Welcome to the blog nobody wants to read. Instead of spamming general discussion with useless posts about relationships, I'm going to do it here! About 15 minutes ago, I went through another break up. So we'll start with that.
I've known this girl for like... a year and a half now. We met at the club, kissed while she was engaged, though she says it's because she already told him it was over and only lived with him until their lease is up... yadda yadda. Oh, and he hit her and abused her a lot, too.
Anyways, they finally split. Three months later we chat. There's been some BS between us in the meantime, so the times we talked up until this point have been few and far between.
Anyways, her whole thing is that she likes to run away from problems and away from people, but she doesn't want to break up because she would be shooting herself in the foot and losing a good person for no good reason.
So anywho, long story short, we had a fight last night on the phone. After a fight, I feel it's important to see the person instead of just solve it on the phone and forget about it. So she says today she's sick, doesn't want to, but will come over anyways. At 6:30.
Soooooo it's about 7:00 and she says she's fighting with her mom and will be here at 7:30.
The next time I hear from her is 10. She says she has been talking to her ex and getting away from things. I know she's not planning on going back to him, so that's not it. But I did bring up that a simple "hey, I'm gonna get away from things and call you later" would have sufficed. Instead, I was waiting for 2 hours for a knock on my door that never came.
She said she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to- text me I mean. I asked her if I made plans with her and then broke them to talk to some friend, especially my ex, if it would bother her. She said no, and got pissed because it bothered me.
After her being pissy with me for the rest of the conversation, she decided to say she is going to do her, and if I'm not okay with that she doesn't know what to tell me.
My whole thing is that when I'm in a relationship, I "do me" with consideration towards my partner in mind. I presented this to her, and she says that she feels that way as well, but when I brought up tonight's scenario she said she doesn't understand where I'm coming from and she's 100% right in it.
At that point I told her to grow up and not burden somebody with a relationship until she is emotionally and mentally mature enough for one. I then hung up and posted on my Facebook wall for somebody to call me so I could bitch. I got a call from a private number from a girl who apparently lives around here that said she was going to kill me, my mom, and my ugly dog..... and then I wrote this.
Fucking nice, right? Anyways. Fuck. Just fuck. Fuck my immature ex who's only solution to anything is to "do her" and run away from problems instead of talking about them like an adult.
And as for the girl who threatened me on the phone?
Please bitch. Give me a reason.
I've known this girl for like... a year and a half now. We met at the club, kissed while she was engaged, though she says it's because she already told him it was over and only lived with him until their lease is up... yadda yadda. Oh, and he hit her and abused her a lot, too.
Anyways, they finally split. Three months later we chat. There's been some BS between us in the meantime, so the times we talked up until this point have been few and far between.
Anyways, her whole thing is that she likes to run away from problems and away from people, but she doesn't want to break up because she would be shooting herself in the foot and losing a good person for no good reason.
So anywho, long story short, we had a fight last night on the phone. After a fight, I feel it's important to see the person instead of just solve it on the phone and forget about it. So she says today she's sick, doesn't want to, but will come over anyways. At 6:30.
Soooooo it's about 7:00 and she says she's fighting with her mom and will be here at 7:30.
The next time I hear from her is 10. She says she has been talking to her ex and getting away from things. I know she's not planning on going back to him, so that's not it. But I did bring up that a simple "hey, I'm gonna get away from things and call you later" would have sufficed. Instead, I was waiting for 2 hours for a knock on my door that never came.
She said she doesn't have to if she doesn't want to- text me I mean. I asked her if I made plans with her and then broke them to talk to some friend, especially my ex, if it would bother her. She said no, and got pissed because it bothered me.
After her being pissy with me for the rest of the conversation, she decided to say she is going to do her, and if I'm not okay with that she doesn't know what to tell me.
My whole thing is that when I'm in a relationship, I "do me" with consideration towards my partner in mind. I presented this to her, and she says that she feels that way as well, but when I brought up tonight's scenario she said she doesn't understand where I'm coming from and she's 100% right in it.
At that point I told her to grow up and not burden somebody with a relationship until she is emotionally and mentally mature enough for one. I then hung up and posted on my Facebook wall for somebody to call me so I could bitch. I got a call from a private number from a girl who apparently lives around here that said she was going to kill me, my mom, and my ugly dog..... and then I wrote this.
Fucking nice, right? Anyways. Fuck. Just fuck. Fuck my immature ex who's only solution to anything is to "do her" and run away from problems instead of talking about them like an adult.
And as for the girl who threatened me on the phone?
Please bitch. Give me a reason.
