Best posted in the blog..
Just so everyone knows what I'm dealing with:
My father.. as recently as yesterday on the phone, even though my mom had been dead for three months, keeps ranting on how "lawyers" told him not to pay alimony. He just fucking wont get off it.
His cousin, who insulted my mom the day after we buried her, still has my furniture, and has not given me a dime. Every time I ask him when the bitch is going to pay me for the furniture, he keeps saying "Next week". This is the same answer he gave me 15 years ago when I had a credit problem, and he owed my mom money. He never came through with that money.
Due to my credit problems, he has all my money. He is refusing to sell any posessions of my mom's that he has, or get even part of the money from the cousin.
So... I'm trapped, and the Son of a Bitch knows it.
My sweet, darling mom, who loved me more than life itself, in spite of her flaws, was taken from me, and I'm left with this guy.
I have no reason to believe that the cousin will ever pay me for the furniture, nor do I believe he will ever sell or give me the money for my mom's posessions. I think in his sick mind, he believes everything is his, because he paid for it.
All the SOB talks about is how my mom should have worked. I'm not going to post the reasons why she didnt, as its personal. Suffice to say, the courts stuck her the hit for his professional misconduct.
The CT divorce laws clearly state that she should live at or near how she lived during the marriage. We lived in a million dollar house then. While she didnt expect to live that way, she also should not have been forced to move to PA to a $700 a month apt, as he lived in a $6000 a month one.
I have to put it all aside. What he did to me with the taxes, his abuse of me, his family's not caring that we were estranged, but he can hang on to it all.
I dont forsee this ending well. Somehow, I'm going to have to figure a way out, via job, business, etc. I will be very surprised if his life ends with us speaking to each other.
In the meantime, he gets to have his fun attacking my mom, until I get settled. Just like I used to say to myself when he was abusing me as a kid, I'd get to the age to look him in the eye, and tell him to fuck himself.. I predict such will happen again.
My mom was taken, and I'm left with this. He gets to abuse me, and is financially advantaged to boot.
Such is why I have trouble believing in God. If there was a God, he will get hit in ways that dont affect me. As long as this goes on, and he continues to prosper, I have a hard time believing.
Mitch
Just so everyone knows what I'm dealing with:
My father.. as recently as yesterday on the phone, even though my mom had been dead for three months, keeps ranting on how "lawyers" told him not to pay alimony. He just fucking wont get off it.
His cousin, who insulted my mom the day after we buried her, still has my furniture, and has not given me a dime. Every time I ask him when the bitch is going to pay me for the furniture, he keeps saying "Next week". This is the same answer he gave me 15 years ago when I had a credit problem, and he owed my mom money. He never came through with that money.
Due to my credit problems, he has all my money. He is refusing to sell any posessions of my mom's that he has, or get even part of the money from the cousin.
So... I'm trapped, and the Son of a Bitch knows it.
My sweet, darling mom, who loved me more than life itself, in spite of her flaws, was taken from me, and I'm left with this guy.
I have no reason to believe that the cousin will ever pay me for the furniture, nor do I believe he will ever sell or give me the money for my mom's posessions. I think in his sick mind, he believes everything is his, because he paid for it.
All the SOB talks about is how my mom should have worked. I'm not going to post the reasons why she didnt, as its personal. Suffice to say, the courts stuck her the hit for his professional misconduct.
The CT divorce laws clearly state that she should live at or near how she lived during the marriage. We lived in a million dollar house then. While she didnt expect to live that way, she also should not have been forced to move to PA to a $700 a month apt, as he lived in a $6000 a month one.
I have to put it all aside. What he did to me with the taxes, his abuse of me, his family's not caring that we were estranged, but he can hang on to it all.
I dont forsee this ending well. Somehow, I'm going to have to figure a way out, via job, business, etc. I will be very surprised if his life ends with us speaking to each other.
In the meantime, he gets to have his fun attacking my mom, until I get settled. Just like I used to say to myself when he was abusing me as a kid, I'd get to the age to look him in the eye, and tell him to fuck himself.. I predict such will happen again.
My mom was taken, and I'm left with this. He gets to abuse me, and is financially advantaged to boot.
Such is why I have trouble believing in God. If there was a God, he will get hit in ways that dont affect me. As long as this goes on, and he continues to prosper, I have a hard time believing.
Mitch
