Okay. I'm gonna make it short and sweet. I have an older brother who basically has done nothing but take advantage of my dad and I for the last 15 years. He is 32 years old, still lives at home, does drugs, and won't keep a job. He has 2 kids that half of the time we end up watching for him. He has taken my belongings and pawned them for drug money, even when he had his own money, which he blew on God knows what. He has taken my dad's credit card countless times and has used it against my dad's will. The only reason my dad won't turn him in to the police is because of the kids, and the fact that he is his son. He takes advantage of my dad and I every chance he gets. Takes my car without asking, takes money from my wallet ect...
He always has this victim mentality that pisses me off. Bottom line, he is the most selfish human being that I have ever met, and I am starting to truly hate him. How does he think he is the victim when all he does is cause problems for others? I honestly don't know what to do... My dad won't grow a backbone even though he is the one that suffers the most from all of this.
Whats worse, is I never confront him about these issues. I am by nature a very peacful person and I don't like confrontation. I simply can't handle being taken advantage of anymore. I feel like I'm gonna go crazy. How should I confront him? I know he gets VERY defensive... and I'm afraid I'll lose my temper once I hear one of his bullshit excuses.
What can I do? What do you think I should do?
He always has this victim mentality that pisses me off. Bottom line, he is the most selfish human being that I have ever met, and I am starting to truly hate him. How does he think he is the victim when all he does is cause problems for others? I honestly don't know what to do... My dad won't grow a backbone even though he is the one that suffers the most from all of this.
Whats worse, is I never confront him about these issues. I am by nature a very peacful person and I don't like confrontation. I simply can't handle being taken advantage of anymore. I feel like I'm gonna go crazy. How should I confront him? I know he gets VERY defensive... and I'm afraid I'll lose my temper once I hear one of his bullshit excuses.
What can I do? What do you think I should do?