I expressed some of this in the "Even Keel" thread, but hopefully if I put it here, it wont cause as much of a stir.
Bottom line: My friends run things their way, with no consideration for me. It's annoying.
As a continuation of the "Even Keel" thread.. Barney and I plans on Friday night. He had to cancel, because of a problem with his flight. When he called me, he sounded very arrogant, as is his pattern when things are going well for him, and when they aren't going well for me.
He had plans with his friend Paul yesterday, and supposedly, with his gf today. Fine. He lives in my building though, and made no effort to even call me, or see me, for an hour, to at least attempt to make up for cancelling on me. This, from someone, who sat in my apartment all night crying, on the anniversary of his father's death.
Adam: I see him infrequently, maybe.. once a ,month, and talk to him for about a half hour.. twice a week. While he sees me, and talks to me, he is constantly texting with his friend Peter, whom he sees every weekend for three days a weekend, all weekend, and whom I believe is his partner/lover. I care not what their relationship is. Its not my business. I don't appreciate when he doesn't pay attention to me, when I'm with him.. or on the phone with him.
My aunt thinks I need to try and look for a gf. It isn't going to happen with Maria and me. She's had ample opportunity to go out with me, has my number, I've asked her numerous times, and she keeps balking. My aunt also thinks I should look for someone who is conceivably young enough to have a child with. I don't know if I want a child.
I'm going to look for a job, and I have to work on my business. Bottom line, things cant go on like this.
As for my friends, I hope to make enough contacts, to put them both on the back burner. The way they behave, they both deserve it.
Bottom line: My friends run things their way, with no consideration for me. It's annoying.
As a continuation of the "Even Keel" thread.. Barney and I plans on Friday night. He had to cancel, because of a problem with his flight. When he called me, he sounded very arrogant, as is his pattern when things are going well for him, and when they aren't going well for me.
He had plans with his friend Paul yesterday, and supposedly, with his gf today. Fine. He lives in my building though, and made no effort to even call me, or see me, for an hour, to at least attempt to make up for cancelling on me. This, from someone, who sat in my apartment all night crying, on the anniversary of his father's death.
Adam: I see him infrequently, maybe.. once a ,month, and talk to him for about a half hour.. twice a week. While he sees me, and talks to me, he is constantly texting with his friend Peter, whom he sees every weekend for three days a weekend, all weekend, and whom I believe is his partner/lover. I care not what their relationship is. Its not my business. I don't appreciate when he doesn't pay attention to me, when I'm with him.. or on the phone with him.
My aunt thinks I need to try and look for a gf. It isn't going to happen with Maria and me. She's had ample opportunity to go out with me, has my number, I've asked her numerous times, and she keeps balking. My aunt also thinks I should look for someone who is conceivably young enough to have a child with. I don't know if I want a child.
I'm going to look for a job, and I have to work on my business. Bottom line, things cant go on like this.
As for my friends, I hope to make enough contacts, to put them both on the back burner. The way they behave, they both deserve it.
