This is the situation. It's somewhat personal, but whatever.
My Dad, with whom I've been getting along with much better Thank God the past several months, except for one unfortunate blowup in December.
Anyhow, my Dad is having three straight back surgieries in three weeks. One last week, one tomorrow, and a supposedly "bigger one" next week.
As a result of my Dad and me getting along much better, we are talking more often than we used to.
I'm trying to be very supportive to my Dad.
Even though we are both very concerned, I've been very lucky not to have had a seizure while all this is going on, just some migraines.
My good old friend. "T" whom I have mentioned on here before, has been having some serious health issues.
I'm trying to be supportive to him, but T is almost intolerable, trying to tell me how to live my life, etc.
I had avoided T for almost one solid year from summer 2020 to 2021 due to his verbally abusive behavior after his mother passed away.
Now, T is back to his old ways, shooting his big mouth off telling me how to live my life, even though he knows it infuriates me.
T is so arrogant, that he expects me to just take his verbal attacks and not respond. He tries to be controlling, slams phones, and sends me nasty texts, in addition to trying to tell me how to live my life.
I'm very sorry that T is sick, and I'm trying to be supportive to him, but it makes me feel far less sorry for him, when he is taking out his frustrations for his own illness' on me.
I'm also doubly furious because T knows how concerned I am about my Dad, and instead of T keeping his mouth shut, T keeps going on and on.
I hope it does not result in another long hiatus or a break from T. I know that he has had a rough couple of years with his mother having passed away, and his own health issues.
I've been supportive to him with these things, and it does not mean that because those things happened, T should take out his anger on me.
Right now, I know that the most important person for me to be concerned about is my Dad.
I just feel like T is making the situation more complex by his never ending comments and trying to tell me how to live my life.
If another hiatus from T does happen, it will be his own behavior and not mine
My Dad, with whom I've been getting along with much better Thank God the past several months, except for one unfortunate blowup in December.
Anyhow, my Dad is having three straight back surgieries in three weeks. One last week, one tomorrow, and a supposedly "bigger one" next week.
As a result of my Dad and me getting along much better, we are talking more often than we used to.
I'm trying to be very supportive to my Dad.
Even though we are both very concerned, I've been very lucky not to have had a seizure while all this is going on, just some migraines.
My good old friend. "T" whom I have mentioned on here before, has been having some serious health issues.
I'm trying to be supportive to him, but T is almost intolerable, trying to tell me how to live my life, etc.
I had avoided T for almost one solid year from summer 2020 to 2021 due to his verbally abusive behavior after his mother passed away.
Now, T is back to his old ways, shooting his big mouth off telling me how to live my life, even though he knows it infuriates me.
T is so arrogant, that he expects me to just take his verbal attacks and not respond. He tries to be controlling, slams phones, and sends me nasty texts, in addition to trying to tell me how to live my life.
I'm very sorry that T is sick, and I'm trying to be supportive to him, but it makes me feel far less sorry for him, when he is taking out his frustrations for his own illness' on me.
I'm also doubly furious because T knows how concerned I am about my Dad, and instead of T keeping his mouth shut, T keeps going on and on.
I hope it does not result in another long hiatus or a break from T. I know that he has had a rough couple of years with his mother having passed away, and his own health issues.
I've been supportive to him with these things, and it does not mean that because those things happened, T should take out his anger on me.
Right now, I know that the most important person for me to be concerned about is my Dad.
I just feel like T is making the situation more complex by his never ending comments and trying to tell me how to live my life.
If another hiatus from T does happen, it will be his own behavior and not mine
