Partly to take stock of things, partly to squash down the creepy title of my last post (!)......so......I'm just going to ramble about why I post what I post....more to get it out so I can understand it myself than any other reason. I have a whole regimen of threads I compulsively maintain. But why? Ok, so, first:
Types of threads
Starting from the top of the menu, working my way down:
TICKLING DISCUSSION FORUM
Ah yes, all my millions of questions. I've met SO many TMF'rs through those questions, it's been a revelation. I get messaged frequently because of them. I've gotten into beefs with people over them. I wasn't banking on any of that.
Years ago, I started a list of questions. The impetus: those stupid fucking interview clips where these bozos don't know WHAT to ask the models. Is it just me or do you want to throw up in your mouth when they ask: "So....were you tickled a lot as a child...." and the model starts talking about their dads, brothers and uncles. And the questions just go downhill from there.
But as time went on, the list became more personal and random......why do so many ticklees kiss you after you stop tickling them? Why do women always put their hands over guy's hands when the guy comes from behind and wraps his arms around her, resting his hands on her stomach and sides......is she trying to "control" the tickling sensation that could possibly happen? Is that a defense move? Do some articles of clothing invite tickling more than others?
Stuff like that.
One day I thought...hey.....there's so many cool, smart women/people on this forum, I could ask some of these questions and maybe get an answer. But I had no idea that so many would and I'd learn so much. I am particularly proud that there are women who answered, with join dates going back to 2002, with only 30 posts or less to their name, sometimes single digits...and they are coaxed out from the shadows to comment. There's a lesson learned there....though I'm not sure I know yet what that lesson is!
Looking back, I wish I never commented on any of those threads once I started them. I should have started the threads and gone away. I go back and see what I wrote, and ugh, so creepy. Maybe I scared away the birds in some of the early ones because of that. Which is a shame because it was the early ones that I was most curious about.
I also thought I had a limited amount of "Subject line"....so instead of writing "Female question", or Question for the ladies"....I just wrote "Girl Question" because it was short.....and maybe a little sexier, I don't know....anyways....since then, a sister complained about the use of the word "girl", so now I cringe every time I see the word, and I stop dead in my tracks and consider every time I use it. But sometimes, that's the operative word, it's just the way it is. I certainly don't object to being called "boy".
I try to format my question posts by first sharing something from my own life, so that I'm not just creepily asking for something. But I never thought by sharing tickling experiences I would catch so much grief from other members (always men!), that I pretty much don't like going into that part of the Forum anymore.
These are the question threads:
How long does it take for them to discover you're ticklish?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-it-take-for-them-to-discover-you-re-ticklish
When a guy wraps his arms around you, from behind….
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...n-a-guy-wraps-his-arms-around-you-from-behind
Why do you kiss us after we tickle you?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...ion-2-Why-do-you-kiss-us-after-we-tickle-you-!
Do certain articles of clothing get you tickled more than others?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-of-clothing-get-you-tickled-more-than-others
How would you tempt someone to tickle you?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?273864-How-would-you-tempt-someone-to-tickle-you
'Lees: When the tickling actually begins, do you regret it?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...the-tickling-actually-begins-do-you-regret-it
'Lees: If you're being tickled by two people, does one cancel the other out?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...than-one-person-does-one-cancel-the-other-out
Have you ever informed on a 'lee?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...cklee-(telling-other-people-they-re-ticklish)
What makes a 'ler attractive to a lee?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...makes-a-ler-attractive-to-a-lee-(if-anything)
Lees: Do you prefer the tickler to NOT be ticklish?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-to-NOT-be-ticklish-(or-does-it-even-matter-)
And a very controversial one:
Have you ever tickled, or been tickled by, someone from another political party or ideology?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...by)-someone-from-a-different-political-party-!
There were others, a couple I just asked and didn't care about, like one light-hearted one for the married members, which turned into the saddest, angriest post ever! lol!
GENERAL DISCUSSION
Probably the threads I'm most proud of and have the best time posting on:
Song of the Day
That's all it is. It's the most "me" thread. I figure if someone wants to know who I am, that's the thread. I love getting contacted about tickling stuff, I still can't believe that you all exist.......but it's the music people that I next most instinctively bond with on the Forum and so....once I know someone is into good music, I can't help but love them. LOVE them. It's the first thing I want to know about my fellow members. I wish I knew the musical tastes of every single TMF member! I wish we had a music forum, but I understand why we don't.
I try to make the songs flow into each other, both going down the thread, or starting from the bottom going up. Just a game that I play, not that anyone's going to actually listen to all those songs....(though they should!)......I even love no one comments on it, that it doesn't have a high view rate. That thread is me, for the long haul, it's like writing my graffiti tag on the wall of the TMF, you know what I mean? Go listen with me. That music will fill you up, even teach you something.....take it from Leo....😉
Songs about....weed!
Well....this is probably the thread I have the most FUN on! I don't drink, really, but I do smoke graaaaasss, man, lol. And, it's been so fun goofing around with Shippy (who is one nutty guy!) and all the other Forum members who contribute to that thread. The trifecta of tickling, music and smokey smoke.....no wonder why the TMF is completely self-sufficient as far as entertainment is concerned! I hear they're even going to put in a salad bar!
The Best,Worst...and Weirdest Cover Versions of Beatle songs
THIS is the thread I'm MOST proudest of, more than any other! The joy I get from interacting with other members of the Forum on that thread, I could almost weep about it. But even if people stopped posting on it, I'd still add to it. I work from home now, and the system is slow and goes down...and so....it's really helps my workday to go add to that thread. I love the people who contribute to that thread.
These threads, for me, are like throwing a little party, and you never know who's going to show up! Aww, c'mon, go over there and add a song! It's fun, you'll see!
IMAGES FORUM: NON TICKLING
I love women's fashion magazines. It comes from living with three girlfriends, and having female roommates......it started with my first girlfriend, and I'd be waiting for her to get ready, and so you just pick up this crap they have laying around, and start leafing through it.....and every page is like....a beautiful woman, beautifully photographed, and in various "situations". They often have their arms over their heads. Or they're barefoot. Or they're wearing a crop top. Or showing off their legs...whatever it is.....the temptation to tickle in these magazines is great for a 'ler.
I never was into porn. Various reasons, one is: my parents were so open about it, that I don't think I ever had the "naked lady syndrome", you know what I mean? I'm more interested in a woman with her clothes ON....how a woman dresses, tickling her gets her to "work" the clothes, different fabrics and textures add to it.....ah......even if I'm in bed with a nude woman....I flash back on when she first walked in, and took my breath away.
So fashion magazines have always done that for me. And girlfriends would rip out stuff for me and give them to me, and I just grew hooked on them. And I have this GIANT box of images that go back to the 80s. I want to get this box OUT OF MY LIFE.
(I also signed up for millions of clothing stores email lists, and they email me junk mail every day.....and I quickly go through it and glean out pertinent pics for those threads. I can't believe that they just email this stuff for free.)
So I have this shitty scanner....and am slowly posting them, under the various body parts:
Neck (this thread actually contains lots of neck tickle pics)
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?273097-Tickleable-nuzzling-necks
Under her arms
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272734-Unbearably-tickleable-under-her-arms
Tummy
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272733-Tickleable-girls-with-tickleable-tummies
Legs
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272784-Killer-tickleable-legs
and three related to end of the girl:
Barefoot
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272016-Tickleable-Barefoot-Fashion-Models
Nylons, fishnets,etc
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272526-Tickleable-girls-in-fishnets-nylons-lace-etc
and what I call "Tickle me shoes", lol:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272200-Unknown-models-in-quot-tickle-me-quot-shoes
I also just started one called "Now THAT'S an album cover" (for hot album covers, right now all bf)
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?274818-Now-THAT-S-an-album-cover
..... and I'm going to start one that's just vintage 60s and 70s stuff.
I also started a thread for F/M people, "Suggestions of F/M tickling"...I don't have alot of this stuff because it's not really my focus, but sometimes you can't deny it, and I know others love it, so I always would rip stuff out when I saw something for that. It might just be the look on a girl's face, or her nails, or something....but that also does have F/M tickling pics in them, it's not just non-tickling images.
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...of-F-M-tickling-(mainstream-fashion-mags-etc)
Also, if a girl is wearing cute or sexy socks that make her look tickleable (ie: super thin socks), I'll post them on one of the sock threads that someone else started.
I don't really....how do I say this....make love love love to myself that much anymore......but when I post on the legs, the neck and under her arms image threads? Those are the ones that "turn me on" the most for some reason. When I work on those posts, deciding which images to use, my heart races, I don't know why those more than the others. I love the "whole woman", but those threads get to me the most.
I'd say that's for guys only, but really, it's for 'lers......and maybe 'lees, if they want to see what tempts us.....
MAINSTREAM FORUM
This is really why I rejoined. I'm such a mainstream freak. It goes back to being young...and even as a young adult....and having NO material to really enjoy or relate to. The only thing was when you'd be watching a movie or a TV show....and tickling would break out onscreen. Dizziness. Stomach dropping. The whole bit. I'd play hooky from school, or stay up until 4 in the morning, to catch a scene. I've paid lots of money to buy some rare movie just to see a reported scene.
I've accumulated so much, I have a giant box of videotapes filled with mainstream stuff I got over the years, much that's never been posted...(or listed!)...and I just want to give back to a part of the Forum that gave me so much over the years, as I lurked. But when I was under my OLD screenname, I posted ALOT. And I'm sure some of you have figured out what my old name was.
But, yet again, I can't help but getting into flames with people, and something really rankled me the other day so maybe I should say fuck it, and just horde it to myself. I'm going to go back, see who commented nice stuff, and then I'll put together a private club to share this stuff. Why throw your pearls to swine? Which brings us to:
FLAMES
The whole reason I put "Dearest" in my screen name, was to remind me to never get into arguments. Seemed like a a good idea at the time.
I don't know why I rankle people. I don't know why the stuff I post rankles some people. I really don't. But I always have gotten into it.
We ALL get on our high horse sometimes. I get on my high horse usually over two issues:
1.) People who post content, who take the time to post....even if it just takes a few moments.....that's time and energy....and I think we should appreciate it. And alot of people don't, and inhibit others from posting because they think this is all just one big show being put on for them. They're sitting there, like the Prince Apparent, giving thumbs up and thumbs down. And I've seen people time and time again STOP posting because of being picked on by commenters.
Alot of things people post....is dumb! But at least they're trying! So, I will leap to the defense of a thread creator, or someone who posts content, for free, for everyone to enjoy, and let's face it....many "get off" on it, so..... and yes, it rankles me if I'm being beat up on. I like a LITTLE credit, like anyone else, "hey, thanks for the clip"....but this is not about "credit" for me at all. This is about getting this stuff out of my physical world so that when I croak, my family doesn't have to wade through all this! Or what happens if there's another natural disaster where I live, and more of my possessions get water damage? What if I'm crossing the street and get hit by a shark? Well, at least it will be archived here! Plus...I sincerely want to give back, because I've taken so much, for years! But if people are going to be little prigs, well then fuck it. It only takes one bad apple.....
2.) If some guy makes some little mealy mouthed slimy comment, especially when there are women on the thread.....about how I'm just "getting off" on asking these questions, or on some other post...how dare anyone on a fetish forum waggle their finger about that issue, sorry. And to be honest....I post so much....I'm an Italian Aries living in New York City...not even I have that much energy to "get off" on everything I post! I especially find it odd, because....sometimes i ask myself....gee, you don't really "get off" that much anymore, why are you even here, on this Forum? See, to me THAT'S weird. NOT getting off!
So.....fuck those dudes. I will NEVER be ashamed of "getting off". Sex and masturbation, I didn't grow up in a household where those were considered "dirty". My mom bought me a subscription to Playboy when I was 12. If I have to "get off", good. Let's all come together...right now....over me! If these guys think I'm going to get embarrassed on a FETISH forum about getting through a moment....think again. Whatever gets you through the night....it's all right.
Tickling transcends. It's endlessly fascinating to me. I could talk about it all day long and lately, I do! It's not just about getting off, not to me.
If I ever got in to a "flame war" with you, my apologies. Seriously. I hate myself when I do that. It's ugly. It's ugly for the whole Forum. I go scorched earth. I am particularly ashamed of getting into it with a couple of great TMF contributors. I need to learn to just let things roll of my back. I actually learned a great piece of TMF protocol from observing how another member handled something, and I'm going to try and imitate her, going forward. But even as of this past week, I can't help but step in it.
Other than that, I go out of my way to be cordial and encouraging and gregarious and friendly and welcoming, and there's NOTHING I won't do for a fellow TMF member who is the same way. In real life? I have more friends than I know what to do with, my conscience is very clear as to how I treat people. But I can be a hothead, I won't deny that. One day I'm going to get myself banned!
What a load of vainglorious crap this blogpost is, huh? I shouldn't even post it! I'll disallow comments on this one.
Types of threads
Starting from the top of the menu, working my way down:
TICKLING DISCUSSION FORUM
Ah yes, all my millions of questions. I've met SO many TMF'rs through those questions, it's been a revelation. I get messaged frequently because of them. I've gotten into beefs with people over them. I wasn't banking on any of that.
Years ago, I started a list of questions. The impetus: those stupid fucking interview clips where these bozos don't know WHAT to ask the models. Is it just me or do you want to throw up in your mouth when they ask: "So....were you tickled a lot as a child...." and the model starts talking about their dads, brothers and uncles. And the questions just go downhill from there.
But as time went on, the list became more personal and random......why do so many ticklees kiss you after you stop tickling them? Why do women always put their hands over guy's hands when the guy comes from behind and wraps his arms around her, resting his hands on her stomach and sides......is she trying to "control" the tickling sensation that could possibly happen? Is that a defense move? Do some articles of clothing invite tickling more than others?
Stuff like that.
One day I thought...hey.....there's so many cool, smart women/people on this forum, I could ask some of these questions and maybe get an answer. But I had no idea that so many would and I'd learn so much. I am particularly proud that there are women who answered, with join dates going back to 2002, with only 30 posts or less to their name, sometimes single digits...and they are coaxed out from the shadows to comment. There's a lesson learned there....though I'm not sure I know yet what that lesson is!
Looking back, I wish I never commented on any of those threads once I started them. I should have started the threads and gone away. I go back and see what I wrote, and ugh, so creepy. Maybe I scared away the birds in some of the early ones because of that. Which is a shame because it was the early ones that I was most curious about.
I also thought I had a limited amount of "Subject line"....so instead of writing "Female question", or Question for the ladies"....I just wrote "Girl Question" because it was short.....and maybe a little sexier, I don't know....anyways....since then, a sister complained about the use of the word "girl", so now I cringe every time I see the word, and I stop dead in my tracks and consider every time I use it. But sometimes, that's the operative word, it's just the way it is. I certainly don't object to being called "boy".
I try to format my question posts by first sharing something from my own life, so that I'm not just creepily asking for something. But I never thought by sharing tickling experiences I would catch so much grief from other members (always men!), that I pretty much don't like going into that part of the Forum anymore.
These are the question threads:
How long does it take for them to discover you're ticklish?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-it-take-for-them-to-discover-you-re-ticklish
When a guy wraps his arms around you, from behind….
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...n-a-guy-wraps-his-arms-around-you-from-behind
Why do you kiss us after we tickle you?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...ion-2-Why-do-you-kiss-us-after-we-tickle-you-!
Do certain articles of clothing get you tickled more than others?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-of-clothing-get-you-tickled-more-than-others
How would you tempt someone to tickle you?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?273864-How-would-you-tempt-someone-to-tickle-you
'Lees: When the tickling actually begins, do you regret it?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...the-tickling-actually-begins-do-you-regret-it
'Lees: If you're being tickled by two people, does one cancel the other out?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...than-one-person-does-one-cancel-the-other-out
Have you ever informed on a 'lee?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...cklee-(telling-other-people-they-re-ticklish)
What makes a 'ler attractive to a lee?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...makes-a-ler-attractive-to-a-lee-(if-anything)
Lees: Do you prefer the tickler to NOT be ticklish?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...-to-NOT-be-ticklish-(or-does-it-even-matter-)
And a very controversial one:
Have you ever tickled, or been tickled by, someone from another political party or ideology?
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...by)-someone-from-a-different-political-party-!
There were others, a couple I just asked and didn't care about, like one light-hearted one for the married members, which turned into the saddest, angriest post ever! lol!
GENERAL DISCUSSION
Probably the threads I'm most proud of and have the best time posting on:
Song of the Day
That's all it is. It's the most "me" thread. I figure if someone wants to know who I am, that's the thread. I love getting contacted about tickling stuff, I still can't believe that you all exist.......but it's the music people that I next most instinctively bond with on the Forum and so....once I know someone is into good music, I can't help but love them. LOVE them. It's the first thing I want to know about my fellow members. I wish I knew the musical tastes of every single TMF member! I wish we had a music forum, but I understand why we don't.
I try to make the songs flow into each other, both going down the thread, or starting from the bottom going up. Just a game that I play, not that anyone's going to actually listen to all those songs....(though they should!)......I even love no one comments on it, that it doesn't have a high view rate. That thread is me, for the long haul, it's like writing my graffiti tag on the wall of the TMF, you know what I mean? Go listen with me. That music will fill you up, even teach you something.....take it from Leo....😉
Songs about....weed!
Well....this is probably the thread I have the most FUN on! I don't drink, really, but I do smoke graaaaasss, man, lol. And, it's been so fun goofing around with Shippy (who is one nutty guy!) and all the other Forum members who contribute to that thread. The trifecta of tickling, music and smokey smoke.....no wonder why the TMF is completely self-sufficient as far as entertainment is concerned! I hear they're even going to put in a salad bar!
The Best,Worst...and Weirdest Cover Versions of Beatle songs
THIS is the thread I'm MOST proudest of, more than any other! The joy I get from interacting with other members of the Forum on that thread, I could almost weep about it. But even if people stopped posting on it, I'd still add to it. I work from home now, and the system is slow and goes down...and so....it's really helps my workday to go add to that thread. I love the people who contribute to that thread.
These threads, for me, are like throwing a little party, and you never know who's going to show up! Aww, c'mon, go over there and add a song! It's fun, you'll see!
IMAGES FORUM: NON TICKLING
I love women's fashion magazines. It comes from living with three girlfriends, and having female roommates......it started with my first girlfriend, and I'd be waiting for her to get ready, and so you just pick up this crap they have laying around, and start leafing through it.....and every page is like....a beautiful woman, beautifully photographed, and in various "situations". They often have their arms over their heads. Or they're barefoot. Or they're wearing a crop top. Or showing off their legs...whatever it is.....the temptation to tickle in these magazines is great for a 'ler.
I never was into porn. Various reasons, one is: my parents were so open about it, that I don't think I ever had the "naked lady syndrome", you know what I mean? I'm more interested in a woman with her clothes ON....how a woman dresses, tickling her gets her to "work" the clothes, different fabrics and textures add to it.....ah......even if I'm in bed with a nude woman....I flash back on when she first walked in, and took my breath away.
So fashion magazines have always done that for me. And girlfriends would rip out stuff for me and give them to me, and I just grew hooked on them. And I have this GIANT box of images that go back to the 80s. I want to get this box OUT OF MY LIFE.
(I also signed up for millions of clothing stores email lists, and they email me junk mail every day.....and I quickly go through it and glean out pertinent pics for those threads. I can't believe that they just email this stuff for free.)
So I have this shitty scanner....and am slowly posting them, under the various body parts:
Neck (this thread actually contains lots of neck tickle pics)
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?273097-Tickleable-nuzzling-necks
Under her arms
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272734-Unbearably-tickleable-under-her-arms
Tummy
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272733-Tickleable-girls-with-tickleable-tummies
Legs
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272784-Killer-tickleable-legs
and three related to end of the girl:
Barefoot
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272016-Tickleable-Barefoot-Fashion-Models
Nylons, fishnets,etc
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272526-Tickleable-girls-in-fishnets-nylons-lace-etc
and what I call "Tickle me shoes", lol:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?272200-Unknown-models-in-quot-tickle-me-quot-shoes
I also just started one called "Now THAT'S an album cover" (for hot album covers, right now all bf)
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?274818-Now-THAT-S-an-album-cover
..... and I'm going to start one that's just vintage 60s and 70s stuff.
I also started a thread for F/M people, "Suggestions of F/M tickling"...I don't have alot of this stuff because it's not really my focus, but sometimes you can't deny it, and I know others love it, so I always would rip stuff out when I saw something for that. It might just be the look on a girl's face, or her nails, or something....but that also does have F/M tickling pics in them, it's not just non-tickling images.
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...of-F-M-tickling-(mainstream-fashion-mags-etc)
Also, if a girl is wearing cute or sexy socks that make her look tickleable (ie: super thin socks), I'll post them on one of the sock threads that someone else started.
I don't really....how do I say this....make love love love to myself that much anymore......but when I post on the legs, the neck and under her arms image threads? Those are the ones that "turn me on" the most for some reason. When I work on those posts, deciding which images to use, my heart races, I don't know why those more than the others. I love the "whole woman", but those threads get to me the most.
I'd say that's for guys only, but really, it's for 'lers......and maybe 'lees, if they want to see what tempts us.....
MAINSTREAM FORUM
This is really why I rejoined. I'm such a mainstream freak. It goes back to being young...and even as a young adult....and having NO material to really enjoy or relate to. The only thing was when you'd be watching a movie or a TV show....and tickling would break out onscreen. Dizziness. Stomach dropping. The whole bit. I'd play hooky from school, or stay up until 4 in the morning, to catch a scene. I've paid lots of money to buy some rare movie just to see a reported scene.
I've accumulated so much, I have a giant box of videotapes filled with mainstream stuff I got over the years, much that's never been posted...(or listed!)...and I just want to give back to a part of the Forum that gave me so much over the years, as I lurked. But when I was under my OLD screenname, I posted ALOT. And I'm sure some of you have figured out what my old name was.
But, yet again, I can't help but getting into flames with people, and something really rankled me the other day so maybe I should say fuck it, and just horde it to myself. I'm going to go back, see who commented nice stuff, and then I'll put together a private club to share this stuff. Why throw your pearls to swine? Which brings us to:
FLAMES
The whole reason I put "Dearest" in my screen name, was to remind me to never get into arguments. Seemed like a a good idea at the time.
I don't know why I rankle people. I don't know why the stuff I post rankles some people. I really don't. But I always have gotten into it.
We ALL get on our high horse sometimes. I get on my high horse usually over two issues:
1.) People who post content, who take the time to post....even if it just takes a few moments.....that's time and energy....and I think we should appreciate it. And alot of people don't, and inhibit others from posting because they think this is all just one big show being put on for them. They're sitting there, like the Prince Apparent, giving thumbs up and thumbs down. And I've seen people time and time again STOP posting because of being picked on by commenters.
Alot of things people post....is dumb! But at least they're trying! So, I will leap to the defense of a thread creator, or someone who posts content, for free, for everyone to enjoy, and let's face it....many "get off" on it, so..... and yes, it rankles me if I'm being beat up on. I like a LITTLE credit, like anyone else, "hey, thanks for the clip"....but this is not about "credit" for me at all. This is about getting this stuff out of my physical world so that when I croak, my family doesn't have to wade through all this! Or what happens if there's another natural disaster where I live, and more of my possessions get water damage? What if I'm crossing the street and get hit by a shark? Well, at least it will be archived here! Plus...I sincerely want to give back, because I've taken so much, for years! But if people are going to be little prigs, well then fuck it. It only takes one bad apple.....
2.) If some guy makes some little mealy mouthed slimy comment, especially when there are women on the thread.....about how I'm just "getting off" on asking these questions, or on some other post...how dare anyone on a fetish forum waggle their finger about that issue, sorry. And to be honest....I post so much....I'm an Italian Aries living in New York City...not even I have that much energy to "get off" on everything I post! I especially find it odd, because....sometimes i ask myself....gee, you don't really "get off" that much anymore, why are you even here, on this Forum? See, to me THAT'S weird. NOT getting off!
So.....fuck those dudes. I will NEVER be ashamed of "getting off". Sex and masturbation, I didn't grow up in a household where those were considered "dirty". My mom bought me a subscription to Playboy when I was 12. If I have to "get off", good. Let's all come together...right now....over me! If these guys think I'm going to get embarrassed on a FETISH forum about getting through a moment....think again. Whatever gets you through the night....it's all right.
Tickling transcends. It's endlessly fascinating to me. I could talk about it all day long and lately, I do! It's not just about getting off, not to me.
If I ever got in to a "flame war" with you, my apologies. Seriously. I hate myself when I do that. It's ugly. It's ugly for the whole Forum. I go scorched earth. I am particularly ashamed of getting into it with a couple of great TMF contributors. I need to learn to just let things roll of my back. I actually learned a great piece of TMF protocol from observing how another member handled something, and I'm going to try and imitate her, going forward. But even as of this past week, I can't help but step in it.
Other than that, I go out of my way to be cordial and encouraging and gregarious and friendly and welcoming, and there's NOTHING I won't do for a fellow TMF member who is the same way. In real life? I have more friends than I know what to do with, my conscience is very clear as to how I treat people. But I can be a hothead, I won't deny that. One day I'm going to get myself banned!
What a load of vainglorious crap this blogpost is, huh? I shouldn't even post it! I'll disallow comments on this one.
