HAWAII - FEMALE SESSIONS WITH TKL-PEN

[tkl-pen]

Tkl-pen, the gentleman tickler, will be in Honolulu and Kona in August - I can accept two tickling sessions in each place - these can be one-on-one tickle sessions or bachelorette/stagette parties - if you have read my stories and you believe you can take such an intense erotic tickling session, please pm me as soon as possible - with dungeon and party experience in Hong Kong, Los Angeles, Manila, Montreal, New York, Sapporo, Tokyo and Toronto - and I will not expect any tribute or reward for these sessions - they will be just for fun and to make new friends.

 

[tkl-pen]

I'm quite surprised that nobody has responded as yet - in Canada, I do multiple sessions every month at stagettes, bachelorettes, ladies parties - here is a chance for one or more ladies in Hawaii to session with a real tickling expert for gentle, erotic or intense tickling (her choice) with or without nudity (her choice) - preferably a group of three or more. I always had a personal dream of tickling a hula dancer in full costume. Do we have any female members in Hawaii who actually like to be tickled?

 

[rhiannon]

I am amazed that you are surprised nobody responded

 

[Dakine]

I'm not surprised. Not that high of a population there, but maybe you will get lucky. You'd have better luck on Oahu.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I lol'd.

 

[Mephistopheles]

I am amazed that you are surprised nobody responded

I lol'd.

that pretty much sums up my reaction.

 

[eric33]

Wow...i didn't think Canadians were arrogant,...and i,m Canadian..feeling a little embarrassed about that right now,..i think i,ll go hug a moose.

 

[tkl-pen]

I'm sorry, guys, I didn't realize that I came across as arrogant - I didn't mean to - but I am surprised because I thought there were about 85,000 members on this forum and all of them, it seems to me, are always talking about the way they would like to be tickled in bondage - then, when I post something like that, not a single response - so, yes, I am surprised and I wonder how many of the members, females in particular, are really truthful about wanting to be tickled - having said that, though, I am proud of the skills that I have developed through various dungeons and the five to eight tickle parties I do in Canada every month - if that's arrogance, please forgive me.

 

[myth77]

I'm sorry, guys, I didn't realize that I came across as arrogant - I didn't mean to - but I am surprised because I thought there were about 85,000 members on this forum and all of them, it seems to me, are always talking about the way they would like to be tickled in bondage - then, when I post something like that, not a single response - so, yes, I am surprised and I wonder how many of the members, females in particular, are really truthful about wanting to be tickled - having said that, though, I am proud of the skills that I have developed through various dungeons and the five to eight tickle parties I do in Canada every month - if that's arrogance, please forgive me.

Here's my 2 cents. You offered intense, erotic tickling sessions. That's something that takes a bond of some kind with the Ler, and it's not something that a lot of women in general would just do with a stranger making a posting. Yes, there are women on the forum who are talking about wanting to be tickled, but not just by some random person. It's not a knock on your skills. This has been said on here before many times: replace the word 'tickling' with sex, and repeat the offer. See how awkward a post like yours becomes? Again, I'm not knocking your skills, and I won't go as far as to say the post was arrogant, just maybe a different perspective would help you understand why no response yet. But who knows, there are probably a handful of women here who might be up for your offer. For me, I have to be involved in a relationship with the Ler, because being tickled is very personal for me, and I would not want to experience that with just anyone, like a one-night-stand.

 

[tkl-pen]

Thankyou for that response - in my world, I never even thought about replacing the word tickling with the word sex - I would have replaced it with the words massage, perhaps - and people go to massage therapists and other physical services without having a relationship with them - perhaps that's my own naivety.

 

[jonsmith]

I would have replaced it with the words massage, perhaps - and people go to massage therapists and other physical services without having a relationship with them

Wait! Stop, delete that part, and change it. You might start up another flame war which will cause everyone to put their cents in, even if they're bent!

But, yeah...eroticism isn't necessarily a good thing to put out there. People in different places get wiggy about it.

 

[Speedbump]

I really can't believe that the OP expected girls to just flock to him for tickling sessions. At first, I thought this was a joke thread.

 

[tkl-pen]

I did not expect girls to flock to me by any means - as a sincere member of this forum with a serious tickling fetish I was simply looking to connect with one or two ladies in Hawaii who like to be tickled - to me there is nothing sexual about it or anything like that - simply a tickling session - I didn't think it was a big deal - I am a little taken aback, though, that I got this kind of a response since every girl who introduces herself on this forum immediately gets twenty or thirty guys pouncing on her (and I'm not one of them since I only ask people to contact me first), not even counting all of the pm that she gets - I don't consider my inquiry a joke thread anymore than that of any other member looking to find someone for a tickling session - perhaps it would be better not to mention experience and ability - simply pretend to be something I'm not then.

 

[asutickler]

To be completely frank and honest, I think the little end bit where you say "I will not expect any tribute or reward for these sessions - they will be just for fun and to make new friends" is what led to a lot of the negative response. The notion that you're being generous by not requiring these women (in theory) to compensate you for your time and services in tickling them is a bit... I guess "over the top" is how I'd put it.

I have to give you kudos for ballsiness and style, though... And I'll admit it: I'm now tempted to stick a tip jar on my night stand.

 

[Speedbump]

I did not expect girls to flock to me by any means - as a sincere member of this forum with a serious tickling fetish I was simply looking to connect with one or two ladies in Hawaii who like to be tickled - to me there is nothing sexual about it or anything like that - simply a tickling session - I didn't think it was a big deal - I am a little taken aback, though, that I got this kind of a response since every girl who introduces herself on this forum immediately gets twenty or thirty guys pouncing on her (and I'm not one of them since I only ask people to contact me first), not even counting all of the pm that she gets - I don't consider my inquiry a joke thread anymore than that of any other member looking to find someone for a tickling session - perhaps it would be better not to mention experience and ability - simply pretend to be something I'm not then.

Keep it to the personals, I guess. The way I see this is, "I'm lookin' to tickle a girl. Be one of the lucky few to get tickled by me so I don't have to jerk off to porn the whole time I'm there. I won't even CHARGE you!"

 

[eric33]

Here's my 2 cents. You offered intense, erotic tickling sessions. That's something that takes a bond of some kind with the Ler, and it's not something that a lot of women in general would just do with a stranger making a posting. Yes, there are women on the forum who are talking about wanting to be tickled, but not just by some random person. It's not a knock on your skills. This has been said on here before many times: replace the word 'tickling' with sex, and repeat the offer. See how awkward a post like yours becomes? Again, I'm not knocking your skills, and I won't go as far as to say the post was arrogant, just maybe a different perspective would help you understand why no response yet. But who knows, there are probably a handful of women here who might be up for your offer. For me, I have to be involved in a relationship with the Ler, because being tickled is very personal for me, and I would not want to experience that with just anyone, like a one-night-stand.

WoW...you hit the nail on the head,...i would never feel comfortable tickling a total stranger,..i would need to have a relationship with the woman i,m going to tickle,..as it is also very personal to me.

 

[Angel77]

I'm sorry, guys, I didn't realize that I came across as arrogant - I didn't mean to - but I am surprised because I thought there were about 85,000 members on this forum and all of them, it seems to me, are always talking about the way they would like to be tickled in bondage - then, when I post something like that, not a single response - so, yes, I am surprised and I wonder how many of the members, females in particular, are really truthful about wanting to be tickled - having said that, though, I am proud of the skills that I have developed through various dungeons and the five to eight tickle parties I do in Canada every month - if that's arrogance, please forgive me.

I personally didn't find your offer arrogant but the reason why I didn't respond is because much like Myth, I too find tickling to be a highly personal and private thing. While a lot of people meet for tickling sessions with folks they don't well or perhaps even go to a dungeon for their tickling needs, I can't do that. No, I certainly don't look down on folks that do because it's their life and if that makes them happy, I truly and honestly am happy for them! It's just not my kind of thing - to be tickled by a stranger. I'm more of a private girl when it comes to that. Same reason why I don't dig being tickled in public. It just makes me feel uneasy.

In order for me to enjoy something so intimate, I need to feel a strong connection to that 'ler. It doesn't have to be love or lust but something has to be there.

I do wish you luck in finding someone to share something so wonderful.

Oh and enjoy your time in Hawaii - it's awesome there!

 

[rhiannon]

as a sincere member of this forum with a serious tickling fetish

to me there is nothing sexual about

Is it just me or do those two sentences contradict each other immensely?

simply a tickling session

As far as I remember, you were offering erotic tickling sessions....that's not quite comparable to going to a massage therapist.

And for some reason, five to eight sessions a month don't seem to mix with what you write in the visitor's message section on your profile!

 

[myth77]

WoW...you hit the nail on the head,...i would never feel comfortable tickling a total stranger,..i would need to have a relationship with the woman i,m going to tickle,..as it is also very personal to me.

This and...

I personally didn't find your offer arrogant but the reason why I didn't respond is because much like Myth, I too find tickling to be a highly personal and private thing. While a lot of people meet for tickling sessions with folks they don't well or perhaps even go to a dungeon for their tickling needs, I can't do that. No, I certainly don't look down on folks that do because it's their life and if that makes them happy, I truly and honestly am happy for them! It's just not my kind of thing - to be tickled by a stranger. I'm more of a private girl when it comes to that. Same reason why I don't dig being tickled in public. It just makes me feel uneasy.

In order for me to enjoy something so intimate, I need to feel a strong connection to that 'ler. It doesn't have to be love or lust but something has to be there.

I do wish you luck in finding someone to share something so wonderful.

Oh and enjoy your time in Hawaii - it's awesome there!

this made me feel a little more "normal" (whatever that is ) .

 

[Angel77]

This and...



this made me feel a little more "normal" (whatever that is ) .

Did you just call me normal?

 

[myth77]

Did you just call me normal?

Uh...no... I would never do that to you . I know you know what I mean though (know what I mean? ). Sometimes I think maybe there's something unusual about me that I prefer to keep these activities confined to a relationship because of how it affects me. Like maybe I'm too old-fashioned, or I'm being too limited in my thinking or something. But that's how I'm 'wired'

I've seen posts reflecting this, and a friend here even told me that while female Lees might be looking for that sort of one-on-one connection, most Lers would never be happy tickling just one girl in a relationship setting. So I'm basically screwed .

 

[tkl-pen]

Is it just me or do those two sentences contradict each other immensely?



As far as I remember, you were offering erotic tickling sessions....that's not quite comparable to going to a massage therapist.

And for some reason, five to eight sessions a month don't seem to mix with what you write in the visitor's message section on your profile!

I am beginning to realize that not everyone perceives tickling the way that I do, Rhiannon. To begin with, the message section on my profile was written quite long ago while the parties that I tend to have only been in the last two years - I guess I'll have to update that. When I say that I have a tickling fetish, I mean that I very much enjoy tickling women but to me there is nothing sexual about it - perhaps I should have used whipping or caning as an example instead of massage. To me an erotic tickling session is where a ticklee is gently tickled in a certain manner (as in my story Trials of Taleena) and does become sexually excited - it does not mean that I want to have anything to do with her other than tickling. To me those two concepts are completely different other than to say that I like to tickle a girl who likes to be tickled.

 

[tkl-pen]

To be completely frank and honest, I think the little end bit where you say "I will not expect any tribute or reward for these sessions - they will be just for fun and to make new friends" is what led to a lot of the negative response. The notion that you're being generous by not requiring these women (in theory) to compensate you for your time and services in tickling them is a bit... I guess "over the top" is how I'd put it.

I have to give you kudos for ballsiness and style, though... And I'll admit it: I'm now tempted to stick a tip jar on my night stand.

The concept of tribute is one that you will find on very site where a dom or a domina offers his or her services. These sites also state very clearly that sex is neither offered nor expected and sessions will end immediately if the subject is brought up. When I am booked for bachelorette parties here, which can include tickling and other bdsm activities, and I bring my equipment and gear for the ladies to play with, with or without my actual involvement, I usually receive a tribute to compensate for the expenses and to contribute to the cost of buying more things. This is the normal practice and expectation with any dom or domina. I put that statement in because most people who would book a session like this with a dom or domina would expect to give that person a tribute. I did not mean for that to offend anyone.

 

[tkl-pen]

Keep it to the personals, I guess. The way I see this is, "I'm lookin' to tickle a girl. Be one of the lucky few to get tickled by me so I don't have to jerk off to porn the whole time I'm there. I won't even CHARGE you!"

Yes, I am looking to tickle a girl in Hawaii. I have always wanted to tickle a hula dancer in full costume in the same way others would like to tickle a girl in a school girl, nursing or flight attendant uniform. I do not watch porn which I find particularly disgusting and I do not "jerk off" as you say - this is a very base and filthy response to my post and if that's what you read in it, I am sorry you don't have greater intuition.

 

[Angel77]

Uh...no... I would never do that to you . I know you know what I mean though (know what I mean? ). Sometimes I think maybe there's something unusual about me that I prefer to keep these activities confined to a relationship because of how it affects me. Like maybe I'm too old-fashioned, or I'm being too limited in my thinking or something. But that's how I'm 'wired'

I've seen posts reflecting this, and a friend here even told me that while female Lees might be looking for that sort of one-on-one connection, most Lers would never be happy tickling just one girl in a relationship setting. So I'm basically screwed .

I know exactly what you mean and no, you're not alone in how you feel. We're all wired differently. Sure, I can do fun little tickle fights with friends and all but nothing too crazy and definitely not comfy with it in public - for me anyways. I would prefer my intense tickling to be with someone that I'm in a close relationship with as well. It's sexual to me. Afterwards I'd probably want a lil sumpin sumpin lol and I don't do that with just anyone.

I've often wondered if I would be "enough" for a 'ler that I would be involved in but it often looks like some 'lers do get bored with just one 'lee. And to be fair, some 'lees get bored with only one 'ler so I guess it goes both ways.

But we can both be screwed together?