Footjob

[carwash666]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. She knows I have a foot/tickling fetish. She is ok with me tickling and licking her feet, but when I talked to her about footjobs she was really turned off by it. Is their anyway I can persuade her into it?

 

[Fat Bastard]

Put a ring on it.

 

[jersey_tickler]

Dude, I know where you're coming from. Not to nit pick, but perhaps you should've waited a while for her to get used to the tickling and licking before bringing up the easiest job in the world lol!

Anyway, all kidding aside. Just take a break from all the foot stuff, and do stuff for her that she enjoys. Down the road, suggest the idea of her gently stroking you with her feet. Since you've been with her for a year and a half, I don't see why she can't indulge you a little bit. I mean, with equal rights, comes equal responsibility.

PM me if you wish to discuss this matter further, dude, we park our cars in the same garage!

 

[marmite]

I undertstand that this is a desire of yours, but, your girlfreind lets you tickle and lick her feet and she is saying no to just one thing! Can you not just eccept her wishes and show her that you are willing to comprimise a little?

Hey, I'm not trying to tell you what to do, just trying to give a little sound advice to a fellow foot lover! Good luck with what ever you decide.

 

[Flatfoot]

First, I have one question. Do you ever go down on her? Basically, do you make sure she "gets hers"? Okay, that was two questions.

 

[GQguy]

First, I have one question. Do you ever go down on her? Basically, do you make sure she "gets hers"? Okay, that was two questions.

Exactly. I have found that women like sex more than even I do. I can't think of the last time I initiated sex and a woman turned me down since I started to ensure that she "got hers" everytime. Sometimes I don't even "get mine" but that's cool.

Lately i've employed a new move that gets women primed for the deed. While going down on her have her bend her legs at the knees an lay them flat on the bed with the soles of her feet together. While giving her oral pleasure slilde your member in between her soles. Every woman i've tried it on goes along with it and start to work their toes and such. Some even commented on how much of a turn on it was to feel my strong member while my tongue was on them. It helps me "stay strong" too while I go down on her as my member sometimes loses enthusiasm. This way i'm ready to go when it's time to come in. My partners also get the hint that i'm VERY attracted to their feet this way and our footplay becomes more common place.

Good luck
GQ

 

[Flatfoot]

Exactly. I have found that women like sex more than even I do. I can't think of the last time I initiated sex and a woman turned me down since I started to ensure that she "got hers" everytime. Sometimes I don't even "get mine" but that's cool.

Lately i've employed a new move that gets women primed for the deed. While going down on her have her bend her legs at the knees an lay them flat on the bed with the soles of her feet together. While giving her oral pleasure slilde your member in between her soles. Every woman i've tried it on goes along with it and start to work their toes and such. Some even commented on how much of a turn on it was to feel my strong member while my tongue was on them. It helps me "stay strong" too while I go down on her as my member sometimes loses enthusiasm. This way i'm ready to go when it's time to come in. My partners also get the hint that i'm VERY attracted to their feet this way and our footplay becomes more common place.

Good luck
GQ

Yeah, I know about that maneuver. My wife does that on her own while I'm going down on her, and the stroking is good for foreplay, but if I was gonna get an actual footjob, I'd definitely incorporate lube or lotion. Without it, things can quickly go from pleasurable to painful, as feet and legs are not the most wieldy/graceful appendages. Also, the leg thrusting/knee bending can get tiring for a woman (unless she's some sort of a calisthenics fiend or footjob porn model, but I digress.), so it sometimes helps for the guy to hold on and "assist".

 

[Cool guy]

Wow man your lucky she let's u lick and tickle her feet

 

[rhiannon]

Lately i've employed a new move that gets women primed for the deed. While going down on her have her bend her legs at the knees an lay them flat on the bed with the soles of her feet together. While giving her oral pleasure slilde your member in between her soles.

I doubt that is a good idea after she refused to do a footjob! It's kind of sneaky! If I refused to do something and then a guy tried to make a move like that, I would be majorly pissed!

 

[homemade]

All you can really do is be patient with her, and make her happy - yes, happy in the bedroom, but also by doing little things for her to make her just happy in the relationship in general. In turn, she will want to make you happy, and when she is ready, will probably want to make you happy in this way, as she knows it is something that you would really like to do.
I also think she is probably just scared to do it too. She's probably never done it, and feels like she doesn't know what she's doing, and is afraid of not being good at it. Once she does eventually do it, make sure you help guide her and also tell her how good it feels. Once she sees how much it turns you on, she will want to come back and do it again.
Or, are there certain things she won't do with a partner until she is married? Everyone has their own limits.

 

[GQguy]

I doubt that is a good idea after she refused to do a footjob! It's kind of sneaky! If I refused to do something and then a guy tried to make a move like that, I would be majorly pissed!

Then he'd need a new girl friend. It's pretty harmless especially if the guy is using his tongue to pleasure her. Poor guy! There ae plenty of women out there that know how to treat their man.

 

[rhiannon]

Then he'd need a new girl friend. It's pretty harmless especially if the guy is using his tongue to pleasure her. Poor guy! There ae plenty of women out there that know how to treat their man.

Maybe she just needs a new boyfriend who accepts her boundaries! She's indulging him with foot fetish and tickling already, so why should she do something she obviously truly doesn't like? Would he do something he doesn't like to please her?

 

[Doctor_D]

Everyone has their things that they like. Some are mutual, as for others, you just got to meet each other halfway when you can. Have you tried talking to her and finding out what turns her off about it?

 

[ndj101982]

Maybe she just needs a new boyfriend who accepts her boundaries! She's indulging him with foot fetish and tickling already, so why should she do something she obviously truly doesn't like? Would he do something he doesn't like to please her?

I found that my girlfriend was a lot more willing to do things that I was into if I did things she was into to. First off, a guy isn't going to get blowjobs, and sure as hell won't be getting a footjob if he isn't willing to give oral sex to his girlfriend. My past girlfriends never went down on me if I was not willing to do it for them. Also, there are ways to hint to her that you are into her feet on your cock. With one of my ex's, she was playing footsies with me underneath the table one night and i grabbed her foot and rubbed in on the outside of my pants. She felt that it was getting me hard and realized that it turned me on. Every now and then when we were getting in the mood in the future she would be lying on the couch and start rubbing her feet on my cock through my pants to get me horny. So, basically I'm saying there are subtle ways to get a girl into it. But you are gonna have to sacrifice and do things she's into as well.

 

[Doctor_D]

I wouldn't think of that being anything close to a "sacrifice", but that's just me.

 

[ndj101982]

I wouldn't think of that being anything close to a "sacrifice", but that's just me.

I wasn't referring to oral sex as the sacrifice so much as other things that a guy may not like to do..... like spending "quality" time around her parents...lol

 

[Doctor_D]

C'mon, some guys out there have a spending-time-with-the-parents fetish. Hearing "what kind of work did you say you do" and "if you ever make my daughter unhappy..." just may actually turn certain guys on.

 

[ndj101982]

C'mon, some guys out there have a spending-time-with-the-parents fetish. Hearing "what kind of work did you say you do" and "if you ever make my daughter unhappy..." just may actually turn certain guys on.

Sure, if there turn-on means getting smacked around by an older man....lol

Who doesn't get turned on while their gf or wife's parents bring up old boyfriends and compare you to them

 

[GQguy]

Maybe she just needs a new boyfriend who accepts her boundaries! She's indulging him with foot fetish and tickling already, so why should she do something she obviously truly doesn't like? Would he do something he doesn't like to please her?

I agree. Bounderies should be respected. But what's the point in being with someone if you can't get what you want sexually? A footjob isn't a big deal on the sex spectrum. Especially if he does his part and pleases her. He really ought to move on because there are plenty of women out there that know how to take care of their man. Saying no in the bedroom is a sign that they are not compatible.

Yes. I would most definitely suggest he do something to please his woman that he doesn't like! Who else will do it for her? I'm not huge on giving oral....but any woman i've been with would be shocked to read that. I do it with enthusiasm to keep them happy. And keep them coming.....no pun intended ;o)

My initial advice wasn't meant to be sneaky. I just re-read the original post and realized that she wasn't game for it. My advice was for the situation where you're testing the waters. I've done it with four different women this summer(i'm in a relationship now) and every one was surprisningly into it! Despite being of different ages and backgrounds.

GQ

 

[rhiannon]

I agree. Bounderies should be respected. But what's the point in being with someone if you can't get what you want sexually?

Let me think about that one...hmmm...what was it again about being with someone despite having sex...oh, now I remember: LOVE! How about that??

I have never EVER heard from a couple who got everything sexually from their partner that they asked for. And that is totally okay! It has to be okay to say no if you don't want to do something!

Saying no in the bedroom is a sign that they are not compatible.

O wow. Nobody I know is totally compatible. They should all get divorced.
Are you really serious about that??

I would most definitely suggest he do something to please his woman that he doesn't like!

I would never ask my husband to do something that he doesn't like just because it pleases me. If he is uncomfortable doing something, how could I enjoy it?

 

[GQguy]

Let me think about that one...hmmm...what was it again about being with someone despite having sex...oh, now I remember: LOVE! How about that??

I have never EVER heard from a couple who got everything sexually from their partner that they asked for. And that is totally okay! It has to be okay to say no if you don't want to do something!



O wow. Nobody I know is totally compatible. They should all get divorced.
Are you really serious about that??



I would never ask my husband to do something that he doesn't like just because it pleases me. If he is uncomfortable doing something, how could I enjoy it?

The thing that I keep in my mind when it comes to pleasing my woman is this "If I don't please her, someone else will" It keeps me on my toes. She's gorgeous and it's true, guys will fall over themselves to give her what I refuse to. And in turn I use the same philosophy " If she won't please me, someone else will". It's a give and take. I might not like spanking but it cost me less to try it than it does her, who desires that in the bedroom. I can find a buddy or a platonic girlfriend to love, to complain to after a crappy day, to make plans with,be myself with, tell my dreams to, laugh with and all of the other things that couples do....but sex is special. It's between only you and your partner. Theres love between people that are not intimate...and LOVE between those that are. This reminds me of a time where an ex of mine told me she loved me but wasn't "in love". Huh? I thought. But looking back there was no sexual passion and my philosophy was far from what I stated above. A few years later we meet up again with my new philosophy and she is willing to go to the ends of the earth to be with me. To not give 100% is to not get the most out of this special bond. What is a relationship without sex....roommates. I think those in that situation should aspire for more. For the original poster...when will he get his simple footjob if he won't get it from his SO? After she passes away? Next lifetime perhaps? What a waste of life.


I guess it's more important to find someone that will go as far to please you as you are willing to please them. I subscribe to the leadership mentality where I show/teach her unselfish sexuality by displaying it first in hopes that she follows along and we both have a good time!

I get everything I want from my girl. I give her everything she's willing to ask for. I do my best to ensure that we have a climate where she can ask for whatever she likes. This is not unique to just she and I but to every girl I date. My friends that are even more adventurous than I do too.

But in the end I guess we're at different stages in our lives with varying ideologies when it comes to sex and it's role in relationships.

GQ

 

[BMoreTklr]

I think it's all in the way you break it to her. Even with the foot/tickling fetish. You don't want her to feel like her feet and her being ticklish is the only thing you want her for. Also, you want to make sure that whatever sex you guys are having outside of anything fetish related, is satisfying her (read: blowing her effin mind). If you're marinating that fish right (shout out to Max Julian) then introducing things like foot/tickling fetish and footjobs will be something to only help enhance the sexual experience between the two of you, and not just seen as "he just wants to get off to my feet and I think it's disgusting". In my experience, women wanna do all that freaky nasty isht (within reasons)......just put some bass in your voice and handle your business correctly and she'll love it because she knows it's bringing you pleasure and it's simply reciprocating the same level of pleasure you've been able to give her.....just my thoughts

 

[Patiklers]

LOL, heres a perfect way

Give it to her so good, so fast and so hard it brings tears to her eyes!! I have never and i mean never had a girl say not to a footjob ar anything foot related after i first obliged her with a mindrockin big O,, works everytime without fail, suck it up big boy! i promise it will work, she will be like putty in your hand after words!
in fact if you keep it up, she will be asking for them!!

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. She knows I have a foot/tickling fetish. She is ok with me tickling and licking her feet, but when I talked to her about footjobs she was really turned off by it. Is their anyway I can persuade her into it?

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I doubt that is a good idea after she refused to do a footjob! It's kind of sneaky! If I refused to do something and then a guy tried to make a move like that, I would be majorly pissed!

I agree that being sneaky about it wouldn't be a good idea after she already said no, but if he presented it to her in the right way, she may be willing to give it a shot. Especially if his plan starts off as, "Step one: I go down on you..."

 

[TickVix]

I honestly think in order for a woman to fully engage in an activity such as that she has to be ready and willing. If she does it but isn't really enjoying doing it for you, than you're not really going to enjoy it either. Give her some time and maybe even suggest that you try it out just once to see how she feels about it afterwards.