Absolutely fucking sick of it.
I had a serious problem today, the details of which I'm not going to post.
When I spoke to my aunt the artist.. she started in on me.. at the worst time, and asked for me to go off on her.
I'm fucking sick of her holier than now attitude, and her going off on my dead mother.
She's all "I never started a fight with anyone".. Never even admitting that she's ever been wrong.
As I may have posted.. my cousin, my aunt's son, may be moving 3000 miles away.
All I gently said to her was.
"If my mother was the age you were, I wouldnt move 3000 miles away from her. When Grandma was your age, my mother and I waited until Grandma had died, until we moved from NJ to PA."
It was at that point that my aunt decided to be mean spirited, and gave me the whole.
"Oh you've never done anything with your life" speech.
And
"I'm not going to ruin my son's life the way your parents ruined your life".
Positively fucking uncalled for.
Simply because I expressed, concern that her son is moving 3000 miles away from his soon to be 75 year old mother.
I didnt need this bitch putting me down because I was expressing concern about her. I promptly hung up on her, and told her its time for a nice, long hiatus.
She flies off the handle at every fucking thing I say, thinking everything is about her and her son, because she's always been so fucking self obsessed.
On Saturday, I was on the subway home, and there was a very scary looking,, huge cop, in both stature, and build,. standing not far from me. I was lucky that the other subway door open.
All I said to my aunt is..
"This huge, scary looking cop was scaring the shit out of me",
' And her reply was.
"You always make fun of fat people".
It s like. Where did I make fun of this cop's weight? I said he was "huge", and
"Scary looking". He could have been .. 7 feet tall and built like a basketball player.
I didnt say.. (Only an example)
"This fucking fat pig cop looked like he was going to haul me in".
Absolutely not one insulting word on my part..
Yet. she had to go off on me, for no reason.
I had two major issues today.
One of which was hopefully resolved.
The other I wont know about until the end of the week.
I fucking didnt have patience for her put downs.
So now its time for a hiatus.
I'm sorry, Mom. I tried for you. However, I cant put up with this woman's putdowns, selfishness, and holier than now attitude anymore.
I have to take time away, for my own sanity.
I had a serious problem today, the details of which I'm not going to post.
When I spoke to my aunt the artist.. she started in on me.. at the worst time, and asked for me to go off on her.
I'm fucking sick of her holier than now attitude, and her going off on my dead mother.
She's all "I never started a fight with anyone".. Never even admitting that she's ever been wrong.
As I may have posted.. my cousin, my aunt's son, may be moving 3000 miles away.
All I gently said to her was.
"If my mother was the age you were, I wouldnt move 3000 miles away from her. When Grandma was your age, my mother and I waited until Grandma had died, until we moved from NJ to PA."
It was at that point that my aunt decided to be mean spirited, and gave me the whole.
"Oh you've never done anything with your life" speech.
And
"I'm not going to ruin my son's life the way your parents ruined your life".
Positively fucking uncalled for.
Simply because I expressed, concern that her son is moving 3000 miles away from his soon to be 75 year old mother.
I didnt need this bitch putting me down because I was expressing concern about her. I promptly hung up on her, and told her its time for a nice, long hiatus.
She flies off the handle at every fucking thing I say, thinking everything is about her and her son, because she's always been so fucking self obsessed.
On Saturday, I was on the subway home, and there was a very scary looking,, huge cop, in both stature, and build,. standing not far from me. I was lucky that the other subway door open.
All I said to my aunt is..
"This huge, scary looking cop was scaring the shit out of me",
' And her reply was.
"You always make fun of fat people".
It s like. Where did I make fun of this cop's weight? I said he was "huge", and
"Scary looking". He could have been .. 7 feet tall and built like a basketball player.
I didnt say.. (Only an example)
"This fucking fat pig cop looked like he was going to haul me in".
Absolutely not one insulting word on my part..
Yet. she had to go off on me, for no reason.
I had two major issues today.
One of which was hopefully resolved.
The other I wont know about until the end of the week.
I fucking didnt have patience for her put downs.
So now its time for a hiatus.
I'm sorry, Mom. I tried for you. However, I cant put up with this woman's putdowns, selfishness, and holier than now attitude anymore.
I have to take time away, for my own sanity.
