I'm thinking about leaving this site.

[*~Game Girl~*]

Several reasons why I might leave.

1) Middle aged men are not taking the hint when I say 'I'm not gonna give anyone a photo of myself.'...Said middle aged men also forget I am only 18 years old. In my honest opinion, 50 year olds flirting with 18 year olds is wrong. Just because I'm legal, dosen't mean I'm interested. >=(

2) The fact that some people are too...obsessed with this fetish. Liking it is great and all. But some people....Well..go too far....I'm not going into that one. XP

3) Too many sexual things....I'd liek to look at a tickle pic without having a big cock or a pair of tits visible. =( But thats all I'm seeing...I'm failing to see the playfulness...But thats jsut me I guess. D:

4) Did I mention the middle aged men? If I did, then sorry. XD

All in all. I don't think this is the site for me. Too sexual and full of perverts not getting the hint I'm trying to throw at them.

I might go back to the ATF. It's full of lulz. XD

 

[Leo tickles]

 

[AngelOfDarkness]

I might go back to the ATF. It's full of lulz. XD

Agreed. ATF=

 

[Strider]

Perhaps it's just my old age speaking, but what's ATF?

 

[AngelOfDarkness]

Perhaps it's just my old age speaking, but what's ATF?

The ATF is an anime-tickling website.

 

[*~Game Girl~*]

Well..It has tickle material. But it's more for general talk and humour. hardly anyone posts in the tickle section. We're all kinda...insane there....We rely on cheap laughs and internet memes. XD

 

[alf]

It's damn to see that some are kinda sexual perverts ( at least i get it as if from the whole reading ) and can't get of rid of asking, expecting i don't know what. Chatting/replying to pm's does not mean that you are a potential ticklee who right away agrees to all.

Foolish mortals ( to quote teh famous Biscuit )

 

[tcklft]

Bye-bye!

 

[Bugman]

I remember your first post here,and i must admit i have always been a bit puzzled about your reasons for joining the TMF.Whatever you decide to do,best of luck to you.

 

[unclebill]

It seems that you are painting all middle aged men in this forum with the same brush, which is very unfortunate. I`ve had the pleasure of meeting some of the "middle aged perverts" at two different west coast gatherings, and they all seemed like gentlemen to me. Oh well, thanks for the notice about your departure.

 

[Smade]

so leave - you won't be missed

 

[*~Game Girl~*]

Oh, fucking charming. >=/

 

[Mitchell]

I have to agree with Bill. I messaged you some time back, and you did not reply. Fine, I accept that. I dont know if you consider me "middle aged" (I'm almost 38, which is much older than 18, but, when I do talk to girls, which is rare, because I'm not around here much anymore, I never message people to ask for pictures, or to cyber. I just like to chat, and get to know people. I have always hoped to build a rapport to chat as people, about tickling, and other things, instead of "Hi, I'm Mitchell, even though you've never talked to me in your life, send me your picture, and let's cyber". For those who do that, it's their way,. but it isnt my way.

As with any site, you will have good experiences with people, and not so good. I try to take the good with the bad. There are really only two choices. Either try to seperate the good from the bad, and realize that in a site of 50,000 people, there are going to be people you dont like. Or, if you find it that unpleasant, then perhaps this isnt the site for you. No one can decide that for you but you.

I can honestly see both sides of the argument in leaving or staying. It really depends on what you expect. Whatever you decide, Good Luck.

Mitch

 

[Smade]

you said it, kid. What did you expect - a mention on the Two Ronnies?

 

[*~Game Girl~*]

FINALLY!! Someone gets it that I'm practically a kid. Anyone under 20 is still basically a kid. So why am I getting 50 year olds asking for my picture? >=/

 

[SmarterthanU]

Best of luck to you. There's no reason for an 18 year-old to be hanging out on the web anyway - get outside, grow up and live life!

 

[Smade]

OK - can you send me a picture aged about 30 years.

 

[Mitchell]

To answer your question, and this isnt true for all middle aged guys, but, you have to remember this is still a sex fetish website. People who come to this site are turned on by tickling, and, if they see a hot girl, they can get more turned on.

Have you ever noticed how it is when people join the site, especially girls? I've seen instances where a girl has just registered, and she's immediately checking her private messages. Some guys enjoy the idea of messaging girls for cyber tickling, or cyber sex. This site is about tickling, but it is also about fantasy. If a middle aged guy can fantasize about a hot barely legal girl, then why not?

It really comes down to what you want and expect. If you want to, put in your profile "No messages from guys over whatever age". Then, if you get them, delete them,, and put them on ignore. I've spoken to very nice girls of all ages in my five years here, because, my approach was clear. I just chat, and dont message every girl looking for cyber. A statement in your profile of what age you want to hear from, might help.

Mitch

 

[badreligion]

personally i feel for the girl ive seen some of the stuff shes describing

about some of th emiddle aged men * not all but some * harassing the younger girl

ive even seen one person .... wont name names but lets just say it rhymes with ficklecave07 driving a girl to the point of leaving the site with his constant bombardment of PMs and distrubing storys written about her with out her permission

and truthfully alot of the young girls on this site * 18 - 20* do have to put up with it and honestly im not surprised shes fed up with it , iw ould be

 

[the wiz]

FINALLY!! Someone gets it that I'm practically a kid. Anyone under 20 is still basically a kid. So why am I getting 50 year olds asking for my picture? >=/

As a almost 50 yo male i to agree with you; if you do not wish to be bothered by them tell them. if they continue contact a MOD; this is their job to protect you from people like them. You should fully utilize the protection in place. no matter what site you become a member of these same people are there and looking for kids like you.

As for the sexual content; i also do not like mixing sex with tickling; however this is an adult site and it try to accommodate everyones taste. All I can say is' don't look at it.

This is one of the best site for communicating with true tickling phobes; don't miss the forest because of a few bad trees. (old people talk for; don't allow a few negative things to cause you to loss out).

hate to see you go, but in the eyes of the law, your old enough to make your own decisions

 

[maniactickler]

FINALLY!! Someone gets it that I'm practically a kid. Anyone under 20 is still basically a kid. So why am I getting 50 year olds asking for my picture? >=/

Apparently you dont understand life. its only the natural male instinct to pursue a woman of any age, but particularly younger women. been that way since the beginning of time, and it will be that way until the end of time. porn is a billion dollar industry with feeds off 18 to 21 year old women. not 30s and 40s. you just have to deal with it. if you have an issue with men, take it up with the almighty creator.

 

[Smade]

In the light of the above posts I wish to apologise for my earlier comments.

It was my impression that anyone joining the forum would be screened from such advances and the administrator was able to filter unwanted requests. If you are being bothered I suggest immediately contacting the administrators of the forum.

 

[Capnmad]

First, nothing holds you here but you. Come and go as you like.

Several reasons why I might leave.

1) Middle aged men are not taking the hint when I say 'I'm not gonna give anyone a photo of myself.'...Said middle aged men also forget I am only 18 years old. In my honest opinion, 50 year olds flirting with 18 year olds is wrong. Just because I'm legal, dosen't mean I'm interested. >=(

I trust you've told them that, or hopefully they've read it here. Creeps come in all ages and annoy who they choose. You cannot control the behavior of others. You can only control yours. If they annoy you, contact a mod, ignore them, put them on ignore, tell them off, leave, or whatever suits you. The options are myriad. Some options are less desirable than others, but then, some people seem more open to advice than others. You strike me as someone who wants no advice but makes her own decisions, good or ill.

Now go to it.

2) The fact that some people are too...obsessed with this fetish. Liking it is great and all. But some people....Well..go too far....I'm not going into that one. XP

Some people like chocolate, some vanilla, some rocky road with whips and chains mixed in. Eat what you like, let others eat what they like. Live and let live.

3) Too many sexual things....I'd liek to look at a tickle pic without having a big cock or a pair of tits visible. =( But thats all I'm seeing...I'm failing to see the playfulness...But thats jsut me I guess. D:

It's an adult site, Game. Sometimes those things are there. Sometimes they're not. They're not always well-marked. No one anywhere has ever been granted the right to never be exposed to anything they find offensive, and none ever will. If the feel of this site overall is not sufficiently to your liking, perhaps ATF will better suit your interests.

4) Did I mention the middle aged men? If I did, then sorry. XD

Maybe they think you have "daddy issues". Dunno. But men will often seek out younger females. It's a genetic predisposition thing in seeking signs of fertility. Shame you're catching a lot of it, but that's life sometimes.

All in all. I don't think this is the site for me. Too sexual and full of perverts not getting the hint I'm trying to throw at them.

Don't hint. Tell. Explicitly. Men are often dull sods who like to think themselves perceptive but don't learn from their mistakes or those of others. Heck -- that can be said of most the human race, somedays. Beat them over the head with you message if they're not getting it, tell a mod, or ignore them. Choice is yours.

I might go back to the ATF. It's full of lulz. XD

As you wish.

Be well.

 

[Mitchell]

Game Girl, one piece of advice. This isnt a criticism, just an observation.

Generally, many people dont respond well to an "I'm thinking of leaving this site thread". A forum like this has so many members, that, unless it was a mod, or the most prominent poster on the forum who leaves, one member leaving wont often cause a stir. You will, unfortunately, receive many responses of "Who cares, go".

To me, if I was posting a thread such as this, I would post one of two things. A. Something such as "My experience on this site could be made better if", or "I wish that there was more of "Whatever". on this site. Generally, people receive a more positive response to threads like that, then they do to a thread like this.

I've found, that one of two approaches works. A., either the approach I mentioned, or B. If you really are that unhappy, and decide to leave, a post of "I'm leaving, farewell, for X, Y, and Z reasons" is generally more well received than a "I'm thinking of leaving". Were it me, I would either post a thread ike the one I mentioned, or a farewell post, stating why I left. A post such as this, can be insighting for negative feedback.

I hope you will take what I said as constructive, because I really meant it to be. I'm by no means attacking, or criticizing, you, just pointing out another means of getting your message across, in a way it can be received more positively.

Mitch

 

[Tickle Fiend]

I think that any female on this type of site will have the same problems. Women are the minority, and you have men on here who are looking for women to tickle. Women in their 20's, 30's, and 40's will have the same people coming after them. It's kinda weird to have older guys going after the younger women on the site, but it's not illegal. I guess you should just be straight-up. If they don't get the picture after that, then you should create a thread listing all the names of the middle-aged men who have harassed you. I'm sure people will think twice about bothering you after that.