Find someone to DATE, online dating sites, etc. I cant say ive met any/many women that want to be used for a purpose. Aure, maybe on this site you could meet a woman that wants to be tickled, but its rare. All depends on you, your approach and personality. In the past year,i e met regular women on normal dating sites, and ive "sessioned" with all of them.
Dont be a douche or a creep or hyper focused on just the physical acts. Get to KNOW someone. Like them, enjoy spending time with them. The rest will be easy.