I'm a bottom. I enjoy receiving. Being tied up and tickled... love it. Very curious about other things like being spanked, role playing, forced orgasm, orgasm denial. I'm a receiver; not much of a giver. 😛 The idea of a man taking control excites me. I guess that domination in a way that I'm submitting my body for our pleasure.
Yet to be a sub or a slave... well, I could never be a slave. I just can't give up that much control. However a sub, when I think about submitting to a Dom, I'm not sure if I can. Playing with a Dom, I guess I would be submitting, but on a deeper level, well, I'm not sure. It's scary as hell. Then again love is scary. Trusting someone with your whole being, your heart, not to destroy you but to strengthen you is an incredibly scary journey.
Someday I hope to find a "prince by day, beast by night" kind of guy. ;-) (They really should have that option for what you're searching for just like they do with "princess by day, slut by night". XD) Anyway, someday find a man to spend my life with. Yet to get there I need to be able to trust him, right? So maybe I can submit to the right man.
Now this is where I put my own spin on things. In some D/s relationships, the Dom will collar his sub. Kinda like a wedding ring, a symbol of belonging to each other. So to me, marriage would be our collaring. If I belong to my Dom and I let him collar me, then my Dom belongs to me and I want to collar him. Weird, I know, but I can't do it if he won't.
Maybe I'm just rambling...
But I hope to find that...
Someday. ♥
*** I originally posted this on FetLife and thought I'd post this here too. ***
Yet to be a sub or a slave... well, I could never be a slave. I just can't give up that much control. However a sub, when I think about submitting to a Dom, I'm not sure if I can. Playing with a Dom, I guess I would be submitting, but on a deeper level, well, I'm not sure. It's scary as hell. Then again love is scary. Trusting someone with your whole being, your heart, not to destroy you but to strengthen you is an incredibly scary journey.
Someday I hope to find a "prince by day, beast by night" kind of guy. ;-) (They really should have that option for what you're searching for just like they do with "princess by day, slut by night". XD) Anyway, someday find a man to spend my life with. Yet to get there I need to be able to trust him, right? So maybe I can submit to the right man.
Now this is where I put my own spin on things. In some D/s relationships, the Dom will collar his sub. Kinda like a wedding ring, a symbol of belonging to each other. So to me, marriage would be our collaring. If I belong to my Dom and I let him collar me, then my Dom belongs to me and I want to collar him. Weird, I know, but I can't do it if he won't.
Maybe I'm just rambling...
But I hope to find that...
Someday. ♥
*** I originally posted this on FetLife and thought I'd post this here too. ***
