Hi all. I have been away from the forum for a while now, but I had an interesting conversation, and I felt like the TMF was a good place to share it.
I am a 29-year old woman. I recently began dating a 21-year old guy and had brief flings with a 22-year and a 20-year old last year. My friends were joking that I have already reached cougar status.
My first thought was that I am too young to be a cougar. Then I was thinking, why do we even need to put a label on this? To me, it's mostly a coincidence, as my relationships in the past have all been with older guys. I guess my question is, have any other ladies dated guys significantly younger before they hit stereotypical cougar status? Was their any kind of social fallout or labeling involved? My experience has been mostly positive so far, but was wondering how others felt.
Just curios
I am a 29-year old woman. I recently began dating a 21-year old guy and had brief flings with a 22-year and a 20-year old last year. My friends were joking that I have already reached cougar status.
My first thought was that I am too young to be a cougar. Then I was thinking, why do we even need to put a label on this? To me, it's mostly a coincidence, as my relationships in the past have all been with older guys. I guess my question is, have any other ladies dated guys significantly younger before they hit stereotypical cougar status? Was their any kind of social fallout or labeling involved? My experience has been mostly positive so far, but was wondering how others felt.
Just curios