hi my name is jay i recently lost my mom to that horrible fucking disese called cancer.its tough and i know im not the only one here that gone through something like this. was just wondering how other people coped with it.belive me im not an asshole i have a heart of steel,but i have to say this is really getting the best of me.looking at someone dye and know u are helpless is the worst i know this is a crappy thing to think about but if anyone can help let me know its difficult