period of Aunt E's life that Aunt R and I were estranged. Yet, I think in Aunt E's heart , Aunt E knew what Aunt R's personality was, and why I had to do this.
The funeral is Friday. The final arrangements are being made about the funeral, and the transportation situation, which will not be easy.
On Friday, we will lay Aunt E to rest. Let Aunt E, my real second mother, Rest In Peace in Heaven, with God, and with my mother, and our family members who have passed.
At which point, Mitch, who has dealt with his responsibilities regarding this situation because Aunt E had no children, and I was like her son.
At the point that the funeral is over, Mitch will then go back to focusing on his own/my own life.
Aunt R can then deal with her own emotions, and her trigger happy mouth, with her only having regard for her own feelings, and not mine
With the situation regarding Aunt E (My aunt who I really loved as my second mother, and the Aunt who passed away last weekend, I have been forced to get back in touch with, and deal with Aunt R)
Aunt R is impossible. I saw her last week for the first time in several years. She is indignant, repeats herself, insists she is right all the time, shoots her mouth off at me saying anything she wants, without caring that she is actually talking to a real person, and not her remote-controlled robot punching bag.
Aunt R, Aunt R's friend, and myself have very limited money. Yet,. in spite of such, the three of us are paying for Aunt E's funeral, because Aunt R never wants anything to touch her son, who lives in CA, and has a good job and makes a very good living. He is not even paying anything toward this situation.
Luckily, because Aunt E , and Aunt R, Aunt E's legal next of kin, have/had no other incomes because their SS checks, the funeral home found out that there is qualification for financial aid, which the funeral home is generously assisting us with, and making the fees for the funeral very reasonable to help the family out.
Any little statement I make to Aunt R, she talks back to me, shoots her mouth off, and flies off the handle at me.
While I want to be supportive to Aunt R that Aunt E, Aunt R's sister, just died, I cannot and will not accept what is basically verbal abuse and such from her.
If this behavior does not stop once the funeral is over, I am going to separate myself from Aunt R again.
Aunt E was very upset during the last period of Aunt E's life that Aunt R and I were estranged. Yet, I think in Aunt E's heart , Aunt E knew what Aunt R's personality was, and why I had to do this.
The funeral is Friday. The final arrangements are being made about the funeral, and the transportation situation, which will not be easy.
On Friday, we will lay Aunt E to rest. Let Aunt E, my real second mother, Rest In Peace in Heaven, with God, and with my mother, and our family members who have passed.
At which point, Mitch, who has dealt with his responsibilities regarding this situation because Aunt E had no children, and I was like her son.
At the point that the funeral is over, Mitch will then go back to focusing on his own/my own life.
Aunt R can then deal with her own emotions, and her trigger happy mouth, with her only having regard for her own feelings, and not mine
