Has anyone ever been forced out of the tickling closet?

[reddogftklr]

This is a topic that has not been discussed in a while. Has anyone ever been discovered by a family member, friend, or partner and had to come clean about this thing of ours? Luckily my parents could never use the computer if their life depended on it. The only person who I think knows is my brother, but he seemed cool about it. I think he might acually be into it a little, but definatlly not as much as me? My ex-girlfriend kind of knew. She knew about my foot-fetish, but I do not think she knew about the tickling aspect. Even though I tickled her all the time, she hated it, and hated feet. Other than that I share this with all of you. Anyone have stories, please share
Red

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I'm pretty paranoid about anyone in my family finding out about it. As I spend more time here and chatting about it I'm becoming much more comfortable and accepting with the entire thing. I don't think I'll ever be comfortable expressing it to my family though.

And now that I've wasted entirely too much space rambling to answer you're question, not really. There was one time that my boyfriend flat out asked me if I liked it when he tickled me. I wasn't expecting it so I guess my face kind of gave it away. But it was a blessing because he tickles me now more than he ever did!

 

[Limeoutsider]

Ive had several close calls, but I dont think anyone knows yet

 

[primetime]

i'm actually close to coming out with a friend of mine. we've gotten really close and she actually lets me tickle her feet. not the torturous kind, but the slight, more sensual kind. i am at odds of revealing this side to her. she knows i like to tickle to some extent, just not how far. i want to show her this site, but still hesitant. one time, as i was sitting at my computer, she almost caught me when i tried to access this site real quick. she was in the bathroom and i didnt hear her come out. i managed to avoid having her see what i was looking at, but now i wonder if i should let her know. decisions, decisions......

 

[tickler10uk]

Outed tickler

I've been an outed tickler since I was a kid everyone in my family knows I like to tickle and my nephews and nieces look forward to my visits for that reason I also have many friends who I tickle and we get together for tickle sessions

 

[the_Baron]

well, well. way back when the first "tied & tickled" video from cal star came out, i accidently left it in a very accessable place. various family members saw it, and knew it was mine. one of them left it on my bed, presumably so that i could put it elsewhere. interestingly, no-one said a word about it then, or afterward. they may have forgotten it by now. but who knows.

 

[shygirl]

I am very comfy in my closet and wiil deny having a foot and or tickling fetish to any family members or vanilla friends, this is why I come to this forum, to express myself and have fun with this interest.

 

[areenactor]

not forced out

i've not been forced out, but i have had to come clean on a couple occasions. once to a friend, and once to my parents. it' discused all the time with my buddy, he's very into tickling now, due to our conversations. with my parents, it's never come up again.

this is a sexual thing for most of us (i think all of us, but that's another argument)so why should we have to come out of the closet with it? it's really not polite to discuss sexual likes, desires, and preferences with those that we are not extreemly close to. i'd be scandlized if a sibling were to start to discuss their love of butts, or breasts with me. well tickling is on the same level. it should be loved behind closed doors.
steve

 

[sugarmouse]

i think people i have chatted to kno wthat my boyfriend went through my comouter,to all the sites id visited recently (when i was asleep, not long after id joined tmf) and then the next day i had an eamil saying he was very displeased lol! and he has since told various people abou tmy 'fetish' including his boss andsome of my friends. im not a shy person but i felt uncomfortable with people knowing at first..although my friends whoknow have been fine...i hve a gay male friend who now tickles me when he sees me and the other friend who knows said she had an inkling nyway..i actually am guessing she is into ti aswell!
but apart form that,no one knows and i would feel funny been really open about it..as it is a sexual thing for me aswell as just soemthign that makes me happy .....but since my friends tolerant reactions, i have been that little bit more open

 

[WraithTickler]

I am very comfy in my closet and wiil deny having a foot and or tickling fetish to any family members or vanilla friends, this is why I come to this forum, to express myself and have fun with this interest.

I think that about sums my own situation on this more or less to perfection as well.

 

[jordan]

I was discovered by my dad. I was stupid and I printed out a story someone wrote. Well dad found it, went to the site, but luckily it didn't appear for him. Than he went through my files and found all my saved photos, and video clips.

 

[terorizer]

well, well. way back when the first "tied & tickled" video from cal star came out, i accidently left it in a very accessable place. various family members saw it, and knew it was mine. one of them left it on my bed, presumably so that i could put it elsewhere. interestingly, no-one said a word about it then, or afterward. they may have forgotten it by now. but who knows.

HAHAHA! Almost my experience exactly! As a kid, everyone in my family knew I liked to tickle, but probably didn't think anything of it. There have been 3 or 4 occasions where things were "left out" so to speak. Mind you, I've never taken great pains to hide my kink really, but I had a "Tied and Tickled" magazine in my drawer one day, came back the next day and it was gone. Another time I managed to procure a copy of "Lesbian Foot Ticklers" (ROTFL, you know, now that I think of it, I've never bought any "true" porn!!) Now the "lesbian" one might be able to rationalize... even the "foot" part one might rationalize, but clearly the focus of the mag was tickling. Mom found that one. She's also found stories/fantasies I'd written. Roomies of mine may or may not have encountered videos I had at one time or another left in the VCR. In any of these events however, nothing was ever said to me by anyone.

 

[WraithTickler]

After reading this, I suddenly recall a monlogue by Dennis Leary or Miller. Can't remember which comic at the moment. He describes how men always have these huge Bat Cave like hidding spots for their porn or other fetish related material. Impossible to find, elaborately hidden, well stocked, and yet the misses always finds out because a tape is left in the VCR.

 

[korn_ste]

I GOT CAUGHT - because of a silly mistake

I have to admit it that i WAS CAUGHT OUT just a few weeks ago,
I'm currently lodging with a mate and his missus, well i set my PC up in the spare room and have used it regular ever since i moved in,
but one night when he and his missus were out i found out my FM concepts tickling DVD and played it on my PC,
Then went to bed and got up for work the next day.

I came back from work but received a phone call asking me if i wanted to go for a beer down the local - so i went to the pub straight after work and had a few beers,
So i'm sitting there and out of the blue my mate asks me
"What was that thing on your desk?"
I'm gobsmacked and my brain goes mental at the thought of what i had done,
I instantly remembered i had not put the DVD back away - NOW I WAS FUCKED......
With no way out of it i calmly explained but he was ok about it and said that the DVD actually looked quite good - naked women tied down and tickled etc!
It was a bit of a relief for him to say that - but i felt sick at the thought of being found out - i was almost ashamed and wanted to die on the spot.......

I SELECT MY TMF AND DVD MOMENTS AT THE SAFEST TIMES NOW - AND NEVER RISK IT EVEN SLIGHTLY.

 

[Myst]

I...a decent while back...used to use my father's computer during the night before I had my own, because it was away from the door, and my brother wouldn't see..

Well, one night I was looking over several sites..and I began to get a headache. Now, my dad always erases his history every night, and im always extremely careful to do so as well.

Sadly, I forgot that night and was caught red handed the next. Luckily, the sites were mixed in with several other sites that looked like casual pornography. Well, my dad is very trusting, and was sure I would never look at porn...and I explained to him that it appeared on video game sites and such and I clicked the links by accident.

He fell for it and put it behind him...but now im extremely careful, for I do not wish for anyone to see the history on my computer..I don't think I could ever get out scot free again.

This is rushed, so if it is confusing..I apologize...but im rushing out the door.

 

[U.N.Owen]

I used to be extremely careful, and no one ever suspected anything. Eventually, though, I got tired of feeling like I was hiding something shameful, so I decided to tell my family about it. Not an easy thing to do. I just told them that I had a personal preference that might seem a bit odd, something I'd liked since childhood, etc. When I finally worked up to saying it was tickling, the reaction was, "Is that all? Why were you worrying about something so harmless?" -- which was a relief. I also told the family members individually, which I think was easier than trying to talk to several at once.

Only my sister has seen my image and video collections. She rather liked them, actually.

If and when I get into a meaningful relationship, my gf/wife will definitely be told, too.



Another thing -- will people stop insulting vanilla when they talk about non-ticklers and such? Where do people get this idea that vanilla is "plain" or "dull"? Have you ever cooked with a real vanilla bean? Well, have you? There is no more elegant, subtle and sensuous aroma on earth, people! I mean, really!