I am fairly certain I will never have a real tickling experience.

[CapturedDoll]

I'm not giving up. I continue to contact the people I think that can help me the most. Such as some producers here that live near me. I email them almost once a week and ask for a simply reply. I do so in a very polite manner. Hopefully they'll find it within themselves to stop ignoring me.

 

[TicklishTklr66]

I have not had the chance to go through all of the threads here. I did have a question for WildLaughter, with saying that you would have to come up with a complex lie, are you married or currently seeing someone that isn't into tickling?

 

[moose]

gotta go with the old saying "if at first you don't succeed try try again"

 

[WildLaughter]

Um...

Speaking as a producer, if they're not mailing you back they're not interested. Continuing to pester them on a weekly basis isn't going to get them to change their minds.

Besides, what exactly do you think these producers are going to do for you?

2 of them are within driving distance from me. I was thinking submitting myself as a model. That was one option I had. But they just ignore me, without knowing what I want. And with any producer, like yourself, they have much more experience than me, so any advice would be great.

 

[WildLaughter]

I have not had the chance to go through all of the threads here. I did have a question for WildLaughter, with saying that you would have to come up with a complex lie, are you married or currently seeing someone that isn't into tickling?

Not married. Not seeing anyone. Still live at home. Thats what I mean about lying. If I were to go out for half day, those in my life will ask me what I was doing. I really don't want to lie, it sucks.

 

[duderino84]

Not married. Not seeing anyone. Still live at home. Thats what I mean about lying. If I were to go out for half day, those in my life will ask me what I was doing. I really don't want to lie, it sucks.

Name a casino nearby the destination?

"Me and a friend are taking a day trip to ______".

I remember when I lived around your area in a dorm myspace made finding people to talk to a little easier.

If you don't use Happn, Tinder, POF, OKC.....you're gonna miss out. It's not a cure all but knowing what's in your backyard will help you. Talk a little while, if you get "what do you want", well, there you go.

 

[SoleMates]

2 of them are within driving distance from me. I was thinking submitting myself as a model. That was one option I had. But they just ignore me, without knowing what I want. And with any producer, like yourself, they have much more experience than me, so any advice would be great.

Without knowing who you contacted, I can't speak definitively as to why they didn't write back. However, I can speculate. The first two things I'd propose is that the producers in question don't do F/M, or they don't want you, specifically if they do. F/M isn't exactly a huge seller, in my experience, so it's not like they're going to need dozens of models in the same way that they would to cover the */F categories. If that's the case, they may not be booking at this time. Or, the more obvious reason, is that you're not a model. Are you hot? Ripped? If not, odds are they don't want you.

And regardless of the reasons, making a pest of yourself would immediately take you off "the list" even if they were considering you in the first place. Generally speaking (and this goes for any business venture), you're allowed one follow-up. Beyond that, you've gone from "interested" to "annoyance", especially if you're at the stage where you're E-mailing them on a weekly basis and begging for an answer. (And before you say "I'm not begging", yes you are.)

As a producer, I am not going to work with someone desperate for a "tickle fix", especially not some depressed dude from the TMF who started a thread to complain about his lack of "experience". It wouldn't be hard to put two and two together and realize that you're the guy in my Inbox begging to come to my studio and noping you right into the Junk Mail folder.

I'm not a big name, but I get guys contacting me angling for an "in" once in a while. They want to come "help", but what they really want is to get their hands on the girls I work with. There's absolutely no way I'm risking my reputation by letting some random stranger from the Internet into a shoot, so unless you come knocking with a modeling resume, portfolio, OMP profile page, or something similar to show me you're looking for legit work, I'm going to assume that's what you're up to and your E-mail is going into the circular file. Bluntly, we're not in the business of setting up tickle sessions between our models and randos.

So, my advice to you is to forget about hooking up with a studio and go with what the other people here are telling you instead. Making videos isn't for you right now, if ever.

 

[Tenebrae]

Without knowing who you contacted, I can't speak definitively as to why they didn't write back. However, I can speculate. The first two things I'd propose is that the producers in question don't do F/M, or they don't want you, specifically if they do. F/M isn't exactly a huge seller, in my experience, so it's not like they're going to need dozens of models in the same way that they would to cover the */F categories. If that's the case, they may not be booking at this time. Or, the more obvious reason, is that you're not a model. Are you hot? Ripped? If not, odds are they don't want you.

And regardless of the reasons, making a pest of yourself would immediately take you off "the list" even if they were considering you in the first place. Generally speaking (and this goes for any business venture), you're allowed one follow-up. Beyond that, you've gone from "interested" to "annoyance", especially if you're at the stage where you're E-mailing them on a weekly basis and begging for an answer. (And before you say "I'm not begging", yes you are.)

As a producer, I am not going to work with someone desperate for a "tickle fix", especially not some depressed dude from the TMF who started a thread to complain about his lack of "experience". It wouldn't be hard to put two and two together and realize that you're the guy in my Inbox begging to come to my studio and noping you right into the Junk Mail folder.

I'm not a big name, but I get guys contacting me angling for an "in" once in a while. They want to come "help", but what they really want is to get their hands on the girls I work with. There's absolutely no way I'm risking my reputation by letting some random stranger from the Internet into a shoot, so unless you come knocking with a modeling resume, portfolio, OMP profile page, or something similar to show me you're looking for legit work, I'm going to assume that's what you're up to and your E-mail is going into the circular file. Bluntly, we're not in the business of setting up tickle sessions between our models and randos.

So, my advice to you is to forget about hooking up with a studio and go with what the other people here are telling you instead. Making videos isn't for you right now, if ever.

SolesMates, I absolutely love to read your posts. They are always so clear-cut, no-nonsensical and to-the-point that you really give a big "professional" vibe. I also learn stuff by reading you: I had no idea that there were people who harassed producers to "get their hands on [your] models"; I find the image a little bit disturbing to be honest. If people did not have your ethics, I think our industry could turn into something very, very nasty.

There is only one thing that I disagree with: unless I misunderstood what you said, follow-ups are the key to a successful endeavor. I am not talking about harassment naturally, but only one follow-up? People some time don't check their e-mails, so one may need to make 1-2 phone calls, check if they are on Skype or LinkedIN, and whatnot. I never got anything in life by gently knocking at doors; I pried them open with a crowbar and burned my name in the woodwork. It is a good thing to insist, as long as it is done smartly and politely. When the goals you want to achieve rely on other people's decision, you should make sure that at least the message has been heard, don't you think? Giving up too early would be a huge mistake.

That minor thing notwithstanding, not only we are in complete agreement, but I must once again stress that I love reading your posts. I kind of imagine you with Clint Eastwood's voice when I read them

 

[magic fingers]

Not married. Not seeing anyone. Still live at home. Thats what I mean about lying. If I were to go out for half day, those in my life will ask me what I was doing. I really don't want to lie, it sucks.

Dude several people have given you suggestions and you keep shooting them down. You live at home, you don't want to lie, you don't have money, whatever. Sorry for the judgement, but it seems like you just want people to feel sorry for you. I know because I used to be the same way. If you want to leave for a tickling session, you're going to have to lie. You say it sucks, but is it worse than having your fetish go unfulfilled? If you don't like living at home, get a job and move out. I don't know how old you are but the only thing stopping you from being tickled is you.

I don't even live in NY, and in the last day I've received emails for 2 seperate foot parties in NY, and 1 in Philly. And I know from experience, some of the girls at those parties will tickle you without mercy.

Forget video producers. They usually don't do F/M and when they do, it's always jocks, male models, or guys they already know. There are also fetish/S&M dungeons, BDSM escorts, etc. And finally there are also gatherings in NYC promoted on this forum.

I don't know how well any of these options will work for you, but I do know this; If you're waiting for a pretty girl to show up at your front door w/handcuffs and a feather, you're going to be sorely disappointed.

 

[SoleMates]

SolesMates, I absolutely love to read your posts. They are always so clear-cut, no-nonsensical and to-the-point that you really give a big "professional" vibe. I also learn stuff by reading you: I had no idea that there were people who harassed producers to "get their hands on [your] models"; I find the image a little bit disturbing to be honest. If people did not have your ethics, I think our industry could turn into something very, very nasty.

Thanks! Although to be fair, there are unethical producers out there. You just won't hear about them much for various reasons.

There is only one thing that I disagree with: unless I misunderstood what you said, follow-ups are the key to a successful endeavor.

You're not wrong. I wouldn't say "one followup" is a hard-and-fast rule, but it's been my experience (in the tech world, at least) that yes, they got your message, and if they wanted to talk to you they'd have returned it. Then again, I tend to work with people whose jobs revolve around this sort of thing and if they're so overworked or disorganized that they need to be prodded to follow up, they're not worth dealing with.

For a tickle producer, though? As a male, you are not in demand. In other fields, you stand a chance of being so amazing that they just have to get you on board, so "prying doors open with a crowbar" is an effective strategy. Here, a lukewarm reaction at best coupled with the natural suspicion that you're a desperate goob using "modeling" as a cover story means we lose nothing by ignoring you if you don't take "no" for an answer.

But, that's just me. Other producers may feel differently, but if the OP truly is poking them every week then I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if they'd kinda like him to stop.

 

[Tenebrae]

Thanks! Although to be fair, there are unethical producers out there. You just won't hear about them much for various reasons.

<shivers> The girls who still apply for the job despite the risks deserve all the more praise then!

You're not wrong. I wouldn't say "one followup" is a hard-and-fast rule, but it's been my experience (in the tech world, at least) that yes, they got your message, and if they wanted to talk to you they'd have returned it. Then again, I tend to work with people whose jobs revolve around this sort of thing and if they're so overworked or disorganized that they need to be prodded to follow up, they're not worth dealing with.

I used to date a girl who was in the tech world; she was working in the sales department of a software company. Her iPhone would at all times display a 30+ unread email count, no matter how many she would go through during the day. She would get emails when she was asleep. When she was on her way to work. When she was in the bathroom. ALL THE TIME. So it would be inevitable that she overlooked 1 message at one point. And more importantly, she knew that it was possible that her customer would at some time miss or misread an important message for the same reason; hence the need to follow up. Assuming that people actually read what we send them like we are an important person would be a mistake, nowadays. Yes the messages do arrive, but whether they are given the time and consideration we expect is another thing entirely.

I see this modeling thing like applying for a job. And I never ever failed to follow-up many times with a potential employer if I am really interested in a job. And if I did not get the job, I would always ask, again politely, what was the turnoff, trying to read between the lines, because the answer would not always be sincere.

Once again, I understand what you are saying. But there are some young people here on this forum, and a characteristic feature of the so-called "millennials" these days is that they lack confidence, and often fail to pursue their dreams for lack of trying hard. I wanted to stress just how wrong I think that is; I have been in the position of the recruiter, in my company, and I have seen how it works. Opportunities don't just show up, one has to create them. Be polite, but be aggressive, show that you want the position, that sort of thing. I admit, though: we are talking about fetish videos here and maybe I am overthinking this. After all another thing that millennials do not like is to be given advice by people who are barely older than them

For a tickle producer, though? As a male, you are not in demand. In other fields, you stand a chance of being so amazing that they just have to get you on board, so "prying doors open with a crowbar" is an effective strategy. Here, a lukewarm reaction at best coupled with the natural suspicion that you're a desperate goob using "modeling" as a cover story means we lose nothing by ignoring you if you don't take "no" for an answer.

But, that's just me. Other producers may feel differently, but if the OP truly is poking them every week then I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if they'd kinda like him to stop.

Well said.

 

[TicklishTklr66]

Thanks WildLaughter for your response. There are some good people on this thread giving sound advice. Finding someone into tickling like yourself does take time and you do need to put the work in without coming off being pushy. I do wish you the best in finding what you are looking for.

 

[WildLaughter]

Name a casino nearby the destination?

"Me and a friend are taking a day trip to ______".

I remember when I lived around your area in a dorm myspace made finding people to talk to a little easier.

If you don't use Happn, Tinder, POF, OKC.....you're gonna miss out. It's not a cure all but knowing what's in your backyard will help you. Talk a little while, if you get "what do you want", well, there you go.

What is POF? OKC is ok cupid?

 

[magic fingers]

What is POF? OKC is ok cupid?

POF is Plenty Of Fish. It's a dating website

 

[duderino84]

^right he is. Yes, okc is ok cupid. I used to use Meetme, but it's been engineered to be more bland (blandineered?) Than it used to be (asking anonymous questions, open profiles etc).

 

[CapturedDoll]

I don't know what your problem is WildLaughter... but one of your biggest problems is you don't understand when someone is telling you no. Or... "I can't help you anymore. Good luck." Like I just did.

Continuing to write someone after they (I) literally said: "I do not have the knowledge or resources to help you any further." Among other niceties and forms of shutting down the conversation. You don't understand social cues. Here is a clearly written statement you should be able to understand. Do NOT contact me again. You are getting blocked today.

And its not because you were actually rude to me. But you are rude in the sense you think the world revolves around you. And it doesn't matter that I have written. I. CAN'T. Help. You. And I spent hours trying within my writing back to you and within this thread. HOURS.

Get a clue. PLEASE.

P.S. I am one of the most easy going and friendly people here. The fact that I'M irritated... bordering on angry.... should be a BIG clue you are doing something wrong. Next time... just say "thank you for your time" and move ON.