How do you feel about your fetish?

[Sunday_10pm]

Do you sometimes wish you didn't have these desires? Try to search inside yourself and see what you find. A good indicator that you're not totally comfortable in yourself is whether you would mind people knowing.

How would you feel if someone, say, broke into your computer and mailed your friends some of the clips you watch? I can say for sure, that I would be pretty ashamed! And I can also say that, in contrast, alot of my friends have absolutely no shame in keeping a folder of their porn on their desktop where anyone can see it.

My current feeling about my desire to watch people abused is that I'm not happy about it. I'm just sitting here wonderring why I get off to seeing women restrained and tormented rather than engaging in "normal" sex, where they are free and able to move about...

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Womens feet LOVE EM


Tickling women LOVE IT

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Not so much as I wish I didn't have them so much as I wish a lot more girls did .

 

[milagros317]

It took me a long time to accept my interests. (Go ahead and call them fetishes if you want to; I never liked that word myself.) But I have reached the point where I accept them and I'm comfortable with loving tickle torture and women's bare feet.

 

[taptoematt]

All my life I found myself furiously fighting against my fetishes. Now in the last couple of years, I've learned to just accept them, but I am still very reserved about it to those in the outside world and keep my fetishes secret.

 

[maniactickler]

The part i dont like about it, is that it drastically limits my choices for dating.

 

[kered]

I'm ok with it.

 

[chrisheaven]

I LOVE it

 

[EvenSteven]

acceptance

i am totally at peace with my bondage & tickling fetish. i have accepted it and i get a lot of gratification knowing that there are others who have the same fetish. Every time a female 'Ler chimes in it excites me. i never want to lose the special feeling i get when indulging in the fetish and it doesn't matter how many people think otherwise.

 

[SirDigbyChickenCaesar]

While I'm at peace with all of my little quirks, desires, and fetishes; I can say that were someone to just randomly discover those things I would feel mighty awkward explaining things to that person. It is one thing to accept yourself for who you are, and another to be able to totally not care about social stigmas. While I would probably get over the initial embarrassment quickly, I don't think there is any way I could ever truthfully say that there wouldn't be any initial embarrassment.

 

[LockstockinSam]

Well, since I'm a long time lurker, and this shall be my first post here, I thought it would be appropriate: In regards to someone finding out, I would have to admit I'd be pretty uncomfortable. This is mostly due to the fact that I know absolutely no one who shares such...'interests', we'll deem them, and those who have discussed it find the very idea 'so weird' and other such negative derivatives.

But I don't think I would have an issue sharing my 'interests' with a strong boyfriend/companion type with whom I already share a deep trust with. Otherwise, in the tickle closet I remain.

 

[SpiffyTickler]

I completely accept it as part of my sexuality, but I would be kind of embarrased if the videos I watched and general information about my tickling fetish somehow got around to my friends. When you get down to it, tickling is kind of a fringe fetish, and it would be easy to see why others would view it as being weird.

 

[CrazyTickler]

I'm fine with it

I'm fine with my Tickling and fetish of Big Female Feet. But I don't want my friends and/or family to find out especially my girlfriend. Because they would try to have me committed or analyzed by a shrink because they wouldn't understand me or my fetish.

 

[Sunday_10pm]

Thanks to everyone who replied, and to those who aren't comfortable - the path of self-acceptance is, by definition, blocked only by your-self, so work at it!

 

[Coda]

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a tickling fetish, a foot fetish, or any other fetish. I thoroughly enjoy having both.

The interpretation of this by society at large, or indeed, anyone I meet or even trust, is largely unclear to me. There's no harm done to anyone in keeping it personal, so that's where I'm at now.

milagros: I know what you mean about the word "fetish." I tend to use "interest" sometimes, because "fetish" is a word that has become associated with messages of abnormality for some people (in the same way that "ticklephile" seems to be).

 

[tcklft]

How do I feel about my fetish? Pretty damn good!

 

[Saeria]

I have a fascination with mine. What made me feel weird was all those years i thought i was the only one who seemed to appreciate being tormented in such a manner. Really i'm oddly open about all of it now.

 

[Camble]

I'm a bit of both, (being more into feet anyway)

At times I feel ashamed, but when I visit this website and others similar to it you really feel part of a community and at ease knowing that there are a lot of like minded people who share this fetish

 

[911]

I wish I never had it but I don't know if I'm ashamed of it.

 

[kidd8th]

I'm not ashamed, but not open either.

Tickling is nothing to be ashamed of, but I really didn't explore this side of me until after I was married. I always had a foot fetish, but the tickling aspect was something I guess I would hide feeling I would be made fun of. So I kept it to myself. After a while I started searching the internet to find places like this where it was accepted. My wife tickles me but not to the point where I would like. I think she does it just because she knows I like it, and not because she enjoys it, so with that being said, sometimes I wish I didn't have this fetish cause I think it's something both parties would have to be into to make it work. I glad there is a place like this where I can openly talk about this, and not feel like a strange person a lot of people makes us out to be. (Just look at WWE, the Snitchsky wrestler is a total nut, and he just happens to have a foot fetish). When It's all said and done, I guess I've accepted this fetish cause it could be worse. I mean there are far worse fetishes to have out there, one's that are illegal at that, so I'm not going to complain.

Anyways, that's my 2 cents.......

 

[MsZahraTickler]

I'm perfectly content to be a sadistic bitch.

 

[DEEPSHOTONE]

No problems ....now

I used to have a problem with this fetish untill I became a member of the this site! I was estatic to know that there were hundreds if not tens of thousands of people who shared my intrest. My ex-wife used to make me feel very shamefull. But now that I'm divorced (1.5yrs) I embrace the fetish like never before. Now I can start traveling down the road to Happiness

 

[Mehstra]

I absolutely love my fetish. My view of fetishes in general is that without them, sex would be pretty boring. I mean, honestly, how many times can anyone have straight up vanilla missionary sex before thinking "Ok, there has to be something else out there."
That being said, I never told anyone about it until my girlfriend pretty much figured it out anyway. She was always kind of a tickler, though not in any sexual sense, she's just sadistic. (Not that I mind.) After I told her how it turns me on and showed her a couple sites like this, though, she decided that tickling is the coolest fetish ever, and by now I've totally converted her. We are the kinkiest virgins ever, and proud of it.
As far as being ashamed of it because of the bondage aspect, as long as everything is consensual, I don't see any moral conflict.

 

[Strider]

Most of my close friends know about my predilections

 

[whyguy2]

I am completely satisfied with this part of my life. i have accepted it. it took a long time but i finally accepted it. i will not tell my family or friends about it because they will never understand. I love ticklish and i love pretty female feet. especially females with big feet and or long toes. im not all picky about that though but its just my preference. smal feet and or short toes are fine as well. I reall want to thank this site and the people here who have helped me accept this portion of my life. Thank you all. As far as this be used as a sexual thing. i have never done that before but i do think can be arousing, but thats just me. i hope that when i find the lee of my dreams she will like sensual, gentle and merciless tickling. i know i will find her one day. but am happy that this a part of me and i accept it. i feel free