LindyHopper
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I had an cool experience over the weekend. Anyone interested in reading the details in all their sexually explicit glory can find the complete account here in the True Tickling Stories forum.
Anyway, what happened was that I was at a BDSM club for a weekend conference, in the mood for a gang tickle, but without any of my usual tickling friends in attendance. I've never seen anyone else at this club doing any tickling, so I wasn't sure what kind of interest there would be. So, as a bit of experimentation and fantasy-fulfillment, my husband and I decided to tie me to a bondage table and put the following sign in the doorway:
COME TICKLE ME!
Light touch works best.
Feathers are nice.
I'm ticklish everywhere!
And lo and behold, a crowd gathered! And they certainly seemed to enjoy tickling me, these folks who were usually into flogging, and caning, and bondage, and humiliation play. I got the impression that putting me through my paces, making me give all these reactions involuntarily, and seeing me "suffer" was the kick, regardless of the specific activity. Apparently, sadism is sadism, no matter what you happen to be doing.
Several people thanked me afterward for letting them participate. A few took pains to help make it happen again the in future! And one person I hadn't met even struck up a conversation with me the next day, saying he was very sad to have missed my scene (he was busy with a suspension scenario at the time), because he enjoys tickling, too. We engaged in some playful tickling, relaxing in the social area after 2 am at Sunday's party. Tragically, he and his happy-giggly, ticklish partner live in Virginia. But I directed him to the TMF, and told him he should go to NEST, since it's only a few hours away.
So anyway..... my point is that I was surprised by such a positive response. I had generally understood the BDSM community to be supportive of diverse activities within their kinky umbrella, but I still didn't expect such active interest and participation from so many people who are usually into much harder (or at least very different) stuff. It was a cool thing to see, and I definitely encourage even "pure" tickle-enthusiasts to seek out these connections with the greater BDSM community. The people are fantastic, and they have so much to share.
Do other people have interesting experiences crossing tickling with BDSM, in terms of folks who are primarily involved in one or the other? What issues came up, or didn't come up? Has anyone ever felt like a foreign traveler, or fit right in like family? What did you discover from the experience?
And comments on the whole putting-up-a-sign thing are welcome as well.
Anyway, what happened was that I was at a BDSM club for a weekend conference, in the mood for a gang tickle, but without any of my usual tickling friends in attendance. I've never seen anyone else at this club doing any tickling, so I wasn't sure what kind of interest there would be. So, as a bit of experimentation and fantasy-fulfillment, my husband and I decided to tie me to a bondage table and put the following sign in the doorway:
COME TICKLE ME!
Light touch works best.
Feathers are nice.
I'm ticklish everywhere!
And lo and behold, a crowd gathered! And they certainly seemed to enjoy tickling me, these folks who were usually into flogging, and caning, and bondage, and humiliation play. I got the impression that putting me through my paces, making me give all these reactions involuntarily, and seeing me "suffer" was the kick, regardless of the specific activity. Apparently, sadism is sadism, no matter what you happen to be doing.
Several people thanked me afterward for letting them participate. A few took pains to help make it happen again the in future! And one person I hadn't met even struck up a conversation with me the next day, saying he was very sad to have missed my scene (he was busy with a suspension scenario at the time), because he enjoys tickling, too. We engaged in some playful tickling, relaxing in the social area after 2 am at Sunday's party. Tragically, he and his happy-giggly, ticklish partner live in Virginia. But I directed him to the TMF, and told him he should go to NEST, since it's only a few hours away.
So anyway..... my point is that I was surprised by such a positive response. I had generally understood the BDSM community to be supportive of diverse activities within their kinky umbrella, but I still didn't expect such active interest and participation from so many people who are usually into much harder (or at least very different) stuff. It was a cool thing to see, and I definitely encourage even "pure" tickle-enthusiasts to seek out these connections with the greater BDSM community. The people are fantastic, and they have so much to share.
Do other people have interesting experiences crossing tickling with BDSM, in terms of folks who are primarily involved in one or the other? What issues came up, or didn't come up? Has anyone ever felt like a foreign traveler, or fit right in like family? What did you discover from the experience?
And comments on the whole putting-up-a-sign thing are welcome as well.