tru x factor
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well i have very low sself easteem so i serious i could make a person to the point to "tearfull laughter" so by a persons words make you a better or worse tickler?
If you ask me, self esteem has nothing to do with it. It's skill and determination that make a good tickler.
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well i have very low sself easteem so i serious i could make a person to the point to "tearfull laughter" so by a persons words make you a better or worse tickler?
well yes i'd have fun but have to get pass the low self easteem spot first the nervousness the shyness of it all. when you have low self easteem it's kinda hard to overcome a moutainhave fun with your lee..and if she's real ticklish, you'll find a way to make her laugh
1) find a girl who's fun and enjoys being tickled 2) get out the legos and... ok at least try the first point...well yes i'd have fun but have to get pass the low self easteem spot first the nervousness the shyness of it all. when you have low self easteem it's kinda hard to overcome a moutain
I think self esteem can be a factor. If you feel you are "not worthy" in any situation, then "fail" is the prevailing attitude. However, also think that what your passion for tickling is plays a big part.
I tend to be on the shy side myself. Self confidence can be improved on. Sometimes those thoughts of "not good-looking enough", "not smart enough".
The interesting thing for me, going back to comment about passion, is my love & enjoyment for tickling puts any lack of confidence in a closet. Become more relaxed, not worried about being "good enough", just having fun.
I also think important to establish a bit of friendship, finding like-minded people, that share your ideas of tickling or being tickled...helps to take some of the pressure off, is my thinking.
Wish you well in life's journey.
1) find a girl who's fun and enjoys being tickled 2) get out the legos and... ok at least try the first point...
Hm.
Perhaps if you had a really, really fucking low self esteem it could make things kinda awkward for both parties.
One- The person lering could end up asking 5 billion 400 thousand questions a second, "Areyouokareyouokareyouokareyouokareyouokareyouok??"
Sure, we like to be checked up on perhaps during a scene. But not that much, you know?
Two- They might not allow to be completely themselves due to thinking the other person might not 'like' them. So, in doing so they will over-think the scene/session/kumquat and end up missing the enjoyment of the whole damn thing.
It varies, I guess.
Hm.
Perhaps if you had a really, really fucking low self esteem it could make things kinda awkward for both parties.
One- The person lering could end up asking 5 billion 400 thousand questions a second, "Areyouokareyouokareyouokareyouokareyouokareyouok??"
Sure, we like to be checked up on perhaps during a scene. But not that much, you know?
Two- They might not allow to be completely themselves due to thinking the other person might not 'like' them. So, in doing so they will over-think the scene/session/kumquat and end up missing the enjoyment of the whole damn thing.
It varies, I guess.
yes kinda. but it's not workingI over-thought a kumquat once and it became an eggplant.
Tru X, so again, is this something you're working on? The self-esteem thing?
yes kinda. but it's not working
well thank you but mostly afraid will i suck as a tickler and stuff people tell me there is no bad tickler but i feel there isTakes time. Also depends on what you're doing and what exactly it is you're trying to change about yourself.
Hope it works out.