Best posted in the blog..
Since I've been here, while life has been busier for me.. its been more of the same old..
When my mom died, the cousin who made the remarlk about my mom, told my father that she was going to "buy" some of my mom's furniture. I was supposed to get X dollars, several thousand, and havent yet seen a dime. The cousin has the furniture though
My father still has not sold or told me what hes doing about the $3000 plus in jewelry he rifled from me.
As recently as last week, even though my mom has been dead for three months, and he hasnt made an alimony payment since Feb, he was still carrying on about how he was the only one who got life alimony, even though I told him repeatedly how all her friends had it. He kept telling me how he could have put her in the street years ago. I told him "Shes dead, why wont you let it go. If you had put her in the street, I would have told everyone what you did to me with the taxes, and how you stuck her with the fallout for your professional misconduct".
Cheryl even got in on the act, wanting to know why I dont have a job yet. Like its her fucking business. Bottom line, I'm exhausted after the hell I went through with my mom. I have several business opportunties I want to explore. I had figured on having some money from the sale of things to tide me over, and look for something in Sept, while spending the summer, presuing the various opportunities.
Unfortunately, I'm trapped. I cant have the insurance money in my name, because I had credit card debt that I couldnt pay, when they raised my interest rate to 30%, even though I had never been late. If the money is in my name, they get it all, so hes holding it. He has the insurance money, my mom's jewelry, and posessions. He claims he is paying my rent with his money, from what was part of the alimony, for whatever reason, but I dont know, because I cant get at the bank balance, as its all in his name.
I'm fucked. I dont delude myself. My mom suffered and died. my father gets thousands a year back, and he, his cousins, and his wife, get to abuse me, emotionally, and financially. Such is why I never wanted to see these people all these years. They, along with my father, would have had a license to do whatever they wanted.
When my mom died, Jeff had very perceptively said how I had to protect myself, to prevent my father from stealing everything. The other day, my father handed me a couple of hundred in shut up money to buy food with, while never discussing the real money problems.
I'll get a job, and if I can get a business started, hes history.
Although several people got angry when I said it, such is why I question God. God took my sweet mother away from me, after all her suffering. My mom who had nothing, but would give me the shirt off her back, and left me with this guy, who put me in trouble with taxes, traveled the world with his wife, at the same time he failed to honor his promise to send me to grad school, and did all the other things I listed in this post. He and his wife live and travel to Europe. My mom suffered and died. "The years of businesses I did to try and help myself didnt work, and this is what I'm left with.
Yet, I like NY better than Lancaster. I just have to figure a way to get a business started, so that hopefully, someday, I can break free of him. If that happens, heaven help him.
Mitch
Since I've been here, while life has been busier for me.. its been more of the same old..
When my mom died, the cousin who made the remarlk about my mom, told my father that she was going to "buy" some of my mom's furniture. I was supposed to get X dollars, several thousand, and havent yet seen a dime. The cousin has the furniture though
My father still has not sold or told me what hes doing about the $3000 plus in jewelry he rifled from me.
As recently as last week, even though my mom has been dead for three months, and he hasnt made an alimony payment since Feb, he was still carrying on about how he was the only one who got life alimony, even though I told him repeatedly how all her friends had it. He kept telling me how he could have put her in the street years ago. I told him "Shes dead, why wont you let it go. If you had put her in the street, I would have told everyone what you did to me with the taxes, and how you stuck her with the fallout for your professional misconduct".
Cheryl even got in on the act, wanting to know why I dont have a job yet. Like its her fucking business. Bottom line, I'm exhausted after the hell I went through with my mom. I have several business opportunties I want to explore. I had figured on having some money from the sale of things to tide me over, and look for something in Sept, while spending the summer, presuing the various opportunities.
Unfortunately, I'm trapped. I cant have the insurance money in my name, because I had credit card debt that I couldnt pay, when they raised my interest rate to 30%, even though I had never been late. If the money is in my name, they get it all, so hes holding it. He has the insurance money, my mom's jewelry, and posessions. He claims he is paying my rent with his money, from what was part of the alimony, for whatever reason, but I dont know, because I cant get at the bank balance, as its all in his name.
I'm fucked. I dont delude myself. My mom suffered and died. my father gets thousands a year back, and he, his cousins, and his wife, get to abuse me, emotionally, and financially. Such is why I never wanted to see these people all these years. They, along with my father, would have had a license to do whatever they wanted.
When my mom died, Jeff had very perceptively said how I had to protect myself, to prevent my father from stealing everything. The other day, my father handed me a couple of hundred in shut up money to buy food with, while never discussing the real money problems.
I'll get a job, and if I can get a business started, hes history.
Although several people got angry when I said it, such is why I question God. God took my sweet mother away from me, after all her suffering. My mom who had nothing, but would give me the shirt off her back, and left me with this guy, who put me in trouble with taxes, traveled the world with his wife, at the same time he failed to honor his promise to send me to grad school, and did all the other things I listed in this post. He and his wife live and travel to Europe. My mom suffered and died. "The years of businesses I did to try and help myself didnt work, and this is what I'm left with.
Yet, I like NY better than Lancaster. I just have to figure a way to get a business started, so that hopefully, someday, I can break free of him. If that happens, heaven help him.
Mitch
