Everyone who's on my friends list has approached me first and there have been some interesting ones. I'm very careful who I would consider a friend in cyberspace and if I check the "yes" box, it's not just for kicks. They are people I've been corresponding with for years or want to get to know better. And if someone doesn't like you or jell well with you, why do they even bother? When it comes to P&R, we're rarely going to agree and that's okay as long as we treat each other respectfully (which is rare in that subforum) but othewise I'm sure we can find some common ground.