Hey, got your message. Nice to see other people in Buffalo. There's a few of us. As for changing your name, ask Myriads, he can change it if you like for you. As for needing help finding people, no thanks. I'm a member on FetLife too and have a lot of local friends there. You should check it out and consider coming out with us for some events. I have one scheduled this Friday, another Tuesday and one or two possibilities later on this month.