2ticklish2say
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Hello everyone! I've been a member forever on this forum, but haven't really had a need to post anything until now. I've recently been feeling a huge and personal desire to finally come out to this man I'm sort of seeing about my tickling fetish. I know these posts are a dime a dozen, but I guess I never realized how terrifying this can be, and this is a place I feel safe talking about this when I don't have anywhere else.
Anyway, I'm a 20 year old female who has never really ever been that sexually active. When I studied abroad to Ireland, I finally met a man - who is 6 years older - that I really let in and became vulnerable around. He even visited this summer. Anyway, I live in the US, and I'm visiting during the holidays. I was wondering though........I mean this is something I've kept hidden and felt ashamed about forever. Since probably age 5. My first memory of tickling being something was preschool. I'm sure I could dig up something sooner though. Anyway I just feel like if I tell him through the internet I'll feel ashamed about it later when I see him and embarrassed in general I ever said anything. However, I don't want to wait until when I come over, and saying it on a video chat would be so awkward to me.
(On a side note, this is a personal shame. I think this community is so great, and to be honest I don't think there's anything wrong with this fetish, but it's just something I ingrained in myself.)
I just don't think I should hold this in anymore. At one point he and I were even talking about fetishes and I asked him if he had one and he said "no, but you probably wish I did" or something. That's when I started thinking that he would like that I had a fetish.....a sure way to turn me on.
This is just something I can't hold in anymore. I just wanted to maybe see what thoughts were on this subject because I really need some support in this. I mean this has felt like a deep dark secret of mine forever, but maybe telling him and getting it out into the light would make this feel less shameful and put into perspective that this isn't a big deal.
I'm rambling, but anyway I just wanted to see maybe what you all would think. I really respect the opinions on this forum, and to be honest just need some support. I have the chance to be completely, sexually satisfied and accepted here and I'm too afraid, which is so aggravating. Anyway just wanted to see if anyone else felt this way? or has gotten out of feeling this way?
Anyway, I'm a 20 year old female who has never really ever been that sexually active. When I studied abroad to Ireland, I finally met a man - who is 6 years older - that I really let in and became vulnerable around. He even visited this summer. Anyway, I live in the US, and I'm visiting during the holidays. I was wondering though........I mean this is something I've kept hidden and felt ashamed about forever. Since probably age 5. My first memory of tickling being something was preschool. I'm sure I could dig up something sooner though. Anyway I just feel like if I tell him through the internet I'll feel ashamed about it later when I see him and embarrassed in general I ever said anything. However, I don't want to wait until when I come over, and saying it on a video chat would be so awkward to me.
(On a side note, this is a personal shame. I think this community is so great, and to be honest I don't think there's anything wrong with this fetish, but it's just something I ingrained in myself.)
I just don't think I should hold this in anymore. At one point he and I were even talking about fetishes and I asked him if he had one and he said "no, but you probably wish I did" or something. That's when I started thinking that he would like that I had a fetish.....a sure way to turn me on.
This is just something I can't hold in anymore. I just wanted to maybe see what thoughts were on this subject because I really need some support in this. I mean this has felt like a deep dark secret of mine forever, but maybe telling him and getting it out into the light would make this feel less shameful and put into perspective that this isn't a big deal.
I'm rambling, but anyway I just wanted to see maybe what you all would think. I really respect the opinions on this forum, and to be honest just need some support. I have the chance to be completely, sexually satisfied and accepted here and I'm too afraid, which is so aggravating. Anyway just wanted to see if anyone else felt this way? or has gotten out of feeling this way?