Snail Shell
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H'okay. This is the earth. Whatever.
My four year anniversary is coming up. This coming August will be four years since my last romantic involvement with another human being. I've spent the last four years without any kind of committed romantic involvement and only one quasi-serious interest. And to be totally honest, it didn't really bother me, my previous experiences notwithstanding.
I didn't really think much of it until this past week or so. A girl and I went for coffee after chatting for a while on FetLife. She seemed shocked that not only have I been single for that time, but that I've not been exactly looking, nor do I really miss the dating scene. Granted, she plans weddings for a living, but that's beside the point.
Then the other night, I got together with a friend from high school to grab a drink and catch up. She'd also been single for some time and said that she didn't always have to be in a relationship. Her ex, on the other hand, was one of those people who went from relationship to relationship like a monkey grabbing the next branch before he lets go of the present one.
So how about you? Do you need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy? What's the longest relationship you've had? What's the longest time you've been single? What's your take on this whole thing?
Snail Shell
My four year anniversary is coming up. This coming August will be four years since my last romantic involvement with another human being. I've spent the last four years without any kind of committed romantic involvement and only one quasi-serious interest. And to be totally honest, it didn't really bother me, my previous experiences notwithstanding.
I didn't really think much of it until this past week or so. A girl and I went for coffee after chatting for a while on FetLife. She seemed shocked that not only have I been single for that time, but that I've not been exactly looking, nor do I really miss the dating scene. Granted, she plans weddings for a living, but that's beside the point.
Then the other night, I got together with a friend from high school to grab a drink and catch up. She'd also been single for some time and said that she didn't always have to be in a relationship. Her ex, on the other hand, was one of those people who went from relationship to relationship like a monkey grabbing the next branch before he lets go of the present one.
So how about you? Do you need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy? What's the longest relationship you've had? What's the longest time you've been single? What's your take on this whole thing?
Snail Shell