Of course, I'm biased because I started this thread, but these are such interesting answers.
You can see they really are spread out. Meaning some people really have figured out how to have a healthy outlet for the fetish (significant other or hiring someone for service) (And it looks like some are spending maybe $500 per month for this - or maybe $6,000 per year)
Others have a less successful path but they do something - watch videos, ect.
And others come here and this is all they get.
Maybe a continuation of this thought is - if you're not getting what you'd like to, how can you change that.....