Tickling is many things to many people, but i always think that the method should revolve around the lee, if the ler is tickling then the ler is happy.
I will be talking about g/g mainly and real life, respect and trust is important in cyber also remember.
But if a lee is wanting to be tickled in the pits its pointless tickling the feet or belly.
Many may not agree or argue this idea, but i would always (with a new lee even more so) establish go and no go areas, any taboos, use a safe word, make your intentions and their requirements understood, before the offset, never ever do anything non consent.
Its all about trust and respect and if you want it long lasting then you have to go a step at a time establish best practice for both the ler and lee.
Alaways start gentle and sensual, tease and use baby talk make it a fun situation, go very steady and work up the intensity on a gradual basis, keep checking that the lee is ok, your own experiance will help, but the one thing you don't know on a first session is how its going to go.
For bondage use soft non chaff items that the lee is familiar with say a scarf, or cloth belt, curtain ties, clothes sheets, (don't walk in in black leather gear with a whip and chains handcuffs and leg irons)
Just basic hands in front ankles together possibly fully clothed lay the lee down on the floor or bed, leave things loose so they don't feel too restricted and freak out, they will feel safe if not too restricted, and if you get it right futher on they may order you to make it all tighter so they are helpless.
tease and whisper what your going to do it does excite and scare, but it also dosn't come as a shock when you do it, and your talking and teasing them along the way.
The attitude of iam a ler and iam going to do what i like regardless is the sort of "wham bang thank you mam" and "oh by the way how was it for you" attitude that will scare off a newbie for life.
My first tickle and bondage was when i was 15 at school, after class in the evening we had a ameteur drama group the teather got called out and i had got everybody detention the week before through talking in class, so i was rushed by the girls to a dark stock room under the stage where the props were kept, tied to some steps and racks with skipping ropes, wrists and ankles spread eagled and had the first tickling session.
I always knew i was ticklish and bi born that way, but had never considered, bondage or being a ler, i felt scared and helpless, paniced, but felt excited also, one girl had wondering hands, and that was where later i considered the bondage revenge, and ler aspects, thought about it, dreamed about it had a fantasy and in the end done it.
So yes i did enjoy it, but prefered the ler discipline rarther than lee.
Like a lot of members i have raised posts and threads about aspects of tickling on here and over at tickle theater,
www.mydungeonspace.com. is a site where more information about bondage, control, domination and submission is available sort of tutorial forums.
Yes at 33 well it will be 34 this year iam still learning about tickling and bondage.
In the states its not tues but in the uk its so happy birthday lizzie have a nice special day.
please don't be a stranger just pop in when ever with a pmm no problem if you don't
hazel foster.
oh and i told this same girl about my thing for tickling on new years eve! first time ive done that too!
