BrightEyes1082
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I'm just going to jump right in here. Consider love to be a bank.
Each relationship you have is an account in the love bank. Your
relationship with your mom is an account. Your spouse, your best
friend, your kids, each individual has an account with you, and you
have one with them. Each interaction you have with a person makes
either a deposit or a withdrawal into/from your love bank account
with them. And the same goes for their account with you. If you
vacuum before your wife gets home, you made a deposit. If you
track mud on her clean floor, you made a withdrawal. Make sense?
Okay.
<a href="http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/learn.html">There are five love languages.</a>
They are:
<ul><li>Words of Affirmation</li><li>Quality Time</li><li>Receiving Gifts</li><li>Acts of Service</li><li>Physical Touch</li></ul>
So, the question I pose is this: what happens when you speak the
wrong language to your significant other? If your main love language
is Quality Time, and your significant other's main love language is Acts
of Service, and you're speaking in different languages to each other
that the other doesn't understand, how are you ever going to make
deposits in your love bank?
Each relationship you have is an account in the love bank. Your
relationship with your mom is an account. Your spouse, your best
friend, your kids, each individual has an account with you, and you
have one with them. Each interaction you have with a person makes
either a deposit or a withdrawal into/from your love bank account
with them. And the same goes for their account with you. If you
vacuum before your wife gets home, you made a deposit. If you
track mud on her clean floor, you made a withdrawal. Make sense?
Okay.
<a href="http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/learn.html">There are five love languages.</a>
They are:
<ul><li>Words of Affirmation</li><li>Quality Time</li><li>Receiving Gifts</li><li>Acts of Service</li><li>Physical Touch</li></ul>
So, the question I pose is this: what happens when you speak the
wrong language to your significant other? If your main love language
is Quality Time, and your significant other's main love language is Acts
of Service, and you're speaking in different languages to each other
that the other doesn't understand, how are you ever going to make
deposits in your love bank?