Straps&Laughter
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I had a conversation recently with a fellow kinkster about the double-edged sword of a "socially acceptable" kink. They were to the impression that it was easier to indulge because most people perceive tickling as a (fun or creepy) form of flirting.
We all grapple with ethics in our own way - what is okay to do, what is okay to fantasize about but not do, what is not okay to fantasize about - and I am no arbiter of the subject.
For me, consciousness of the sexual nature of my fetish makes tickling random female friends unethical because it is obtaining arousal or sexual gratification without their knowledge or ability to willingly consent. Instead of passing a Level One physical touch threshold, they think its Level One but I know that for me its Level Three.
How does having a tickling paraphelia/fetish adjust who, when, and how you engage in tickling?
We all grapple with ethics in our own way - what is okay to do, what is okay to fantasize about but not do, what is not okay to fantasize about - and I am no arbiter of the subject.
For me, consciousness of the sexual nature of my fetish makes tickling random female friends unethical because it is obtaining arousal or sexual gratification without their knowledge or ability to willingly consent. Instead of passing a Level One physical touch threshold, they think its Level One but I know that for me its Level Three.
How does having a tickling paraphelia/fetish adjust who, when, and how you engage in tickling?