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I'm Straight....

Jason Reborn

Jason Reborn

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But yet, I get more "excited" watching a MMMM/M video than I do any F/M or F/F video...what does that mean?!?
 
What does it mean? Not much. I've always enjoyed those MMMM/M scenarios more because as a switch I got off on enjoying the guys' reactions on both sides of the equations -- I could relate to the wicked tops working the guy over and the poor helpless victim, and enjoying them both. Of course, turns out I'm bi so that may have been part of it. But in answer to your question, it means that like lots of people here, you get off on tickle porn, you get off more easily by watching guys tickle and be tickled, and orientation-wise, you're attracted sexually to whomever you're attracted to -- probably women, since, as you said, you're straight. :)
 
Euphoric during the actual tickling, but nervous and uncomfortable leading up to it...
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You might not be as straight as you think.
 
It probably means that its the actual tickling/helplessness that does it for you rather than the person doing it. ANd maybe you would feel too humiliated letting or having a girl do that to you or feel she could not handle you in that situation.

It could also mean your gay or bi but for what you was i doubt it
 
It probably means that its the actual tickling/helplessness that does it for you rather than the person doing it
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I would think that in that case he wouldn't care if he gets tickled by guys or gals.
 
I've never found that the eroticism I derive from stories and media correlates to, or depends on, my biological attraction. Even if you aren't sexually drawn to a person, of course you can still empathize with an erotic situation depicted using them. I think it means you're human and not willfully stifling your imagination.
 
tickledorange said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

There are people who identify not with being gay, straight, or bi. They have feelings for either gender without fitting into one of these categories. I usually fall between Kinsey-1 and Kinsey-2.
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How can you have feelings for either gender without falling into the category which is defined as having feelings for both genders (i.e. "bisexual")? The scale you cited clearly defines people's sexual favor into those three categories, except if they are asexual.

I think the fact that gays and bisexuals sometimes have a hard time to admit to themselves that they are gay or bisexual is a legacy from times when Jews were thought to be moneygrubbing, "Negroes" to be less intelligent than humans, homosexuals to be a little fruity unless they are women. Some uncles in the Midwest still seem to have that attitude.
 
Because sometimes the feelings for one gender may not be the same feelings that you have for another gender. For example, I can play with other women and also men, but I only seek romantic relationships with men. I feel a strong connection with other women, but it will never be the same as it is with a man.
 
For example, I can play with other women and also men, but I only seek romantic relationships with men.
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Having sexual feelings for both genders means you are bisexual. Regardless if you go for relationships only with men. A friend of mine is also attracted to both genders and only has relationships with men. She most definitely is bisexual.
 
... I think it means you get off on mmmm/m. And if you are attracted to women but not men, then you are attracted to women and also get off on mmmm/m.

Don't try to label yourself. Loads of people will try to put you into their orderly conventional categories of bi or straight or gay because those categories are established and it's easy to think of you in those terms. But labeling yourself is not as important as identifying to yourself and communicating to your partner what you like.
 
ticklebrowse26 said:
Don't try to label yourself. Loads of people will try to put you into their orderly conventional categories of bi or straight or gay because those categories are established and it's easy to think of you in those terms. But labeling yourself is not as important as identifying to yourself and communicating to your partner what you like.
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THANK YOU.

Sexuality can be vastly more complex and multifaceted then people give it credit for. For example, I remember reading a Savage Love column one time where a straight reader asked Dan Savage why he got so turned on by the thought of another man fucking his wife. Dan referenced a scientific hypothesis that while humans were evolving it'd be common for prehistoric males to run a train on a females since it was the best way to ensure pregnancy and, therefore, survival of the species. This left a trigger in the genetic code that explains why many straight men get turned on by seeing dudes fuck chicks. This also explains why straight guys still watch man-on-woman pornography.

Sexuality is also closely linked with the psychological needs for submission and dominance. Traditionally men are dominant in bed and women submissive, but like in so many things in human personality that isn't an absolute rule. I've witnessed this a lot as a bisexual ticklephile: I've pen pal-ed and rp-ed with many men on this website who want to have a tickle session with me but find anything "beyond" that repulsive. I've also corresponded with many and actually met a few men on Craigslist who want a "no strings attached" fuck - they are turned on by the thought of dominating a man or submitting to him via sex acts but absolutely by no means are they interested in kissing, cuddling, or a relationship. These are simply expressions of the D/s need in people divorced from their larger sexuality. It can happen.

My guess in your case? You have a sexually submissive side that you haven't really explored. Doesn't mean you want to date or marry or even make out with a man. My advice to you? Same as ticklebrowse26 - accept it and not care about labels. So you're turned on by men gang tickling another dude? It's 2012, who cares.
 
Interesting arguements have been raised by many here! I can only speak from experience. I used to identify as a straight gal that would like to have abit of F/F fun on the side, that later progressed to identifying as bi, but eventually you just have to be honest with yourself (labels or not) and really ask yourself what turns you on. I now (and only very recently) have realised that I am infact more gay than anything else. I think if you are having any feelings or fantasies involved with having men tickle you you are probably somewhat inclined to be attracted to them sexually. I'm not sure how strong that attraction is for you truly, but its definatley there and through my experience I have realised that it can't be surpressed forever-either consciously or unconsciously.
 
If you get excited watching M/M material, then your either gay or bi. its plain and simple. no need for all this psychology crap.
 
rhiannon said:
Having sexual feelings for both genders means you are bisexual. Regardless if you go for relationships only with men. A friend of mine is also attracted to both genders and only has relationships with men. She most definitely is bisexual.
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That's how I am as well. Sexually attracted to both genders, but only emotionally/mentally attracted to men, and only date men.
 
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