desperado_flare
TMF Master
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I've been meeting a lot of new people recently and engaging in a few casual, tickle-related activities with them. I'm an attractive guy, so almost every girl who has any tickling-related contact with me enjoys it as innocent flirting (though most enjoy tickling me more than being tickled by me), and never pose any questions when tickling occurs.
Recently though, I've had two girls on separate occasions mention that they find tickling "sexual." One still was fine with tickling and being tickled, but the other seemed very put off by the idea. I've also had around 4 girls mention "tickle-freaks" messaging them on OkCupid, and they playfully tease me about possibly being one of them.
I'll be honest, one of the greatest things about this kink is, in my opinion, that it isn't truly "sexual" by any but the most extreme definitions. It usually involves no genitalia, oral contact, etc. Thus, the idea that people are starting to see it as "sexual" in the traditional sense worries me.
Has anyone else experienced this lately? Or am I just imagining this as a trend?
Recently though, I've had two girls on separate occasions mention that they find tickling "sexual." One still was fine with tickling and being tickled, but the other seemed very put off by the idea. I've also had around 4 girls mention "tickle-freaks" messaging them on OkCupid, and they playfully tease me about possibly being one of them.
I'll be honest, one of the greatest things about this kink is, in my opinion, that it isn't truly "sexual" by any but the most extreme definitions. It usually involves no genitalia, oral contact, etc. Thus, the idea that people are starting to see it as "sexual" in the traditional sense worries me.
Has anyone else experienced this lately? Or am I just imagining this as a trend?