I cannot remember the first time I realized I was different to the rest of the world around me. But there was a first time. What to say about it: First, I know we are all different. And this makes us special; uniques. Yeah, some people will never accept that these differences, rather than separate us, should be bring us together as humans who share interest, and diverse opinions. Because, diversity, makes things way more interesting. What a bored land will this be, if everyone would thought the same?
Second, It is true that feeling different is hard. It was for me at least. Comprehending that you have another taste in life, could create a complex. A normal kid could just worry about normal things. But, growing up with a tickle fetish (if that's valid term) is not easy. Ok, I got into this late in my life, but it was until then, that I knew that this was inside of me always. Reading about this in this forum, I have seen many people complaining about 'never finding a girl (or boys?) to have a relationship, that satisfies their souls. I am not pretending to be Dr. Phil, but there's always a match for everyone. Now, getting back to the point I was trying to explain, I can say I probably have been blessed, since I enjoyed a very special part of my life along with a person that totaly shared my passion totally. It was because of him, that I discovered this world of tickling as a serious activity. Now I know this is not something sub normal; this is a way of life, and there's nothing to be ashamed about it. For as long as somebody shares your fantasies, nothing can go wrong.
As a human being, I still have my concerns however. I can't help but ask myself things like: will I find another man to have a serious relation, that endures for the rest of my life? Much would answer 'Yes, you will' since this foot/tickling fetish is common in men. But, that's not all I am looking in a realtionship. Anyway, I digress too much. The point here is to be ok with yourself, and most of all, happy, because that's the first step to answer the question: "why?"
Why do you love tickling? Why do you like feet? Or getting tied down? Add the question you like. When you find yourself happy with the thing you do, that's the answer. Simple as it sounds.
Second, It is true that feeling different is hard. It was for me at least. Comprehending that you have another taste in life, could create a complex. A normal kid could just worry about normal things. But, growing up with a tickle fetish (if that's valid term) is not easy. Ok, I got into this late in my life, but it was until then, that I knew that this was inside of me always. Reading about this in this forum, I have seen many people complaining about 'never finding a girl (or boys?) to have a relationship, that satisfies their souls. I am not pretending to be Dr. Phil, but there's always a match for everyone. Now, getting back to the point I was trying to explain, I can say I probably have been blessed, since I enjoyed a very special part of my life along with a person that totaly shared my passion totally. It was because of him, that I discovered this world of tickling as a serious activity. Now I know this is not something sub normal; this is a way of life, and there's nothing to be ashamed about it. For as long as somebody shares your fantasies, nothing can go wrong.
As a human being, I still have my concerns however. I can't help but ask myself things like: will I find another man to have a serious relation, that endures for the rest of my life? Much would answer 'Yes, you will' since this foot/tickling fetish is common in men. But, that's not all I am looking in a realtionship. Anyway, I digress too much. The point here is to be ok with yourself, and most of all, happy, because that's the first step to answer the question: "why?"
Why do you love tickling? Why do you like feet? Or getting tied down? Add the question you like. When you find yourself happy with the thing you do, that's the answer. Simple as it sounds.
